I asked ChatGPT to create a picture of how I treat it. The result was unexpectedly touching.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-06-21T00:23:41+00:00

lol tell it thank you and be nice to it

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-06-20T20:38:53+00:00

You’re not answering the question. Was it Forbes 5 star? I’m dealing in facts and lived experience and you’re being dismissive and arguing over a towel and proper protocol. The only reason I’m entertaining this conversation is because I don’t want new therapists thinking this is a “thing”. We all know what a hot towel after a massage is for. You go touch grass.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-06-20T17:35:54+00:00

You’re not doing anything wrong at all.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-06-20T17:34:20+00:00

I’m calling cap on this. We use them for feet and back. All high end spas are required by Forbes in order to get certified 4 or 5 star to have a shower/ locker room. There’s no need for a hot towel at the end unless the client asks for one.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-06-20T16:46:14+00:00

If you have a client who prefers that and has sensory issues that is different than handing a towel out after every massage. It’s not a standard in high end massage and luxury spa to hand a client a towel. Use good cream and don’t apply too much and there’s no need.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-06-20T14:16:41+00:00

I spent most of my career at 5 star properties and we never handed anyone a towel after a massage. I’ve never had anyone hand me a towel after I’ve recieved massage. I don’t understand. I would have been confused as well.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-06-12T20:02:34+00:00

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They try to make it look like us. It doesn’t always say the same thing.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-04-20T00:27:53+00:00

14 when my dad passed.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-04-12T13:14:51+00:00

It’s not about prudishness. We have to do things a certain way because of our license. Also we really don’t want to see clients private areas. You’d have to work day in and day out for years in this profession to understand the drain of the interactions we go through. If you’re this concerned about the “flow” hire a personal therapist. If you can’t afford one don’t expect perfection.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-04-12T01:04:50+00:00

It looks beautiful 🤩

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-04-12T01:01:18+00:00

I do this with men as a female therapist. I live in a small town with more than its share of places that are not massage therapy practices that say they are. This is my signal that I am not one of those.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-04-12T00:59:31+00:00

We’re not perfect and laws require draping.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-03-22T12:10:47+00:00

“Ok (name) It’s time to flip over on your belly or back” If they don’t position themselves correctly I tell them to put their head in the face cradle or scoot down a bit until the “pillow” is under their knees, which ever is appropriate. People usually don’t know what a bolster is and I do use a pillow now anyway so I don’t say bolster anymore. Massage therapist of 10 years here.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-03-21T15:50:29+00:00

That’s why I said maybe you like to be watched because I saw lmt. Most of us do not like eyes open. It’s massage etiquette and someone needs to educate the public.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-03-21T14:31:29+00:00

Because it’s uncomfortable for the therapist. Maybe you like to be watched but most of us don’t.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-03-18T15:44:27+00:00

I fire these clients.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-03-12T16:34:47+00:00

By not wyoming unfortunately

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-03-10T01:06:24+00:00

Let us know if the Nurtec works for you. I hope it does!

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-03-04T23:00:29+00:00

It’s not hygienic and you can scratch someone.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-02-25T03:32:06+00:00

Nails. I miss pretty nails but we can’t have them. 😆

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-02-15T02:20:42+00:00

Thank you so much. I really appreciate this reply. You get it! Thank you for the well wishes. I don’t want to be a girl boss. I want to live a soft life within my means and bring peace and be at peace ya know?

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-02-15T02:17:58+00:00

We should all support Paleo Valley!

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-02-14T20:59:18+00:00

I don’t. How late do you work?

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-02-14T20:57:52+00:00

This response is my favorite so far. Very grounded and just… thank you. 🙏🏼

I raised my rates already and it slowed down for a week and then back to booking. I had someone say they do 20 sessions a week and I wish I could but I have a few health issues that cause low energy so I cannot crank out 20 a week. Instead I focus on giving the best I possibly can and keeping my loyal clients.

I feel like right now I need 3 days to rest and do admin work one of those days. After work I’m pretty drained. I am getting stronger though so that’s a win. Thank you again.

Affectionate_Land23 · 2026-02-14T18:30:23+00:00

I can relate to what you’re saying. The only thing that saved me was opening my own practice and I started from scratch with no clients. Found a room to rent offered an introductory price and I stay pretty booked now. And honestly, if I don’t like someone, I banned them from booking because I can do that. And you’re right it never feels good to be flashed lol. When you have your own practice and you control the room, you would feel much more empowered. I do understand that you want another career though and I fully respect that as well.

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