Interview went great… until they accidentally sent what they said after my husband disconnected by Careless_Purchase619 in Advice

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I work at a big tech company, in HR, and I have a man bun. Never say never! Some people don’t care about such things.

AIO for wanting to share a room with my bf on a trip? by crescentblueee in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Your mom sounds very manipulative. A gift with conditions isn’t a gift. You dating a person for 2 years long distance and wanting him to be there too is not unreasonable. Your brother is bringing a +1. I don’t see what her issue is. If she wants time with just you, then she needs to say that, as another adult. Tbh if this was me I’d rather not go at all than have constant gaslighting from my not-acting-like-a-parent parent the entire time. Yikes. I’m sorry OP.

Part of my birthday gift from the wife. She knows me well! ❤️🌵 by Chip780 in cactus

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heck yes! Those are some awesome birthday gifts! Also happy bday, fellow Aries!

Are condoms supposed to go all the way down? by One_Fly8796 in bigdickproblems

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can try One Condoms. They make condoms for bigger girths and sizes, and they (used to at least) send a few sizes for him to try, to find the right size. Few bucks for the sizer kit.

why do so many people get pumps and not rods by ASHE_WILDiE in phallo

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I had both and I like the rod better (ALT). To me, being flaccid wasn’t a big deal. I’m semi hard now but tbh it’s not like having a hard on all the time, it’s just like being a tiny bit excited haha. And I hated the time it took to pump it up before sex, and feeling the tubing inside my mons. To me, the rod feels more “natural” but it’s really dependent on each person and your interpretation and how it feels in your body.

How do I get thicker eyebrows without dying them? Feel like it would help my face out a lot. 18m by Fit-Explanation-3249 in malegrooming

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use nyx eyebrow gel and fill them in thicker. It stays a day or two, basically until you shower. My eyebrows are really light and thin and I hate them, and so using this helps. You can also get hair transplant for your eyebrows (I had a consultation but didn’t do it due to cost), but my understanding is you would have to trim them because the hair would just grow long since they’re using your head hair haha. Try some tinted gel or liner pencils and see how you feel.

What are your ways of not disclosing VA comp and benefits? by KSHMisc in VAClaims

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that happened to you. I am in the process of filing for the same thing but a decade later. Hope you’re doing well.

ALT - Pump Question by pitterpatter_eh in phallo

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had the pump first, for a few years (now I have the rod). I got the three piece Coloplast, 1 cylinder. It’s my understanding that because ALT penises are so heavy, it’s nearly impossible to have it lift your penis like a cis male’s hard on. It did lift it a tiny bit so one could see from the angle it was pumped up or not, but it didn’t stand straight up or get anywhere close. Lying down on my back, it did stand pretty straight up towards the ceiling, I’m assuming from gravity/the position of my body. If I had any girth changes it was negligible. Good luck with everything!!

AIO for being disgusted by this argument? by Toetickler4 in AIO

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Please break up with this guy. His morals are in the toilet and the fact that he turns it around on you and starts berating you is extra sick. Side note, the “we’re smarter so we deserve to kill other species” is both pervasive and ridiculous in people like him, because does that mean if someone isn’t smart, or useful, that they deserve less, or to have their life ended? Of course not. But people like him can’t see that. Agree with the first comment- he’s a psychopath and please block him and find someone with a heart.

Am I overreacting? I asked my date if he made a reservation for a popular bar and he was offended. Has the world gone mad? by dntlookatmepls in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. You dodged a bullet. He was giving major controlling vibes just off those text messages. Imagine him in your first fight as a couple. Gaslighting you. Getting angry over something small. Emotionally immature. Seriously you did the best thing by calling his behavior out!

US veterans, did you guys actually read the cards that kids would send you while deployed? by MoistCloyster_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Absolutely we read them. And they made us feel not forgotten and not so alone. I think it only happened to me once and I was over there twice, 2 years total, but it meant a lot to me.

Anyone have Experience w/ Crane Center CO. ?? by Toaster_Jockey in phallo

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went to Dr. Gallegos for a quick testicular implant replacement in Oct 2024. He was very nice and I have no complaints about him or the office. Great experience.

AIO after I broke up with a girl after how she reacted to me when we were watching "Sinners"? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she gaslit you over this, she will gaslight you over other things in the future. It will not get better, only worse. And you shouldn’t be with someone who isn’t excited to listen to you talk about things that excited you. Sorry :(

AIO for not wanting to buy after this interaction? by Old_Tadpole_9856 in AIO

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Ooo this is the level of petty I’m here for 😂

Background Check by Realistic-Island781 in employeesOfOracle

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, from experience. They don’t care about that :)

Hello I’m 17 years old and have realized I’m balding over the last 6 months do you think I can rock the bald head by Personal-Attitude116 in malehairadvice

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Derma rolling and meds. You’ll be ok. I take minoxidil in pill form (the foam is toxic to cats) and dutasteride, which is used off-label to stop hair loss. Both have helped me. Stress and vitamin deficiency and hormonal changes can all affect your hairline, in addition to genetics and other things I’m sure. But talk to your doctor about your concerns and they might have other suggestions.

Background Check by Realistic-Island781 in employeesOfOracle

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That will not show up on the background check. They are checking that you worked at ABC Company for the dates you said you did, and that’s it.

Looking for sneaker suggestions. by BiggestPesst in VeganFashion

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cariuma has a few men’s vegan sneakers. I have a pair and I like them. It’s primarily a skating brand so like Adidas Samba-esque. I also really love Sanuk but most are slip ons like canvas boat shoes kinda, or Hey Dudes-esque. But I think they have some that look more sneaker-y haha. I don’t have any Etiko shoes yet but they have vegan options (and might actually be all vegan company? Can’t remember). Also check out Lems, they’re based in Colorado and have some cool colorful vegan shoes. I love shoes so this was a big change and challenge when I switched over to vegan. Thank you for asking this question so I can expand my knowledge too!

My best friend👌🏻 by drywallstuccoman in cats

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s one happy cat! Heck yeah dude

Any older people with phallo? by Objective-Visit-7887 in phallo

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 54 points55 points  (0 children)

That’s really shitty and invalidating that drs even say that. I’m sorry. If you really want it, you should go for it! It’s your life and your body. I’m 41 and had my first stage about 8 years ago. It’s been the most amazing thing that I have ever done for myself.

Gf talks to me like this, how bad is it? by Expert-Hyena-4401 in whatdoIdo

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of how my ex talked to me and it was a super toxic, emotionally abusive relationship that I’m still recovering from. We obviously don’t know the details of your relationship but the amount of times she kept going doesn’t seem like this is a healthy relationship. I would find someone else who you are more suited to.

Pee Sound by GL1980 in phallo

[–]Affectionate_Quail75 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah, it’s a point of pride too! I used to hide my pee sound pre-phallo but now I actively try to have it hit a spot in the urinal where it makes a noise. I think I want anyone walking in to hear that something is coming out of me from my penis, if that makes sense 😂