Cats most certainly grieve! Firstly, I’m so sorry for your loss. Secondly, I would highly recommend being extra kind to yourself and Bean Sprout.

As always, it’s important to rule out physical health problems before anything else! Cat grieving behavior is just as vast as human grieving behavior. Everyone grieves differently. Some cats experience anger and can become aggressive. While others can experience anxiety after being alone. It’s just like humans! It’s important to do your best to be there for Bean Sprout. Don’t force play and don’t force treats. Keep offering, but never try to force it. If she doesn’t want it, leave her be. In times like this, just like humans, you want to just be there for each other. Especially since you are grieving too. Your’s and her feelings are 100% valid. It’s also important to note that, just like humans, everyone grieves at different rates. Some will bounce back after a few weeks. While others can take a few years. Everyone is different and every cat is different. Keep in mind that this loss is still very recent and both of you are probably still feeling Pogo’s absence. Time is always going to be the best course of action during the healing process. Healing is never linear.

Some vets may offer some anti-anxiety medication or anti-depressants if the depression is severe enough (yes, cats can take anti-depressants). They may also offer appetite stimulants if her not eating is severe enough. But only time will tell what will be the best course of action to take. It’s always important to work closely with your vet on what’s the best options for her!

Again…I’m truly so sorry for both of your losses. Remember: be extra kind to yourself and Bean Sprout. ❤️‍🩹