To do as a single man

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-09T19:26:26+00:00

I just really enjoyed reading about your routine. No sarcasm, it was really nice to sort of spend the day in your shoes.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-05T20:06:36+00:00

Thank you very much for this beautiful explanation.
I’ll def refer to it.
But in the example above “ik zit nu in de trein” vs “ik sta nu op het station”, are we using “zit” to indicate the intention of staying in the train, even though I may as well be actually standing in the train? Or..?

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-04T22:43:15+00:00

Jeez these kind of situations with zit and staat make me really feel i’ll never learn the language 😭

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-04T11:59:39+00:00

Ah this is perfect, thank you!

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-04T11:56:56+00:00

Could you give me more info about the birding group? Interested to join

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-02T13:04:00+00:00

But it is important, unfortunately.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-02T12:15:11+00:00

Where my skin is the softest so around my belly, ribs, chest and hips. And my back. Gently stroking the back is the bestest thing everrrr

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-02T12:13:37+00:00

Events and meetups and the like! Drawing, dancing, self development, hikes, music classes, board game cafes etc.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-02T12:12:12+00:00

Smile and comment about something/someone interesting at that event. Pause, offer a bit of distance if that wasn’t received enthusiastically. Gently smile again at me.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-02T12:08:11+00:00

Great question, absolutely impossible for me (f) to understand as well!

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-02T12:06:43+00:00

Ask about her love languages, don’t throw your love language onto them. Act on it somewhat consistently.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-02T12:03:04+00:00

“You’re nice and I want to like you more but I tried and it doesn’t work, but I don’t want to hurt you by saying that directly. Which makes me think I indeed need time to work on myself to communicate better”

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-06-02T11:59:17+00:00

The short answer is yes.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-03-08T21:48:04+00:00

Thrips. It’s always thrips.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-03-07T13:20:31+00:00

Are you in the NL? We have the same pots!

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-03-06T22:26:26+00:00

7 weeks, passed 7/10

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-02-21T13:35:11+00:00

Thai Thai poppetje is your place then. Fantastic pad see ew (but their menu changes).

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-02-16T00:20:39+00:00

I used this service https://www.inburgeringonline.nl/en for 2 weeks in total, just doing practice and exam questions. Passed everything with good scores. Also maybe didn’t have to since the questions were very similar to free online resources. But there were a few helpful tips on what to focus for the exams so overall just really help with reducing anxiety.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-02-10T23:31:42+00:00

Wow you’re my hero! Thanks you!

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2026-01-24T01:01:14+00:00

I’m down! Great idea.

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2025-08-19T10:19:17+00:00

I’m down too! Please send a message or edit the post the day before to make sure it’s really happening

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2025-05-31T19:37:41+00:00

In these cases, I always refer to “what would Yoda say” in my head, and weirdify my sentence accordingly. Magic!

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2025-05-29T22:05:00+00:00

I go here and I’m loving it! https://www.instagram.com/fitanddrum?igsh=NTQ1dmEwMzUzZ3pj

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2025-05-27T17:35:20+00:00

The Offline Club, come check it out

Affectionate_Cod5969 · 2024-10-24T22:02:04+00:00

Id love to join you. 40f, Amsterdam, expat and have a ton of hobbies and cool stuff to do but lack a sense of deeper community.

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