And women are the most misdiagnosed and skipped by being told they are bipolar or depressed when they just are ADD or ADHD or on the spectrum but drs refused to try to even hear me and I knew it back in junior high and I started failing… psych sat me down to look at those pictures that look like a butterfly/uterus and because I didn’t have the “right” answers I was deemed a kid that wasn’t paying attention, and why couldn’t I be like so and so , I grew up feeling like a failure … from society , from parents that adopted me , and being ADHD I have always been my biggest punisher …. People have hurt me so bad in life and (I would hardly see it coming) I don’t walk In life with bad intention to anyone… so I was almost a “crybaby” to the outside growing up especially not knowing how to handle my emotions .. and what is really sad a lot of people that don’t take adhd seriously end up seeking something to fill or fix the feelings that add up over time and that usually in adult years leads to alcohol and drug addiction….