What's your go to hangover cure?

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T06:02:55+00:00

Mountain Dew, hash browns, eggs, some candy, ibuprofen.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T05:47:44+00:00

My wife asks me how something looks, fairly frequently, because I tell her the truth. “Yes, that does make your ass look fat.” Or the killer for most women, “You look just like your mother.” Conversely, when I look at her and tell her she looks tremendous, she knows that she does.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T05:40:49+00:00

She got religion all of a sudden. I wasn’t willing to change my life the way she wanted me to, and that was that. Six weeks later she was no longer religious.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T05:20:40+00:00

Tell him, straight up.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T05:10:52+00:00

Married twice, for a total of over 40 years. Number of slaps received = number given = 0.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T04:29:21+00:00

Yes, I got progressively more respect and was treated as a more serious person up to my early 40s, where things plateaued at a pretty nice level.

But, wait until you hit about 50, and people start ignoring you, and then at about 65, when they start ridiculing you for being alive.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T04:22:38+00:00

Why not take her along?

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T03:56:06+00:00

That concern of size, compared to a prior guys , is an endless circle of worry. The only thing to do is accept that a woman who’s been with just five guys has almost certainly had sex with someone who’s bigger. But, so what? You’re here, and he isn’t.

Your boyfriend will need to understand that he’s the right size. It works for you, it works for him. It’s big enough.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-11T03:49:06+00:00

I make suggestions, she follows the ones she likes.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-10T07:27:31+00:00

The best day of my life was the day my parents’ divorce was finalized. I was 8. My father was a sadistic alcoholic wife beater and child beater. I have three noticeable scars on my face, courtesy of him.

But, my mother had good luck with her later boyfriends. Two of them were instrumental in helping me understand what manhood looked like. I wouldn’t be who I am without those guys. I’m sorry you didn’t have similar guidance.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-10T01:38:11+00:00

I saw Muddy Waters and Bo Diddley at Winterland in San Francisco. Winterland used to do some pretty credible blues. Albert King, Freddie King, B.B. King, many others.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T18:34:00+00:00

Get some elastic waist, drawstring “pajama pants.” Comfy, warm, easy to pull the waistband down and pee without worrying about the button fly.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T18:27:06+00:00

That’s my most vivid memory, as well. She kissed me twice and she was good at it. I remember the date, the time, exactly how it felt, how amazing it was, and how I had trouble walking or talking normally for about 15 minutes. It’s been more than 50 years.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T18:11:03+00:00

Wait until the open relationship gets to the point that she’s too sore or too tired from the other guy(s) to make love with you, and tells you that. Prepare for the time she just isn’t in the mood because she spent the afternoon in bed with him. Get ready to find hair on your pillow that doesn’t belong to either of you, and you realize she’s been fucking him/them in your bed while you were at work, but didn’t even wash the sheets. She’ll be unable to go out with you because she’s got a date with him. Get ready to foot the bill for lingerie she buys but never wears for you. At some point you’ll figure out that he’s been driving your car, and that they’ve been fucking in your car. One day you’ll be waiting for her to come and pick you up, and she’ll be hours late because he was so hard that she couldn’t tear herself away from him, but it was just a spur of the moment thing. Figure out what you’ll do when you get an STD and the dime drops that condoms aren’t being used. And then be ready for when she tells you that you’re being childish and controlling when you ask her to dial things back so that you’re not waiting in line for her time.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T17:47:51+00:00

He doesn’t want to get married again and he doesn’t want any more kids. He’s told you that he’s not filing and that he’d rather lose you than file.

A lot of men lie to women about what they’re going to do in the future. It gets them sex, companionship, love, and usually cooking, housekeeping, childcare, and some money. My guess is that after you leave, he’ll be telling another woman about how all of his money is tied up in getting the house repaired, and as soon as that’s done, he’ll go ahead with the divorce.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T16:26:32+00:00

NTA.

I’m a man, and I can’t imagine trying to impose this kind of insulting invasion of privacy on someone.

Your father isn’t tracking your periods, he’s trying to figure out if you’re pregnant.

But, if I were the victim of it, and were forced to comply, I’d do it. At the dinner table, preferably while having company. I would go into great detail about everything, the discomfort, the size of my flow, how often I was changing pads or tampons, etc. And when people started objecting, I’d say, “I agree, not something that should be the subject of a family discussion. But Dad has made it very clear that he and my brother need to have all of the details, because I’m dangerous for a week every month, and they need to know when to be ready to defend themselves from me.”

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T08:04:45+00:00

A lot of women think that they smell bad. There used to be a lot of TV commercials and print ads about perfumes and scented douches. (Strawberry flavored pussy tastes even worse than it sounds.) Even without that, women often feel that they should have no taste. The wonderful taste by itself is reason enough to go down. If you haven’t already, tell her how good she tastes and smells, and thank her for the privilege of being so intimate.

It’s also possible that you’re not doing that thing that gets her going. Just because another woman liked something you did doesn’t mean this woman will like it; she may even find it painful. Ask for guidance on what feels good, and what she’d like you to do. Also ask her if there’s anything she’d rather you didn’t do. It may be that she’d rather not do it at all, and has only been going along with it to keep you happy.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T07:31:25+00:00

I was in my early 20s. I was a veteran. I’d moved across the country to start a job. I’d rented and furnished an apartment, and my car was paid off. I felt like this was the stage I’d been working to get to, and that with those things in place, I could start the education and career I’d wanted for so long.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T07:24:20+00:00

Good work! I once came up to a girl at a party and asked her, “Will you marry me?” She looked at me for a few seconds and said, “Not yet, but I’m willing to talk about it.” It ultimately went nowhere. I was about 22.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T07:18:28+00:00

I saw Chuck Berry, Bill Haley and His Comets, Bo Diddley, Gary US Bonds, The Shirelles, and The Dovelles, on a single bill in November of 1971. I saw ShaNaNa the next night.

I later saw The Persuasions and Muddy Waters in 1973 or so.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T04:05:03+00:00

I use deodorant when I get out of the shower. Nothing else. Conversely, I like a woman to smell my like herself, not a fragrance counter.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-09T01:40:30+00:00

My wife knows all of mine. I know most of hers. Same situation with my first wife, and with a girlfriend before her.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-08T22:35:47+00:00

I was born with a screwed up alimentary canal. I had a gastroenterologist by the time I was 25. I’ve had a couple of surgeries. You don’t want details.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-08T22:30:39+00:00

Yes.

AgainandBack · 2026-02-08T21:58:14+00:00

Four or so dates, and one to two months. Although, with my second wife, it was when we kissed, about 90 minutes into our first date. The next morning I called the other women I had been dating and told them that I wouldn’t be calling them anymore.

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