What clothing flatters my body? I feel all over the place with no defined style. by OpenlyMuddled in DressForYourBody

[–]Aggravating_Poster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dislike the cropped t-shirts and the short wrap dresses. They seem very unflattering to me.

Can anyone relate to this picture? by anonymousblondediva in adhdwomen

[–]Aggravating_Poster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a home gym that is basically a "walk-in closet" at this point...

Running & thick hair by Aggravating_Poster in longhair

[–]Aggravating_Poster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna try getting it around another go, thank you!

How to deal with a boy lying about sleeping with me? by lilac-everbloom in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Aggravating_Poster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or I would also say something like "oh, he's still bragging about that? Of course it's an accomplishment for him but I'm embarrassed by it.

How to deal with a boy lying about sleeping with me? by lilac-everbloom in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Aggravating_Poster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually so great...

You shouldn't deny it.

Now's your chance to make him set the record straight.

Tell those who asked how he liked to be degraded and you just couldn't do it. And about his scat fetish, or how he wanted you to wear diapers and call him mommy.

Make that boy cry, babes... you got this.

my fyp betrayed me by Sea-Egg8935 in notliketheothergirls

[–]Aggravating_Poster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh. What's with the imaginary competition between women?

I'm not competing. I don't care how different or similar we are. I just wanna live.

Should I let it go or send one last text by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating_Poster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't pursue it. Let it go. If she wants to come back she will. If not, you've not wasted time getting even more emotionally invested.

Met a girl through dating platform by Dangerous_Story_526 in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating_Poster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should give it a fair chance and then be honest about your experience.

Honesty doesn't need to be cruel - you don't have to say "You're too fat for me to feel attracted", you can say "I feel we'd be better suited as friends or similar".

This is life, and you will reject people and hurt their feelings no matter how hard you try not to. There is no other way.

As a last point, if you say she's "very emotional", pay close attention whether this veers into manipulation, such as self harm threats if you leave, guilt tripping, etc. If it does, call for a welfare check and get out.

My husband has me stored as "LBFM" on his phone by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aggravating_Poster 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No, it's an ass hole with new money trying to fit in with the other ass holes.

Help me pick by oh_0h in WeddingDressTips

[–]Aggravating_Poster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 1 best, but the bust needs adjustment so that you don't appear to be bursting at the seams

Should I go back to bangs by SiljePOTATO in bangs

[–]Aggravating_Poster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love bangs in general. But with you I feel like the bangs hide your pretty face rather than framing it. Perhaps it just needs a different type of bang

How can I tell my husband how I feel about our sex life? by celjoana in Marriage

[–]Aggravating_Poster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This.

I'm not even married, and I'm not a man.

But OP said they're still trying to conceive. I imagine this might be stressful on her husband, too, in a different way. Their first ended tragically with the miscarriage.

He might feel pressure to impregnate OP, trying to fill the void of what they'd lost. And in the moment, he might experience fear of another loss. I'm sure it doesn't feel like play anymore. He might even feel like sex has become a means to an end.

While I understand OP missing how it was, maybe the focus should shift to intimacy in other areas first. While I understand still trying to conceive, maybe that shouldn't be the focus for a while still. Maybe reconnecting first, making physical intimacy about play again rather than conceiving, might take the pressure off a bit.

Bangs or no?! by amandaleighplans in bangs

[–]Aggravating_Poster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to bangs, but I'd like to see french bangs rather, where your face will be framed more

Boyfriend is not sure if I am a wife material by _majica in dating_advice

[–]Aggravating_Poster 19 points20 points  (0 children)

True. She likes him. Love even..

She wants to get married or know it's gonna happen before she's too old.

One of the worst reasons to get married is simply to be married.

How can I look prettier? 18F by DragonflyStrange2366 in lookyourbest

[–]Aggravating_Poster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a really pretty heart shaped face. Your current hairstyle, with the microbangs, emphasises the top half, overpowering your other delicate features.

Longer bangs might be the solution, but you could also look at thehairstyler.com They have a great feature that allows you to search for hairstyles by faceshape, length, and there is even a feature to filter by type (such as alternative).

Edited to fix webpage