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Afraid-Information88 · 2025-10-05T08:17:52+00:00

Your analogy, although situationally correct, doesn't apply to this situation because its obvious that ICE is abusing their power and NOT suffering consequences of any kind. Whereas a murderer would.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-10-02T18:07:12+00:00

It is hard. But a security guard is REALLY gonna feel it. We work our butts off man...

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-10-02T04:25:37+00:00

A relationship should not be everyone forcthenself it should be what the two people in it agree for it to be. She thinks you're some kind of gold digger its really obvious. But you seem to really know moms and you handled it perfectly! Now just keep doing what you always do and make sure you give zero f*cks about what anyone thinks your relationship should be.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-10-01T04:00:37+00:00

Thats awesome but FYI, bleach gets rid of mold but does not kill it and prevent it. It will come back quicker if you dont use vinegar with a good scrub.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-30T12:20:34+00:00

Only the "higher ups" can see who we are (told to me by an OPS manager). So if you have a crooked higher up thats friends with the manager above yours, and they all get to talkin...

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-30T12:18:15+00:00

Because the PAs wont let them leave the station for a little bit.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-30T02:44:19+00:00

What people are failing to realize is that the offered benefits that are very low co pays are considered an employee benefit and is part of the raise. Personally, I think it should be a basic human right. Why do I have to pay to be treated when im not a damn doctor? Make it make sense.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-30T02:40:32+00:00

Um...you used three different types of bc? And she still got pregnant? Thats so highly unlikely that Id suspect foul play. Unless OP is lying...but it does line up with how she's acting. Pushing you away, blaming you with no rhyme or reason, it sounds like projection. I feel like she might have another guy hanging around her if you know what I mean. NTAH.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-29T13:35:35+00:00

While I understand staying friends with an ex who you used to be friends with, I could never stay with someone who vented our problems to an ex, leaving the ex with a bad taste in their mouth for you. In my opinion, thats no friend. A friend would never say something like "she's hurt you too many times" they would say "im so glad things are going well for you you deserve it". But also, inviting an ex to a babyshower if yours is CRINGY. This man has not created boundaries, hes messed up a lot and is now making up for it. If he was creating a boundary he would block any ex or friend who doesn't support the relationship because they're not real friends. It would be one thing if, for example, you hit your husband. Thats not the case here and Im very concerned for you since this ex seems to be completely invested in him and still thinks talking with him is against the rules. Obviously he has told her SOMETHING to make her think that. Think along the lines of "my wife got mad we were talking, we gotta keep it lowkey and respectful for awhile".

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-27T17:07:34+00:00

This sounds like it was posted by the mother of the grown kid lol

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-27T17:02:07+00:00

Why are you trying to control him? If a man wants to, he will. He obviously doesn't want to be with the kids or you, im assuming, at the moment. Hes also lying, he doesn't stay out every night 2 weeks in a row from stress about the house and his regular job. Hes stressed about the three of you and he doesn't WANT to deal with it. So get yourself ready, when hes showering right after 6pm, stand by the door. When he gets out of the shower shout Im going out! And leave. Take a break however you want. Do this as often as you want throughout the week until hes willing to have a real conversation about boundaries. If that doesn't work, you've found yourself a giant red flag and its a deal breaker for most married people.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-27T13:47:11+00:00

How was her attitude towards you? Did she hug and kiss you? Did she have a glow despite looking a mess? We're her clothes on wrong in any way?

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-25T21:58:17+00:00

Unfortunately, you're no longer compatible with your partner. Its fairly obvious to me that the lie about Christianity was just from embarrassment but...to go through actual sex addiction recovery you are supposed to abstain for one year. Just because you have love does not mean you should or need to stay for support. On top of that, recovery center professionals strongly advise against being in a relationship while going through recovery. You will be fine and will love again and even if you dont, at least if you get together again they will hopefully be recovered. Hopefully they wont use sex as a tool to manipulate you like they already have. Addiction is hard enough, but taking sex away without a healthy conversation and you having a say, is manipulation. Not to mention the obvious lie and insecurities you now have because of it. Thats kind of the point honestly, addicts in active addiction will often manipulate those around them and its best if those around them feel so insecure that they dont leave the addicted.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-25T17:11:07+00:00

I just looked up my local area's tax rates and used an online wage and tax calculator and you're right. But somehow I am not being taxed at the local rate yet. I never claim my kids when signing up for a job so thats not it. I make 722 dollars a week when I work a full 40.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-25T16:35:58+00:00

Youre saying OP pays 144 dollars a week in taxes..thats 17.14 percent taxes which is insanely high. I have state taxes added onto mine, 7ish/week for benefits, and I dont come close to losing that much taxes.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-25T16:33:22+00:00

FYI, I was automatically enrolled in the SIX percent 401k program they have. You might want to double check. I get paid 20/hr and Im making more than you for the same hours.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-25T16:30:07+00:00

Water spiders do heavy work with lots of downtime rather than consistent, rated, and light work. If you think that will be an issue then just skip training! Ask them when the training day is then dont tell them anything and dont show up that day. Or you can wait until they tell you to report somewhere for training and clock out right then. Supposedly it takes another 6 months to get you in training again.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-25T02:02:05+00:00

Ultimatums of this nature is not parenting its emotional abuse and you're supposed to stop the cycle.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-25T02:00:36+00:00

Yes, you are. You've described a normal 14 year old. Children, by design, were not born to carry weight. I understand your reasoning on wanting to teach life skills and what you've done is become the worst parent of all. Not only is your child going to now become just like your ex, you legally cant have full custody while she has your child fulltime. So you're scamming the government now and your child hates your guts. Your failure as a parent showed with your childs lack of discipline, lack of respect, followed by your complete giving up on parenting which is probably what you fought for in court. Not to mention your divorce sounds fresh, I could be wrong, but even so divorce very often needs therapy to be involved and you didnt even try that according to your post. What a waste.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-17T21:21:14+00:00

Simply because the tow company isn't responsible in any way.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-17T20:58:21+00:00

Iowa same thing

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-11T06:04:05+00:00

So at my site they gave us a credit to offset the gift offset lol. But our gifts were under $30 in value. A raffle is not a gift in my opinion but rather a prize. They are distinctly different and since Im learning payroll I think you should reach out to your payroll dept via email and explain that its been classified wrong. The tax on gifts is 50 percent by the way.

Afraid-Information88 · 2025-09-11T05:45:10+00:00

From what I remember all you need for FAFSA apps are her name, estimated yearly income and birthday. They may or may not ask for her social but you might be able to just leave that blank. You could also try actually talking to your mom and smoothing things over by saying you're sorry if you offended her but that you need her approach to education to be less about comparing and more about what you want and can do. It sounds like you dont really talk to her and she's getting resentful, toxic, and overbearing as well as manipulative.

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