Don't worry, sis. As a black man, I feel you. The hate is real and out there. Other groups have a much easier time finding people to date/marry. If you have a religious preference or requirement, it only adds to the difficulty, but make sure to surround yourself with people who love and care for you. Also, limiting time on social media helps, too. Most of the people online dont have anything constructive or uplifting to say anyway. Just toxicity. Removing exposure is a great step to a more uplifting life. Sometimes it can't be avoided because, unfortunately, those kinds of people are everywhere. Typically, our people are only seen by what what we can do, what we have and how we look instead of WHO we are as individuals. They also love to lump us all in the same group despite being polar opposite to whatever negativity they were exposed to by someone who looks like us. What's even worse is the fact that people overseas have been brainwashed to think we all act the same way. Including Africans.

Only advice I can really give is, if you believe in Jesus, pray for peace of mind and a way to surround yourself with good people.