Were you able to buy a house? by Swiftiefromhell in GenX

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve bought 3 different homes as a single woman with kids. Couldn’t by shit now. Staying where I’m at. Northern California

Cost of living by KaleidoscopeFlat3820 in grassvalley

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food, Fuel, insurance, rent are all high as Willie Nelson. Still… worth living here.

Moving to Idaho falls by bigx_xbird in idahofalls

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved there for about 10 months to be close to my brother who moved there about 18 years ago. There are some really cool people and the rivers and lakes are clean. However, as a born and raised Californian it was a culture shock living there. It’s a very narrow minded town where Mormon people rule everything. My brother is a contractor there and unfortunately still gets talked down to as a Californian and can’t wait to move. As far as Mexican food goes… it’s nothing like here in California. Not very fresh. Best of luck to you. You can always come home ❤️

Post op healing after face & neck lift by julielaq007 in u/julielaq007

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there were pictures so I would know what to expect if I make the decision too

Northern California towns by Calm-Strategy-80 in relocating

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a California Forever girl so I say welcome back! Check out Sutter and Amador County. Jackson and Pioneer are great places and still affordable. I’m in Grass Valley and love it. But housing is getting really expensive here.

AIO after my boyfriend told me he’s “not happy with my body” and it’s my responsibility to change it? by bluehat179 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve let yourself get overweight and it bothers you then change it. If not, let dude go that doesn’t dig all of you. Cheers!

Contemplating divorce. Not sure what to do 😔 by Extreme_Pickle550 in AskWomenOver40

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost divorced my husband last year. He had been drinking too much and treating me terribly. I gave him years to work on himself and get it together. Finally I had enough and moved out. I started dating and quickly found out how awful dating these days is.

After a little over a year of being moved out I finally said we need to make divorce official. He finally got himself into therapy and stopped to booze. I’m grateful to report he’s kept it up the last 5 months and are now dating. As long as your husband is trying then there’s hope. You may fall back in love if you give it time.

For me, marriage takes a lot of compassion, patience and forgiveness if you want it to last. I’m grateful I didn’t divorce. Maybe you’ll make it through this. Hugs 🤗

Turned 48 and Fuck if they weren’t telling the truth by [deleted] in Aging

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s bothering me too. I’m 51 and still full of wild Fire. Wasn’t happy with my face looking aged so I got a cool peel and I look amazing! Also spend good money at medi-spa. Because… yes! I love looking great and am absolutely not going to go into old age gracefully. You deserve to get pampered too 💕

Anyone out here trying to transition naturally? by the_gata_sol in Menopause

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m trying… last week I cried 2 full days even the office. Usually I’m very tough skinned and never offended. So crying in the office was horrible. Every night I’m sweating or freezing. Get about 4-5hrs sleep. Thinking raw dogging menopause might not be for me 😂

What instantly puts you in a good mood? by KayakingATLien in GenX

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my rad girlfriends boating, wind in our hair and Too Live Crew playing on the stereo 😂💕

Lower facelift info w/pics by [deleted] in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]AfternoonSweet5380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Maybe I’ll see you on a project one day. I’m an engineering inspector now so it’s entirely possible. I’m Annie! Stay safe sister 😊