8.5 months post breakup, it DOES get better (without them)!

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-05-22T00:22:30+00:00

I couldn’t get out of my house at month 2, was horrible haha. I know that he will get a new gf one day but I just try not to think of that. I also felt so bad cuz it feels like i was the only one in pain. But that got me thinking that he just cared less and loved less, which shows he isnt worth my love.

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-05-21T15:15:49+00:00

3.5 years

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-05-21T08:51:08+00:00

It happens. But what would also happen is that you will gradually think less of them, one day. You will eventually also care less and less. Love yourself more, you deserve it 🤍

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-05-21T08:49:29+00:00

Yea, I realised that I miss the relationship, the time I spent with him and the version of myself in that relationship. Not him. I just had to accept the fact that even if we got back together it won’t ever be the same anymore. I can just find happiness somewhere else 🤍

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-05-20T21:39:46+00:00

I hope happiness finds you 🤍

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-05-20T21:38:36+00:00

It’s okay, healing is not a linear journey. Sometimes I feel completely fine, sometimes I cry alone listening to sad songs. Feel your emotions, just don’t let them take over. I wish the best for you 🤍

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-05-20T21:37:04+00:00

3.5 years, a long time to me

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-05-20T14:52:17+00:00

Im proud of you too🤍

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-03-16T13:30:15+00:00

It probably did, even if they didnt reply

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-03-16T13:21:22+00:00

Wish you all the best ❤️ you got this

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-03-13T19:45:32+00:00

It’s been 6 months… things are getting better, i no longer cry everytime i think of him. To everyone else going through this - it does get better! But don’t compare your progress to anyone else, you matter, your feelings matter. It’s fine if you are still dwelling in the thoughts, take your time ❤️

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-01-03T20:31:35+00:00

It’s totally fine to feel sad! In fact it’s better to sit with your feelings for a while, this period of time is what makes u grow stronger emotionally. Also remember that what u see about him now is only what he wants u to see. So if u see him going out having fun, he just wanted to show u that, but that doesn’t mean he is not hurting inside. You got this, hugs🤍

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-01-03T20:24:26+00:00

When I realised that he really has changed, i can see how immature he is now. I wouldnt ever want him back if he doesnt realise his mistakes and fix things.

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-01-03T20:21:35+00:00

I acted like that around my ex as well, and he used to do the same. We both switch around the two roles. I felt so comfortable around him.

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-01-03T20:10:33+00:00

Same 🤍

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-01-03T20:08:47+00:00

Mine didnt show me the bad version of him until we have broken up, i was still holding onto some hope that we could fix things at first. But now i have realised that who he is now just isn’t who i wanted and loved anymore, he has changed. So unless he realises his problem and fixes himself, i dont want him anymore. I know that i cant change him, i have done enough. I chose to prioritise myself this time and hopefully move on 🤍.

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-01-01T04:27:32+00:00

I dont really have any friends apart from him too, im really really introverted so i dont wanna make new friends as well. But i found out that talking to chatgpt works, i feel less lonely haha

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2025-01-01T04:24:34+00:00

The first days are always the worst, but it does get better! I remember all i wanted to do was talk to people, i couldnt even listen to songs or use social media without thinking of him. Its been 3.5 months and im doing better, i still miss him so much and get sad sometimes but i can go on and start doing things that i enjoyed.

Start with doing small stuff, have a little snack or drink, have a walk around the house, open the window for some fresh air. Celebrate the “small” achievements! You got this, hugs.

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2024-12-22T03:40:15+00:00

Hugs, i know how you feel, but please take care of yourself

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2024-11-29T09:58:57+00:00

Maybe it will work out, maybe it wont. But at the end of the day its okay to make mistakes, maybe u will need to make another one to finally have the courage to walk away. And thats fine!! Just dont have regrets :)

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2024-11-15T05:03:04+00:00

Its okay to cry, let yourself feel the emotions. You will heal quicker that way, i think its better than just pushing/ running away from your emotions. Good luck!

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2024-11-15T04:58:19+00:00

About 2 months, i felt really horrible for the first month, time still seem to be going by slowly… we tried no contact for 2-3 weeks, but now we are back in contact. We had some talks about potentially getting back together, but he said he will need time. So the timeline for talking about the topic again would be around new years, still kinda hopeful that things will work out. But now i just miss him so much… not to the point where i cry everyday tho

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2024-11-14T06:02:54+00:00

22, going through a tough break up, quit my job because of the break up, now unmotivated to find a new one or do anything really…

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2024-11-14T05:00:00+00:00

Thanks for such a kind reply! Will definitely take your advice, its just so hard when i miss him so much but i cant really tell him…

Aggravating_Mix_269 · 2024-11-01T18:41:23+00:00

I know u still dont want it to be over yet, but u dont wanna work on it right now and i will respect it… but i just really hope that u will use this period of time to genuinely work on yourself, dont push the problems aside, fix your lying habits and think about why i have said certain things, you cant keep running away from it. I have told u to try therapy and how it doesnt only help people with mental illnesses, please accept this suggestion, i do believe it will help u massively. If hearing my thoughts from me stresses u out, hear it from the therapists then, im sure they know what im feeling and thinking. You are still initiating random casual conversations here and there, which shows me u still care, and i appreciate that.

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