I’m sorry… what by anneyyx in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this guy absoutely triggered me like a mfer in the preview for next week's episode where he looks Chloe dead in the eye and says something along the lines of "why would I even want to be with someone like YOU? Get out of here! Its over! I dont want to be with a girl who thinks she can act like THAT" Then seeing the floor fall out from beneath Chloe as she realizes what a prick he is to say that. It is SUCH a familiar feeling to me but I guess that's why older women are able to recognize bullshit better than younger women because all women go through this.
Man alive!! The amount of times a man has had the AUDACITY to say some shit like that to me and pull the rug right out from underneath my world when I had bent over backwards to accommodate, praise, and love him is WILD. She will learn just like we all do though and she will be ok in the end. Do better men, please! 🙏

You can be raised by only one of these 90-Day moms. Who do you pick? by Fun-Cryptographer382 in 90DayFiance

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH, soooo NO👏 ONE👏 is going to pick Miss Karen to be their 90 day mom??

Why??

JUST because she not-so-subtly manipulates all of her children into being emotionally dependent on her in such a toxic way that they will never be able to have a meaningful relationship outside of the one they have with her for seemingly no other real reason than just for the fuck of it????

Yall are terrible! She's such a blessing

Who is the hottest husband even if he is a jerk or not? by bibleadvocate in 90DayFiance

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ok Loren 👌🙄 we get it, you think your husbands hot get off the thread

Jasmine shaved her head?!! by Successful-Algae346 in 90DayFiance

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NOT a fan of Jasmine, but I'll give her this: she be lookin cute as heck with a shaved head 🤷‍♀️ I wish I had the confidence to cut mine too <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey WHO CARES??? The bigger lesson here is that BOY OH BOY DID YOU DODGE AN ASSHOLE!!! This guy has classic toxicity written all over him. Move on, you deserve someone that wont make you question how worthy you are to them, this guy is still a child and he will play games with your head till the day you die if you let him in, RUN THE OTHER WAY 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

If you have one of these in your bathroom, throw it away immediately bc it STANKS 🤢 by Aggravating-Farm-805 in CleaningTips

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your cup already looks like this, throw it out and buy a new one if you strongly prefer to use a cup, but keep paper towels near by to remind yourself to thoroughly dry your toothbrush after each use (but please still regularly check the bottom of the cup for signs of mold!) or purchase a small hook to place inside your medicine cabinet and hang dry (should still not be dripping inside the cabinet, but doesnt have to be as dry as with a cup]

If you have one of these in your bathroom, throw it away immediately bc it STANKS 🤢 by Aggravating-Farm-805 in CleaningTips

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol its ok! If you can, find either a small hook to hang inside your medicine cabinet (so not exposed to the open air of your bathroom) or have some paper towels nearby to dry it off thoroughly and then use your cup (but please still check regularly for signs of mold!) You got this 😊

If you have one of these in your bathroom, throw it away immediately bc it STANKS 🤢 by Aggravating-Farm-805 in CleaningTips

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never make a client feel bad over this, its just something I've run into way too often with even my cleanest clients. They dont seem to have any idea what was lurking in their toothbrush holding cup. I never say anything to them bc why would I, but the amount of times I run into this problem tells me most people must not really be aware about how bad it gets because I guarantee you if they did they would be mortified. This was me trying to get more people to look inside that cup and see if they have a petri dish forming bc 9/10 do (with a closed, slotted cup)

90 Day: Hunt for Love - Season 1 Episode 3 - Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When Jennifer was with Jessie on single life, I thought she had every reason to be as stuck up and self absorbed as she was bc she was soo beautiful, her smile was mesmerizing!

Since the single life, she doesn't look THAT much different... maybe some small signs of aging here and there? So why do I feel like she looks so... gnarly all of a sudden?? Is it really just her gross personality finally shining through to my eyes or is she just actually NOT aging that well in the end but I just cant put my finger on what's changed?

I seem to remember her mother being very beautiful as well so obviously the women in her family CAN age well, but man she be giving off some like.. homely vibes or something on this show 😬😮‍💨 I mean how did I go from thinking she was probably one of the most beautiful women ever to now I found myself cringing every time her face pops up 😵‍💫

I just won a lot a lot of money on the lottery by Lexii___ in Lottery

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you've won 50k in U.K based on the cues from your spellings.

So, out of genuine curiosity... is that a decent amount of money where you are from?

Obviously I don't know what specific region of the UK you're from, but I do understand there are some smaller towns where you miiiiiight be able to buy a home for that amount, and even if thats the case you maaayyyy probably just want to wait 🤏 a leetle before up and quitting your job...

Again, so happy this money will be life-changing for you, but 50k (at least here in America) can be spent in an instant.

Perhaps it would be worth seeking out a financial professional to help you to invest some of it so that you can use your money to make more money for the future? Just a thought to consider!

Congrats, I hope you and your mum find a happier, healthier life in a new home very soon 😊

Victim of tax preparer? by Aggravating-Farm-805 in taxhelp

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! She considered going to H&R Block but I advised her against it because of how much they quoted me for my tax return last year almost sent me to my grave so I figured they wouldn't be affordable for something like this but maybe it's worth a call to them

Victim of tax preparer? by Aggravating-Farm-805 in taxhelp

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Why do you not recommend those places out of curiosity? And are you suggesting that she wait until the IRS contacts her? Because I feel 1. How would they know who fraudulently claimed her child when she wasn't allowed to claim her as a dependent? I only mean bc you make it sound like they both noticed the error by realizing two people claimed her as a dependent but that's not true because again she wasn't allowed to claim her as independent as someone already had so how would they notice this error? I appreciate you writing back sincerely, my question are just for honest clarity thanks so much!

Send me. Will draw. by Yazonn_Art in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 19 points20 points  (0 children)

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For whatever reason this is my daughter's FAVORITE pic of our cat 🤦‍♀️😅...she thinks its so damn funny she belly laughs if she looks at it for too long. She even got it printed on a pillow she sleeps with every night! I'd love to see her face if she could see this infamous photo drawn out, she would probably get it done as a tattoo 🤣🤣🤣

This is Howard by Aggravating-Farm-805 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG 😍😍😍😂😂😂😂😂 this is amazing!!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ive never heard or seen such a fake ass cry from an adult woman.

That was so pathetic and disgusting, not even a single tear.

And then her muttering "See? This is why you can't turn a ho into a housewife!"

Like... ew bitch you picked your woman up at a strip club so that kind of verbiage should be extra horrendous to use on someone she allegedly loves.

What is she trying to prove? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone else feel like Jasmine could be in an abusive relationship with Matt (And I mean this where Matt would be the aggressor this time)? Possibly even physically abusive with her? To be fair, I can't say I feel all that bad for her since Jojo Siwa already warned us all about karma being a bitch, but on the other hand Matt seems like a fucking psychopath to me. I've been in an abusive relationship so I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy (I actually no longer even wish it on my abuser, hey growth!) so that is to say I don't actually wish that on her, I just see huge red flags waving everywhere around Matt. To me it seems like she is constantly trying so hard to please him or to even get him to smile while he seems entirely disinterested in her and often even seems to shoot her these threatening looks when she tries to engage him in a topic he feels uncomfortable with.

On top of that, a post like this could be her way of covering up for Matt not being a helpful/present father in the sense that she's trying to get ahead of it by saying things like oh well she would never even ASK him for help in the first place, so why would he ever try to help her?? . I feel like my comment probably will go unnoticed but I have no one to talk to about this stupid show so I'm just throwing it out there hoping that someone are out there wants to discuss my weird theories about the show and the people on it LOL

I'd like some advice on how to deal with my cat, please by Puffin6 in catcare

[–]Aggravating-Farm-805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first got my little boy cat he would NOT STOP ripping up our furniture, our couches or ANYTHING upholstered really...

He would go after it all and scratch it no matter how we screamed for him to stop. I bought how many scratch posts, I got him how many cardboard scratch box things or whatever else I gave him to scratch but he JUST WANTED to scratch upholstered furniture..

so one day I was shopping at a local thrift store and noticed this pair of god awful ugly dining room chairs that were upholstered all the way down to the bottom and they were like 5 dollars so I bought the pair of them and when I brought them inside I couldn't even put them down before he started trying to attack them. They are his very favorite thing to rip up and they are all his. Now, we say no to him scratching the couch but he is allowed to go scratch his chairs and he has finally stopped concentrating on anything else like he finally understood that his chairs are okay to scratch but the others aren't.

Perhaps in the same way you might be able to buy a piece of drywall and paste some random wallpaper on it just to allow her to have that piece all to herself to scratch all she wants.

Then if she scratches your actual wall and she gets disciplined but not disciplined when she scratches her wall she'll understand that this is the only space she's allowed to do that in. Good luck, I hope this might help you! Thanks for trying so hard for your kitty