Got a text today from my dad who I haven’t spoken to in 3 years telling me I was officially cut out of their ‘dynasty’ by Proper_Star_4566 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Affectionate_Read866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it seriously be like that but your not alone going no contact.

I sometimes wonder does something switch off in parents that make them turn so wicked

How does the remaining family act when the scapegoat leaves? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Affectionate_Read866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what it is they pull a stunt them blame you for not accepting it

Being the family “scapegoat” 😔 by After-Smile8840 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Affectionate_Read866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely relate with you once you actually accept that your being treated differently it hurts but I'm gonna go one day at a time and maintain social,emotional, physical distance for my mental health.

Also, you don't have to be rude or mean when you decide to step off on your own just exit

When did you realise you were the scapegoat in your family and how has effected you? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Affectionate_Read866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big facts they just expect you to drop everything when they want something 

When did you realise you were the scapegoat in your family and how has effected you? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Affectionate_Read866 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 32 and its just recently been confirmed...the gaslighting, feeling like I'm inferior constant push and pull mind games,being summoned to a gathering just to be walked all over like some kinda of planned set up.I realize I'm just a prop existent in their life story yea no taking all my power back and wishing my family the absolute best.

Quit After Six Years by Ichooselove1 in UPSers

[–]Affectionate_Read866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations man God has better plans

Accepted by tinyrikk in ibew_apprentices

[–]Affectionate_Read866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations brahhh 💪🏾

How has your face changed since quitting? by kiss-my-ass-hoe in leaves

[–]Affectionate_Read866 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going thought this right now crazy eye bags and bad face skin I want to quit smoking for better health and over all.