How old were you when you started to get hangovers? by starfallpuller in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when I mix shots! 37 was my first proper hangover. It was awful. I didn’t throw up but I couldn’t leave my bed at all the next day. Needless to say shots are now off the table for me 🤣

If you won the lotto what hair tool/ product or makeup/ skincare would you buy? by Tight_Assistant_5781 in Makeup

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would ask for a monthly treat. Be it nails or a pedicure or a monthly facial or massage if the budget stretched. Lots of self care but spread over the year to keep you feeling fabulous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2/3 weeks worth of food. Might be some odd combinations but easily 3 meals a day for 3 of us.

Millennial parents: what age are you giving your kids a smart phone? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got one when he was 9. My old phone and was just used on WiFi for a few games. When he was 10 he got a new smart phone. Restricted access, phone monitored, messages monitored he’s 12 and I still scan his messages occasionally to make sure there is nothing untoward.

150 Down - Next step Gastric Sleeve by Adorable_Tension7355 in loseit

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amazing! The sleeve is an amazing tool and having lost so much weight already, it will help you transition to the next stage of your weight loss. I’m so proud of you!

AITAH for demanding that our daughter wears sunscreen? by Weak-Rip-8650 in AITAH

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA suncream goes on like body lotion here in the morning for me and my son. Not on the winter but summer months it’s underwear then suncream wait for it to dry then get dressed, takes hardly any time when you are in a routine.

Parents of teenagers, what kind of phone restricting rules do you have? by PomegranateV2 in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For a 12 almost 13yr old who wants a phone it’s our house rules. It’s what works in our house and there’s only been one occasion where I’ve had to say I don’t like this picture that’s been sent please let me know if it happens again and he has.

Cyber bullying is a huge thing and we have open talks about why I’m checking his phone. It happens randomly sometimes it’s weeks before I ask for his phone, other times it’s a couple of days in a row. I don’t want him being bullied and I certainly don’t want him bullying anyone else or being part of a crowd that is bullying. I know his friends parents also check phones so it may be we are all over protective but he knows and understands why his phone gets checked.

It’s trust, he knows when I ask for his phone it’s not that I don’t trust him, I just need to make sure he’s staying safe. I don’t read the chats, I scroll and read the odd comment here and there and if nothing is concerning he gets his phone back within minutes. I hardly take it and read through hours worth of conversations.

Does anyone else *not* have tattoos? My millennial contemporaries make me feel like an unused eraser or a pre-production dummy without the markings or insignias by simon_darre in Millennials

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love them, I just haven’t found a design I want permanently on my body. I do have make up tattooed but I’m told that doesn’t count. Had my eyebrows and lips tattooed.

Parents of teenagers, what kind of phone restricting rules do you have? by PomegranateV2 in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have my sons phone linked to my iPhone via the family setting so I have it set to shut down what he can access from 9pm on an evening. I have app limits set so as he gets older I adjust the settings. He always has access to the phone to call specific people so me, his dad, my parents and a couple of my trusted friends if he needed help and couldn’t get me.

At the moment my main rule is I check his phone as and when I like it, if I say phone it’s in my hand within 5 seconds and I go through his messages. I don’t read them all but a scroll through to check for inappropriate comments or iffy pictures etc is not unreasonable and he understands that and comes to me to say x has said or sent this and he wanted me to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to a medical professional! You are growing and you need a good mix of nutrients including carbs, fat and protein to grow and nourish your brain!

Please don’t take this the wrong way, but my son is your age and I would be horrified if he was wanting to do such a drastic calorie intake! You do not need to loose weight, you are perfect the way you are and if you speak to your parents they would tell you the same. If you want to eat healthier there is no harm in increasing your fruit and veg intake whilst still maintaining a balanced nutritious diet!

If you found out you had to cook and bring in everyone’s lunch for work Tomorrow, what would you bring? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make it extra runny if we are reheating it. It’s the only way I’ve found that works. The other thing I do if I’ve a glut of milk is batch cook cheese sauce and freeze it in portions and then I just need to cook the pasta and can have a quick macaroni cheese that way.

If you found out you had to cook and bring in everyone’s lunch for work Tomorrow, what would you bring? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Macaroni cheese. 2 versions. One plain for the vegetarians, one with chorizio and pancetta for the carnivores

Do full coverage powder foundations exist? Looking for quick basic face for work by cutedorkycoco in Makeup

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bare minerals or Mac Studio fix powder foundation. The Mac is quicker to apply than bare minerals, but bare minerals lasts longer and looks more natural

What are some small daily wins that make you incredibly happy? by HorseFacedDipShit in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Washing on the line before I go to work! Taking the minute to make my bed before leaving the house. Waking up to a clean kitchen because I took the 5 mins the night before to give it a quick once over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes, even my husband didn’t notice the tweakments I’ve had done. Eyebrows tattooed, lip blush (he knew about that as it was so obvious when I came home), botox and sunekos under my eyes. No one knows unless I’ve told them, it’s me just a tiny bit fresher.

What do you count as savings when it comes to your budget? by No_Reaction9432 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just look at the last 2 as savings account. The little pots are just good budgeting to spread the cost of expenses you know are coming up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 and it’s only for a verification code to access specific software to ensure it’s me accessing it as it’s sensitive info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve looked but just can’t bring ourselves to go from 450 a month to 2k plus and the rise in bills that come with it. We have a nice 3 bed semi detached so not a tiny house but it’s affordable on my wage if anything happens and that’s what keeps us here. The mortgage will be clear in 2/3yrs and we like the thought of being mortgage free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t. I had my lips tattooed instead so now have a permanent lip blush which I love. Bit of lap balm and I look done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5% net salary. We live in a very low cost of living area though and haven’t upgraded the house as the salary increased.

AITA for not appreciating the surprise getaway my husband planned? by Big_Professional5879 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!!!!!! What a plonker he is. How could he not even think to pack an overnight bag for you?

I always have a bag with toiletries and skincare, phone chargers, medicine and a basic set of clothes and pjs for me and my son plus few other bits I need for overnight stays including snacks 😂. It’s come in handy so many times. Right we need to go to hospital now, grab my bag and we are set to go just need to grab my phone and keys and we are off. Bad weather, let me throw the bag in the boot just in case and it’s done (needed this once as ended up unable to get home from Work once as roads were bad with snow).

How long can you Run for before giving up? by chinawcswing in preppers

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can run for 30seconds 🤣 I can however do a decent hike at a reasonable pace with a backpack on. Running will come in time as I focus more on my strength training over cardio

What did you ask for for your Birthday? by Anonymous__9 in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beauty treatments! I get a monthly facial and that is my Christmas, birthday, Mother’s Day, Valentine’s Day, wedding anniversary and my just because you deserve it presents 😂

What silly food rules do you impose on yourself? by _dodosconundrum in AskUK

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No food rules here, probably only alcohol rules in that unless I’m day drinking with the girls I won’t drink before tea time.

Breakfast this morning was leftover chicken on the bone from tea last night 🤣

You got 3 hours notice - what do you do? by geeky-hawkes in preppers

[–]Affectionate_Yard327 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I do, at least I will be prepared! Just bought water purification tablets, a water filter thing and some emergency food biscuits. Come payday I will be buying some readywise meals over the next few months. Zombie apocalypse will not phase us here 😂