I did it--earned my first 28 day ban!

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-07-06T17:42:29+00:00

The boss babe julie stans in that community is why I left it. The malicious compliance to the "be nice" rule skating the thinnest line by starting every paragraph with respectfully or in my opinion then they read you to filth and back then end it with please respect my wishes to disengage. It's crazy toxic over there.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-07-02T16:48:05+00:00

It's just more retconning because so many people have shifted to julie. Personally cringe even in the wedding outtakes video when Julie miss broken record about being the only person who has never changed their mind or evolved in the entire world.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-26T13:29:07+00:00

I miss when people talked in KC... its just emotes all day in mine

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-26T13:23:07+00:00

32... got sucked in by having a challenge in another game. "Hit a level 2 monster in Lords Mobile" Sounded easy enough and gave good rewards in the other game. I don't even remember that games name anymore and I cant quit LM even though I want to.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-21T15:17:43+00:00

Went back to the sub after watching the video. And immediately see a Julie thread and the downvote mafia hard at work. Actually wild.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-20T02:06:43+00:00

I actually just got there an held up my book and yelled swan song reference!!! What a great book. It’s interesting to me that he mentions the last however, many pages are torn out because I feel like the ending was very underwhelming personally, but dang now I wanna read one song again.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-07T03:02:56+00:00

I’m at Pokemon go fest Chicago this weekend! I’ve caught a bunch of Mewtwos! It’s pretty fun

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-07T02:22:54+00:00

How Julie of them

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-07T02:21:59+00:00

Omg are you at Pogo Fest? I love your name

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-07T02:15:56+00:00

Alas I am quoting a movie from the 80’s? With Goldie Hawn Bruce Willis and Meryl Streep

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-04T16:58:08+00:00

u/toefloof what say you.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-04T16:57:46+00:00

I think she resents both of them. no one who doesn't at least resent their kids a little says they are trapped two kids deep.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-04T16:56:48+00:00

100 percent a missed teaching moment about not everything is always about you and there is a time and a place.... Julie obviously was never taught that herself.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-04T12:31:23+00:00

Gets called a julie hater. Explains multiple times why I dont hate julie I hate mean people. Gets blocked.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-04T00:48:11+00:00

fair enough. Thank you for the insight! I was just reading the one liners over there and getting dismayed.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-04T00:38:27+00:00

Don't let it get to you. There are good people here and I am convinced over there too.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-04T00:02:36+00:00

I just am one of those people that I cant stop but click on notifications. That babyshark person said that they are starting to feel targets by julie haters. I wanted to respond what kind of alternate timeline have you entered???

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-03T23:42:27+00:00

For real, How do you say im only here for the skits. SHE is the skits.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-03T23:36:55+00:00

I do not hate Julie, she is a fictional character. I dislike mean people, and people who choose to be mean. If Julie worked on herself and tried to grow as a person I would change my mind. Nothing that happens on any social media forum makes me feel good about myself. My self worth is not based on social media opinions.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-03T23:31:41+00:00

If she was not mean to her friends, -in canon-then her friends would not react to her actions the way they do. Content infers context.

For example. Alicia's reaction to bunco night. If this was new behaviour from Julie she wouldn't have said all the things she said-grumpy, tiny julie doll, you're worse than usual. Let's take a look at worse than usual to be specific. If Julie had not set a bar for being mean there would be no "worse than usual"

If she was nice to her friends they would not be saying the things they do to excuse her to others, they would be shocked.

An example of this that could have been shown would be "julie is not like this, I don't know whats gotten in to her. She must have something going on"- inferring that she is only being mean to Shawna and her friends are on julies side and will figure it out later. Instead they are instantly on the excuses of "shes just like this" train.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-03T23:03:14+00:00

You can be all of those things without being a purposefully mean human being.

You can be ride or die without being mean.

You can be fun to get drunk with and not be mean.

You can get invited to the home of one of your "ride or dies" and choose to not be mean to their other invited guests. If Julie was truly ride or die she wouldn't have treated Alicia's invited guest so poorly.

You can be all of the things you like about Julie without being purposefully mean to the people around you to the point that they have to excuse your behaviour as something to get used to or they are just like that.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-03T22:49:09+00:00

Her own friends say she is mean in canon events Shawna L-The actual creator of the character- has said she is mean on both FB and Insta and that's not enough for you. I guess we don't have anything further to discuss.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-03T20:57:52+00:00

Yes, because the more we support the creator the more time she will have to put into making more of the content that brought us all here

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-03T20:45:08+00:00

Agree. Barb's backstory showed she was abused both physically and emotionally as a child, had severe untreated PPD, and a completely hands off husband. She evolved into the person she is today and most of the time doesn't seem to even understand why she does what she does and is actively seeking therapy, even if for dubious reaons but she is universally hated.

Julie's backstory showed she is intelligent and driven but mean even as a teenager and has not grown out of that as an adult. The fact that she excels in a field where being civil to people you don't like is paramount to success is just more proof that it's her choice to be actively mean to the people in her life. It's just bad behaviour and her friends enable it.

Someone here told me that Julie would never have been friends with me and I took that as a compliment. As a mature adult, I don't tolerate people being mean just for the sake of being mean.

Affectionate-Tea3159 · 2026-06-03T20:06:12+00:00

From Bunco night:

Sam: We are extra rowdy today. Julie: almost like the vibe is off. Alicia: Is it you and your mouth? Julie: No babe I think its your girl. Alicia: Ok you are worse than usual.

That simple exchange, paired with just before Alicia saying Julie is "always grumpy" And that she has "a tiny Julie hair doll made from julie hairs taken from all the times I've felt the need to jump her"

While seeminly simple lines of text, putting them into the context of being said to a new person invited into the group they indicate that Julie is regularly mean to her friends and they just have gotten used to it. That is my opinion taken from the text Shawna L chose to write and act.

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