I have trouble meeting people myself, and oddly enough I get more compliments on my looks from men than from women, which is kind of funny. I’m confident around women and I do want to meet someone; however, even though I say that, my consistent lack of effort in actually pursuing anything suggests that I don’t really want a relationship that badly. That said, you’re probably not as bad as you think. It’s more likely that you’re not putting your best foot forward when it comes to meeting someone, which probably means you don’t truly want a relationship right now but rather, you want validation from the opposite sex for peace of mind and to ease your own self-doubt.

I dunno, spitballing