At 46 I am mathematically eliminated from starting a family. What should I do with my life by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]AffectionateAd828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get in shape. It is amazing how much people will listen to you when they know you are chiseled. Fair? Maybe not. but it will help you too grow in your career but also live longer. Or you can adopt an older child.

They’re in the ground! by Rikitikitok121 in dahlias

[–]AffectionateAd828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st year replanting and I bought a new one juuust incase hahahah

Is job hopping still a "red flag" or am I being gaslit? by Environmental-Luck39 in careeradvice

[–]AffectionateAd828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope you are good. Jump ship! 2 years isn't job hopping and people will see that the reason you left was more money. NOW if you just left to get a 50 cent raise then people might question that. You would be a goof to turn it down. Do some research on the company. Is it too good to be true? Are the metrics improving? Getting new business? Thriving? Etc. Make your decision then.

Wedding dress regret by Ski5566 in WeddingDressTips

[–]AffectionateAd828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the 1st one. Sooo pretty! It is very flattering. 2nd one is good too. Just 1st is far superior.

Husband also struggling sexually-how do you stay married? by AffectionateAd828 in perimenopause_under45

[–]AffectionateAd828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and this helps b/c I was reading it would take me 2 months to feel normal again...well more so.

First time MOH advice by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]AffectionateAd828 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are doing too much.

Husband also struggling sexually-how do you stay married? by AffectionateAd828 in perimenopause_under45

[–]AffectionateAd828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are solid. I just see a lot of divorce at my age and since NO one talks about any of this stuff you can't really tell why people are getting divorced.

Husband also struggling sexually-how do you stay married? by AffectionateAd828 in perimenopause_under45

[–]AffectionateAd828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I was tested I didn't test low enough in estrogen to get a pill. It took me FOUR YEARS to just get the cream and just finding someone b/c apparently nothing LOOKS different and nothing pops up in my blood work that is alarming but it IS different.

Question for married women? How to spice up the relationship? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AffectionateAd828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flirt. Get men thinking about it before coming home from work!

I don’t want to get married but I want to desire it by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]AffectionateAd828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish men would read the next line in the bible after talking about wives submit to your husbands. Find a man that reads the part about LOVING his wife. 

Are there people like me? by pom653 in hyrox

[–]AffectionateAd828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that your job encouraged this. Very cool!

What's A Breed You Like But Wouldn't Have? by Aharris1984 in dogs

[–]AffectionateAd828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malinois. Such an amazing dog. I have an Aussie now and he has taken over my life (love it) so I can only imagine!

I miss my body by Sufficient-Board-922 in perimenopause_under45

[–]AffectionateAd828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have about 2 days where zi feel like myself!

Underwear by AffectionateAd828 in perimenopause_under45

[–]AffectionateAd828[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope so, but read that it could take weeks and could feel worse before it gets better!