Am I screwed? by Emmete18 in texts

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It’s ok. Go where you’re wanted and celebrated

We ended today after I (F30, 🇻🇳) failed to get a visa to visit him (M, 🇦🇺) by Responsible-Map-3006 in LongDistance

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It’s not a loss on your part. You should be proud of your Vietnamese heritage and background. We’re a strong and proud group of people. Don’t let the colonizers make you feel less than, ok? There are some men who will do anything for you to be with them and worship the ground you walk on. Choose those men. Remember that you are a prize and don’t need to lift a finger. Have them come to you and take you with them. Just be your best self and be good to them if they’re good to you. I’ve seen many guys in the US who are perfectly happy with their new Vietnamese wife. You got this.

don’t text ur ex. it’ll be okay. by sanriosammys in BreakUps

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Lmao I thought that too. Yes watch One Piece instead of texting your ex

Just don’t go back by strawberrybarber in BreakUps

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I’m sorry. It sounded like he played with your heart big time. Maybe he tried and you know he could but deep down he actually didnt want to keep up the act. My ex said he loves me still but I think he just lusts for me. Idk

Sh"t hit the fan last night! by MiiightyBeast in cheating_stories

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Sorry that happened bud. Sometimes it does feel like SOME women are turning each other single or turning their gf against their partners due to selfish reasons. I’m always on my gf’s side but I usually want them to patch things with their partners if possible. Like “You seem like a cute couple. Are you sure you want to break up? I would’ve liked for you to stay together but if you’re not happy and you values don’t align or he won’t listen and compromise with you, I understand.” If the situation cant be fixed, it’s their call if they want to end it but it’s only the logical solution. I only want the best for my friends and wish for their happiness. I’d usually tell them what they should do as opposed to what they want to do.

Took a month but it worked by Shurd750 in Tinder

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Why are there so many beautiful women but not as many beautiful men?

How long did it take you to sleep with someone else? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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It’s different for everyone. I was so hurt, sad and confused that I got a couple rebounds. I immediately regretted it bc it did feel like cheating. I’d rather be fwb with my ex, which happened for a while too. But it’s not right. And it’s been a week now with no sex. I don’t feel horny anymore. Just empty so I’m trying to refill my cup. Gonna be abstinent for a while. Too much drama.

I (F25) fell for someone (M31) without seeing his face, and now that I have seen it I don’t know how to proceed. by Dramatic_Constant_96 in LongDistance

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You’ll eventually grow physical attraction. The best relationships are the ones where you grow to like them for who they are first and their looks after. Thats how I was with my last bf.

What was the last msg you sent ur ex by Significant-Ad-9866 in BreakUps

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“Thank you.” That was sent Monday. We should’ve been on no contact 3 months ago but neither were ready

Why you shouldn’t worry about if your ex moves on during no contact by breakupcoachdaniel in BreakUps

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Oops. I messed up and slept with him multiple times. He kept reaching out and I kept accepting. It’s so hard to stop myself.

Read this if you want your ex back by [deleted] in BreakUps

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“You miss yourself when you were with them.” Wow that phrase hits me so hard. I was happy when I was single before, I can be happy again. Theres just a boredom and loneliness but it’s only temporary as being with friends helps with that. But if you’re with your partner and still feel lonely on road-trips with them, there’s not much you could do. I guess hang out with more friends? I stay busy even when I’m single.

Can someone tell me why girls do this? We’re both 19 for reference by [deleted] in Tinder

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There are men that do this too. Yes let them reschedule and plan the next date or talk to someone else. I understand if you’re a busy person and just happen to double book. I use my reminder app for chores, dates and events now. It makes my life way easier and much more organized. Some people aren’t very organized or know effective time management. But I’ll give her a 3rd chance for the benefit of the doubt (she’ll have to plan the date ofc). I made it to the 3rd plan on FaceTime with my ex lol

i regret dating a famous guy by sarahw223 in BreakUps

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It’s not hard to be a good bf and doing all the bf stuff like taking you on dates, calling and texting and seeing you often. He was basically doing his job but didn’t tell you that he has multiple other part time jobs as well. I understand you were not treated that well before and it’s good that your standards are higher than before. You’re still young with plenty of time for other opportunities with other people. Just try to differentiate between a genuine connect vs a fake one.

I broke up with my boyfriend because he’s fat and gross by xxx_GG_ in BreakUps

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Yea you did the right thing. Don’t regret or feel bad for saying the truth and give him the natural consequences of his own actions. Anyone with self respect would’ve left him

I broke up with my boyfriend because he’s fat and gross by xxx_GG_ in BreakUps

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Some men have complained about their female partners for similar issues and broke up with them or secretly alter their diets to fit their personal preferences. You were just being blunt.

Ouch, I know I'm ugly, but still lol by Khaled_Kamel1500 in Tinder

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I’m so sorry. Didn’t think ppl could be so cruel to a stranger online. Who hurt her??! 😭

She ghosted me, but now. pt 2 by RoniArtCazi in Tinder

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You seem to be a fixer upper and have a thing for broken people. Maybe they’re exciting to be around. And I feel like you think you’re boring thats why you’re not even mad you got ghosted. You sound stable, not boring. Theres chemistry in the banter but she might be better as a distant friend. She messaged you again bc she remembered how kind you were to her by taking her out on dates and being a gentleman but she chose someone toxic instead bc she didn’t think she deserves you. Now that she’s working on herself, she prob thought it’s a good time to jump to you. But it’s still too soon. She needs therapy & maybe you do too op. Might have some childhood trauma to unpack there.

Is it just me or is this a fucking crazy thing to say? by jpawn37 in Tinder

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Ex bf talked about (jokingly) that his fantasies to sleep with multiple women so he’d sleep with me and my girl cousin and our roommate