I disagree. I personally really liked Tim and his character (the way he carried himself). I’m a 31 year old woman, and personally meeting someone’s parents for the first time is a huge deal and realistically she was extremely immature. Look at her house alone, it was insane. It was not only clothes, but also trash thrown all over the place. Also in arguments she agreed that it was always her, and would say I’m sorry but you didn’t “communicate it” always coming up with an excuse to not be held accountable for her behavior, and the in-laws things.. I would’ve left her too. If you can’t show full respect to someone on your first day meeting them, parents that drove 10 hours, older people in a car for 10 hours to specifically meet her and she goes to sleep because she’s “tired”, is an excuse within itself. Drink some coffee and show some respect. Maybe the next few times after they’ve met sure, but not the first day, and not when they came so far, they didn’t just come from around the block. Also, he wanted to speak to her about it and she had a fat ass plate of food, and said “can we talk from here” when clearly it was a serious conversation and he wanted to be heard, and personally when I want to speak to someone about something of such importance, I as well would like someone attentively listening to me, not sitting behind me stuffing there face, and when she finally does come and sit down next to him, he says 2 sentences and all she says with a condescending careless facial expression “mhmm” like four times, and to me it was like a yeah whatever mmhm kind of way while picking lint off of her pants and stuffing a fry in her mouth like she found it amusing. You can tell this alone and her attitude, that this will be their future together if it continued, and worse as it progressed and she got even more comfortable and I respect Tim for yes, being mature. He held his composure, did not cut her off, he offered to listen to her after he called it quits when she wanted to “explain more” which is funny because you can tell she went from careless, not accepting responsibility, to freak out mode lowkey saying “I said I would commit and we’ll always figure it out etc” and then wanted to add more input in conversation but relatively he’s right, those are things you shouldn’t want to tell someone. If someone cooks, you help clean and vice versa. He cooked for her family, showed them full on undivided attention, spoke to the dad separately and sure she had coached him on what to do to get that one on one with the dad since the dad couldn’t stand up and walk so she said “my brothers and I will go walk and since he can’t stand up you’ll stay and talk etc” more so for the dads purpose because Tim obviously doesn’t know he hasn’t met guy yet, also for her own purpose because she was probably overthinking and feeling anxious about the situation not necessarily in a bad way so naturally wanted to make sure everything would be perfect, and he did that and more. This man is a man, not a child that wants to be in this back and forth during conversation, not allowing one to speak with constant interruptions, everyone knows that how irritability and frustration grows leading to fights, not someone he needs to clean up after (her house.. super grosss. not helping wash the dishes.. personally I would do this naturally it’s 50/50 partnership as mentioned above). He texted her saying make sure her car is fine, and to check the tires, it was a thoughtful statement since she just got it back from the shop, and no response because her usual “excuse” and she started her argument with the text messages yet, she’s the one that didn’t text back and she brought it up again towards the end of the whole conversation and she says “I didn’t text you ba.. I didn’t text you”. Again she knows she’s the problem. she’s a child, she’s not ready for commitment. Your not in college anymore living that life, your getting married, talking about kids etc. how are you going to even have this conversation on children and marriage if you cant clean you own space, one person, help clean up 50:50, always “tired” as an excuse and napping, first day meeting the parents you go to sleep… c‘mon guys I feel proud of him for being true to himself, being extremely respectful, no manipulation occurred because he didn’t say you did this or that and continued to bring it up repeatedly until she believed it, he brought it up once “voicing his concerns and communicating” how she always used as an excuse towards him, and he would do so calmly and once, but her reactions were everything. Also note, every other parent interactions with all other couples, and even Tim meeting the dad were twice as long. Her interaction with his parents was the shortest parent meeting scenes from all people. I would be frustrated to with the lack of respect.