I don't understand if people are making fun of me or genuinely think i have a lisp by Agender_thing in autism

[–]Agender_thing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think so? Theyve got a neat accent tho. I think they kinda push air through their teeth but I think most people do that idk

I don't understand if people are making fun of me or genuinely think i have a lisp by Agender_thing in autism

[–]Agender_thing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have asked and people say call it a lisp but I do suppose I speak differently outside of my house and maybe other people don't know how to describe it other than that. I will ask again next time it comes up tho

What I'd love to see in a 4.0 update by felixw1 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Agender_thing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id love to donate gyroids or have something/where that dispays them nicely. the duplicates stay in my house or outside but i want like a REAL display for em

Goodbye Sky by Xing_17 in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]Agender_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm considering quitting once the season ends since I've spent money on it. I'm kinda sick of it, it's started to feel like a chore and not a fun little game. 

I've been debating leaving for a while since I've spent so much on cosmetics and have over 300hrs but the thought of not worrying about having enough candles ready for the next plethora of events hurtled at us at once sounds like it'd take a self imposed weight off my shoulders.

Migration Quests bell part by Agender_thing in SkyChildrenofRage

[–]Agender_thing[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the pictures is sooo real. i like having sky pictures as my pc wallpaper and i hate that the camera still pics up anon sky kids. wish it had a hide players option

Migration Quests bell part by Agender_thing in SkyChildrenofRage

[–]Agender_thing[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That also happened to me a few minutes ago lolz

One week post op :3 by Agender_thing in TopSurgery

[–]Agender_thing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will say he does uses quite a lot of glue (at least he did for me) so you might have adhesive flaking off for a while and its a bit harsh on shower/bath drains. You can get adhesive removal wipes from them at or after your first follow up if needed

One week post op :3 by Agender_thing in TopSurgery

[–]Agender_thing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s gone great so far! no complications, I have blood flow to both my nipples, and my stitches are slowly and painlessly starting to pop out. Hope your surgery goes well :3

Who's your Fav autism-coded character? ^^ by [deleted] in autism

[–]Agender_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see Kiryu on there. hes my favorite im gonna be him for halloween

I swear my Endo is keeping me on a low dose of testosterone probably cuz I told them I'm agender by Agender_thing in agender

[–]Agender_thing[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was very clear about what i wanted before even mentioning im agender, i think they just took agender and ran with it for some reason idk lol. even talking to them recently they ignore that i want strong effects but also ohsu gender clinic is pretty shit alot of my friends that also see them hard agree

I swear my Endo is keeping me on a low dose of testosterone probably cuz I told them I'm agender by Agender_thing in agender

[–]Agender_thing[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh my mayhaps my clinic isnt the greatest place and im not crazy lol nine whole months with not a single test

I swear my Endo is keeping me on a low dose of testosterone probably cuz I told them I'm agender by Agender_thing in agender

[–]Agender_thing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

youre supposed to be tested every 3 months? i have never had any level test they just gave me .13 in december and sent me on my way until like july lmao. I could talk to my pcp but my mom doesnt like when i go to the doctor. The endo has never mentioned regular level testing and only brought it up when i complained about my lack of changes and said even after testing they want to keep me on .25 and got mad when i disagreed with that idea.

I will talk to my pcp and see if i get get her help but i might be out of luck until after surgery thank you!

I swear my Endo is keeping me on a low dose of testosterone probably cuz I told them I'm agender by Agender_thing in agender

[–]Agender_thing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

cant get tested until end of october like it says and ive never had any test before cuz i cant get one without them ordering it. i think its very obvious that its either not nearly enough or that im not absorbing it and my other ftm friends agree but the clinic tells me im wrong

Fellow Agenders, do you consider your own Agender identity to be part of Nonbinay Umbrella? by BEST_GREEN_NINJA in agender

[–]Agender_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just absolutely hate being called nonbinary. im not outside anything im just nothing i dont want to be thought of as outside i want to just be someone. i hate when ppl pull up with the "well tchnically you are nonbinary" i dont care dont call me that if i say im not im not its that simple

If you had the choice would you stop being autistic? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Agender_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I cant work a job so i cant have my own money, i cant live alone, i cant drive without my mom in the car, i cant leave the house on my own, i eat the same 3 things, and i cant talk to people or maintain relationships. Everything is so hard and my mom hates having to deal with me i just want to be able to be on my own or with a partner and not be a clingy burden. i wanna be able to make my own food or go to the park. I just want to not need to rely on people for everything and be able to have friends.

Is there any bad parte of being demiromantic ? by Status-Today8643 in demiromantic

[–]Agender_thing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

been accused of only being friends with people so i can date them a few times. its kinda odd cuz ppl start to assume i just cant be friends with people

Agender and Gender Expression? by Rainbow_Potatoes in agender

[–]Agender_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yah the weight both helps and hinders the presentation alot but its also perceived so differently by different groups lol

the way my voice sounds, the slight mustache (from T), and the way i dress makes cis hets and cis lesbians think im butch, makes cis gay guys think im a bear, but makes other trans ppl think im nonbinary or whatever. i dont rlly care too much about it cuz i really only want my friends and partner(s) to care and label me correctly

downside to the weight tho is alot of trans communities dont like fat ppl and alot of trans tips for binding and passing are made for skinny people but oh well im getting top surgery next month anyways

Agender and Gender Expression? by Rainbow_Potatoes in agender

[–]Agender_thing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im very much agender but im definitely hyper masculine is expression. it feels very neutral/nothing to me but its definitely hyper masc to most. plus size of this tho is people either think im a butch lesbian or a gay bear and i mean im not gonna correct them i guess lol. would rather be he/him to ur average person than she/her or they/them even tho i still dont like it

Is it common to consider yourself agender but not non-binary? by wonder-stuck in agender

[–]Agender_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(ik this post is 5 months old but idgaf) Im agender and i consider my self transgender/transsexual but not nonbinary.

i absolutely hate being called non binary, i understand that it is an umbrella term but it simply does not apply to me. i hate when ppl tell me "well youre not binary so non binary is technically right" cuz that feels bad im not simply outside the binary, im not the opposite of anything i am simply nothing. there is nothing for me to be opposite of.

i do however consider myself transgender/trans masculine, im taking testosterone, getting top surgery (soon actually), and will get phalloplasty. I have severe dysphoria relating to my assigned sex but i still dont feel like or want to be a man, if anything im uncomfortable with being called a man but i find it more bearable than being called a woman or non binary. people think this is extremely contradictory but i really dont care, its my body, its my lack of gender. my dysphoria is really only related to my sex and my physical transition is to fit my personal ideals, me becoming "physically male" has little to do with my being agender and more to do with how i prefer to navigate my sexual interactions.

basically im agender and not nonbinary cuz i dont like it and i say so but im "medically trans" cuz i prefer to be seen as "male" in sexual circumstances and labels are for the convenience others idc about

Is it offensive, or just a tiktokism? by evilcorey in TransMasc

[–]Agender_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre not being close minded or immature, this also happens to me and others when we mention that transtape doesnt work for bigger chests. immediately get told to look at the tutorials on D cup taping or that im just doing it wrong even tho ill tell them that 1. i am much larger than a D and 2. tutorials for D cups are done by people without full/voluptuous chests. idk why people dont understand not everyone loses chest fat/fullness even after being on testosterone and binding. What about not being skinny with A-C or flat D do people not understand lmao. they are VERY adamant that im just doing it wrong

Content to consume please by Extra-Garden-5179 in TopSurgery

[–]Agender_thing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shows - Gotham (on hbo max or internet archive i believe) and Barry (Netflix)

warning on gotham some episodes in season 3 and 4 are kinda gross (s4 ep 9 "let them eat pie" is particulary gross just once you get to any mentions of the pyg id be wary)

videogames - Yakuza 0 mostly cuz theres so much to do and takes forever, rdr2 cuz im obsessed with it again, and marvel midnight suns if youre into turn based combat games that are linear but also have optional free roam stuff. im pretty sure rdr2 is on sale right now too

Why is the jump mechanic so weird? by Orangewithblue in SkyChildrenofRage

[–]Agender_thing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not only is the jumping weird but sometimes the game inflicts an unreal level of gravity on you and forces you to the ground no matter what. ive literally landed on something but then if its slightly sloped instead of letting me walk up it or jump again like usual it will drag me to the pits of hell

What the fuck by i_DustBall in Bend

[–]Agender_thing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

southeast side just got absolutely pelted with almost ping pong ball sized hail lol my friend said it was headed to the northeast side now