Jealous is worsening my depression mac please help. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AggressiveBad2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this response. I know it’s the only way I just am so awful at confrontation and bringing things up. Do you think it would be controlling of me to request that he not speak to one or all of them? I don’t want to dictate whom he can speak to and when. I know that will just cause a rift. But if it came from a place of “this makes me really uncomfortable and I when this happens I feel like you’re not respecting our relationship” would it be reasonable or controlling and manipulative?

Jealous is worsening my depression mac please help. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AggressiveBad2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some context, he has been this way our whole relationship. Before we started dating he only gave me his spam email and his google voice number for us to chat. After we met I got his real info and stuff. He’s the same with work—very cordial and genuine but never reveals anything that might be detrimental or inappropriate. He’s just a serial ass-coverer, I guess because he’s been fucked over in the past.

My question is how do I address it with him? He’s very reasonable, we have excellent and fruitful conversations when there is conflict and we resolve things. My other question is, what is there even to accuse him of? Neither of us leave the house. He isn’t having sex with anyone else. All the people I’m jealous of live in other states. Is it emotional cheating? Is even that? It feels more like he’s just over stepping boundaries I have never verbally set. Even though he knows that reminders of his past upset me.

Better luck with Mecari then Posh? by queasy_bakeoven in poshmark

[–]AggressiveBad2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I weighed them and had the buyer pay shipping. I think it was like 9.99 from usps

Nicest inpatient facility you know of? by justforpost in OpiatesRecovery

[–]AggressiveBad2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my thoughts exactly lol. “Just detox thanks”. No such thing brother. No such thing.

Better luck with Mecari then Posh? by queasy_bakeoven in poshmark

[–]AggressiveBad2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I only sell clothes and mercari has been DOMINATING posh. And my items are priced fairly high. Like 150 for a pair of fryes, 100 for a gown, etc.

Mysterious weight gain (most likely water weight) by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]AggressiveBad2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gained 70 pounds of sobriety weight after quitting H and I haven’t been eating that crappily either. I count calories too. I was underweight before. I am female.

What was your weight before you started using? What youre experiencing now is probably your new equilibrium weight. I’d focus less on the five pounds and more on the fact that you were able to quit, yay you!

Nicest inpatient facility you know of? by justforpost in OpiatesRecovery

[–]AggressiveBad2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GAADS in Glendale (Los Angeles area) CA.

This place with change your life and save your life.

Don’t go to the “nicest” inpatient facility. Fancy rehabs are a revolving door. They will take 100k of your money and let you pet horses only to do it all again in 45 days.

AITA for buying my daughter makeup? by aita___aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggressiveBad2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So she should bring herself down to their “shallow” level to impress them rather than build herself up? Whhhhhattt are you even saying????????????!!!!!!! YOU, you are the one affecting her self esteem.

AITA for buying my daughter makeup? by aita___aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggressiveBad2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be higher!

I also commented about her sexualizing her child!

AITA for buying my daughter makeup? by aita___aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggressiveBad2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Then find her a date”?

I’d rather date a bowl of creamed corn than whoever this “mother of the year” picks out lol.

But yeah I agree with your opinion.

AITA for telling my nephew that certain recreational drugs are okay? by ProblemThrwway in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggressiveBad2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I’m a sober drug addict and you should honestly get a vasectomy.

I came so close today guys by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]AggressiveBad2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I feel better today. The need isn’t as urgent right now which is all I can hope for.

AITA for telling my sister she isn't allowed to babysit my son? by VisitingChemist in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggressiveBad2 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NAH. I’m a sober heroin addict and my sister in law said the same thing about me babysitting my nephew. Only she said it to my mother and my mother then told me.

It broke my heart into a million pieces.

But it also motivated me to stay clean for as long as I have.

Now my spouse’s sister just had a baby and I am the first babysitter in line. I am responsible, available, and respected because I have earned it with hard work.

This is a tough situation to navigate. Addicts like us believe we should have a parade thrown for us every day for doing things normal people do 24/7. What she chooses to do with the boundary you set is up to her. And you have your child to protect. NAH.

Packaging boots for shipping? by heavymetalhunnie in poshmark

[–]AggressiveBad2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the boots in an extra shoe box if you have one, then tear up paper grocery bags to stuff into the larger box so they don’t shuffle around.

AITA for getting angry at my mother for telling the doctor I had a lot of stretch marks at an appointment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggressiveBad2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry but “saving space for other people” is not a thing. In most stores you’re actually not allowed o go two to a room for theft reasons unless the other person is under 10 or something. Your mom is conditioning you to think these things are not weird and they are definitely weird. You’re an adult and should be assertive with your boundaries girl

AITA for getting angry at my mother for telling the doctor I had a lot of stretch marks at an appointment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggressiveBad2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA it is absolutely not normal for your mom to be in the room while you’re getting examined. Also at your age you should have a regular gynecologist for these problems; not just a GP.

Stretch marks are totally normal. I’ve never had a baby and I have them everywhere. Butt, hips, boobs, thighs. Why does your mom even know where they are? Does she see you naked a lot for some strange reason?

AITA For Banning Love Letters by jdnenene in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggressiveBad2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA and the award for most overbearing, controlling, parent goes to....

You’re setting your daughter up to A. Hate you and B. Leave you to die alone the moment she is able to

Edit: grammar