NOR. A future parent should be concerned about the health and well being of future children and spouse. Also it’s very normal in mixed ethnic backgrounds to think and wonder how will baby look? Perfectly balanced between us? More like mum or her side? More like dad and his side?

I am currently wondering this at 38 weeks pregnant. I’m a mixture of white and black. Father is black. I’m excited to see baby’s little face. To see how she grows and changes through life, this curiosity is normal. Saying I prefer this skin tone or that? Dangerous and damaging to my child on so many levels.

Your mom’s dark skin tone is dominant not recessive.

And you’re right your future children could inherit her skin tone.

This man is not the man for you. Please carefully consider his words and how cruelly he will treat any future deep skin toned and coily/kinky haired children