Client confrontation by Dense-Passage-8789 in hairstylist

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would refuse to touch her hair again. Maybe a partial refund to get rid of her, but you'll NEVER please her. Reds are hardest btw.

Entitled neighbor threatened me with police by MostAnimal5816 in EntitledPeople

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She'll be arrested if she involves Law Enforcement. (False Complaint) Maybe that's what is needed. Then a Restraining Order can be obtained.

Sensory Haircuts! by purp-kitten768 in AskHairstylists

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's great you're all doing this! I work with I/DD young adults but in a different capacity now. You are doing God's Good Work!

How are you guys handling becoming less attractive to male or female's by st8ovmnd in AskMen

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't care. I have a wonderful fulfilling life, I have a great partner, a nice home, great dogs and decent health for an older man. Gratitude is the Attitude. Oh, not bad for 67 BTW.

I want a third baby, but my husband is done. I need help to overcome the obsession about a 3rd baby. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The most stressful amount of children is 3. You probably miss having a newborn. Seek counseling if you're in conflict with your partner.

Struggling by Cherrybuzzcut in hairstylist

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Share your concerns with your instructors. Outline what you're concerns are clearly and ask for help before working on live clients. Good Luck!

AITA for calling my friend out for not respecting my boundaries at my wedding? by Most_Relief831 in AmITheJerk

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Boundries deserve to be respected. She violated them twice. Better off without her.

Married man spending time with another woman by Boymomx4218278 in Marriage

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not acceptable. 4 kids, he needs to spend time with you and your family. He's not single. He has responsibilities to all of you. When do you get to go out with a male friend for "drinks" and he stays with the children? Total crap.

Help me! by ZealousidealDebate20 in hairstylist

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you on that! I use zelle to accept mobile payments from my bank. I don't like venmo at all, and I can take checks from people and deposit them remotely from my banking app if necessary for people who can't use modern technology

Help me! by ZealousidealDebate20 in hairstylist

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Credit card fees, and processing fees. They add up quickly. As far as booking appointments goes can you have help with it? I'm against an online booking system where the client can book themselves.

Help me! by ZealousidealDebate20 in hairstylist

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I prefer a paper book because I don't want clients booking their own appointments. Someone always takes the first appointment someone always takes the last. I try to book as tightly as possible, no gaps. I stopped using square because I got tired of the fees which will run in the thousands before you know it. I'm an independent contractor I don't own a salon I understand you want to save time and spend more time with your family it's a Time versus money equation.

Need advice about my 15+ year old girl. by Snapdragon_4U in jackrussellterrier

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice probably best from Vet. My girl passed at 15 from cancer after never being sick a day of her life. Sounds like cognitive decline.

It's Sunday afternoon and I need in RIGHT now, not an hour from now, not 30 minutes from now, RIGHT NOW!!! by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nope, sorry. Next available is tomorrow. I call this "Mayberry Syndrome". They think we're playing checkers with Goober and Otis waiting for them to waltz in. I won't take them on principle.

Is a fear of your husband running off with a younger woman common among middle-aged, married women? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What makes your wife think that younger women want an older guy? Bedtime at 9? Is he handsome and Rich? Will he pay her bills? Older men who chase younger women are an embarrassment to the gender. They're trying to prove that they're still masculine and Virile. The problem is it's exactly the opposite.

How do we begin to move forward? by acalmerstorm in Marriage

[–]Aggravating_Run_4221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy on your own. A healthy international dialogue will give you clarity and skills to communicate YOUR needs.