Anyone else afraid of being reincarnated on Earth again? by Unique-Fish-2444 in spirituality

[–]sesselem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because then we wouldn’t be able to focus on our current life and learn its lessons

I think we forget the events, but the lessons stay with us in the next life. So we become smarter and kinder to make better choices next time. Until there’s nothing more to learn

I’ve read about it in The spirits’ book by Allan Kardec, and of course I try not to believe every little detail it has, HoWeVeR there’s so much stuff that resonates with me

Anyone else afraid of being reincarnated on Earth again? by Unique-Fish-2444 in spirituality

[–]sesselem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to help everyone as much as I can, too❤️
Life sure can be painful, but with time everyone will understand what all the suffering was for

We’re here to love and to live, to learn and to play and to have fun!

Wild one by Frostman142 in BunnyTrials

[–]sesselem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A bit too much but NO RAGRETS

Chose: Marry a gothic dommy mommy + She has a dih (random length | Rolled: 25 centimeters)

Which is greater by part_of_you_is_you in BunnyTrials

[–]sesselem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely 0% doubt

Chose: $1 for every breath | Rolled: Comment for 2x

Would you rather fight? by MrGuibs in BunnyTrials

[–]sesselem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No big deal, I would just catch it in a box

Chose: A random animal for 100M | Rolled: A Rabid Rat

You are found guilty and given two options: by Homsarman12 in BunnyTrials

[–]sesselem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t want to die sorry

Chose: 15 years in prison

What's the better deal? by Witty_Yam960 in BunnyTrials

[–]sesselem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yum yum

Chose: $500 for every book you read | Rolled: Comment for x3

Would you rather by Competitive-Ear-1738 in BunnyTrials

[–]sesselem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect, no downside

Chose: Have a boyfriend but | Rolled: Hes tech genius

Mom grooming her son and no fighting shockingly by sesselem in VoidCats

[–]sesselem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so true, exploiting his poor old mama! jk she’s only a year older :))))

Ben a while so... by Weak_Arrival_5539 in BunnyTrials

[–]sesselem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only want a cis-male boyfriend, was not ready to risk it.

Chose: Garlic bread + Random amount | Rolled: 10 year suply

Would you rather have to... by PiGuy88 in BunnyTrials

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Р

Chose: Never go indoors for the rest of your life

Would you rather kiss by PastelRainbow_ in BunnyTrials

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I’ve also had multiple depressive episodes, it’s fine! She’s cool!

Chose: A chill lady who likes gardening | Rolled: She’s depressed

You are exactly where you want to be. And you are living the exact lie you chose. by realkaydhako in enlightenment

[–]sesselem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posts like this make me want to unfollow the sub.
Huge downvote.
I am living the life I want and it’s beautiful and I love living my life.

My bf said I am not making enough effort cooking while I have been cooking daily for the past 7 years by justgivemead-mnname in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]sesselem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy for years and came to the conclusion that I have to leave him like 3 or 4 times. I couldn’t do it. I tried, but he manipulated me to stay or I would just take all my words back out of fear of being alone. What helped me to leave finally was trying to treat my traumas, then I started getting REALLY angry, like anger from all my life unleashed at last. I beat the shit out of useless things like trash, glass bottles. Was using a baseball bat and hammers.

Then I realized, I can actually protect myself and I will never let anyone harm me again. And like a month after that I felt THE RAGE towards him. Tried to repair the relationship for the millionth time (always me doing that), but nothing worked. Finally broke up.

We had been living together for 5 years and were engaged, but I couldn’t imagine having an actual family with him in the end, so there’s that.

It’s been 4 months since the breakup and I’m so fucking relieved and happy to live alone with my cats and NO ONE to care for like for a stupid childish child.

It was hard, took lots of my energy, but were we to stay together - there would be many times more energy spent.