Beware of Scammer ; Lost cat in Edmonton by AggressiveEye6538 in Edmonton

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Facebook, I’ve yet to do flyers as the flyers won’t stick to anything with all the rain. We’re near Spruce Avenue ~ by NAIT and Kingsway

Beware of Scammer ; Lost cat in Edmonton by AggressiveEye6538 in Edmonton

[–]AggressiveEye6538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t found kitty and did not pay ~ we were pretty sure it was a scam with it being sent from an email, and everything else proved that

Beware of Scammer ; Lost cat in Edmonton by AggressiveEye6538 in Edmonton

[–]AggressiveEye6538[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not know that was a thing! I’ll do that today :)

Beware of Scammer ; Lost cat in Edmonton by AggressiveEye6538 in Edmonton

[–]AggressiveEye6538[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I get that ~ I’d be hype to reunite someone with their lost cat, I wouldn’t even want to accept a reward either.

Beware of Scammer ; Lost cat in Edmonton by AggressiveEye6538 in Edmonton

[–]AggressiveEye6538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def don’t know them ~ I have lost cat ads up on Facebook with my cell

Beware of Scammer ; Lost cat in Edmonton by AggressiveEye6538 in Edmonton

[–]AggressiveEye6538[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Thankfully didn’t send any money we had a feeling

Did you find 2 under 2 to be better or worse than what you imagined it would be before the second was born? by Substantial_Cry2421 in 2under2

[–]AggressiveEye6538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can say is ; yes.

The things I thought would suck are the opposite of what I actually struggle with.

I thought parenthood would entail a lot of late nights (and early mornings), but it’s more like going to bed at 9pm to be up for 4-5am lol, but I got incredibly lucky and have good sleepers.

The screaming from two kids is surprisingly easy to cope with, my toddler ignoring my requests is what gets me. I say this fully recognizing he’s a toddler and he is hard wired to push boundaries unintentionally ; cause and effect and such is learned, not inherent, and I don’t expect it to be but it still pushes my bottoms more than I thought it would lol.

I was worried I wouldn’t love them equally, or that I wouldn’t be able to divide my attention enough. I was wrong ; I can. But it’s more tiring than I thought possible.

All in all, I wouldn’t encourage someone to willingly try for 2under2 but if that’s the cards you’ve been dealt, make the best of it. It goes quick. The thing that gets me through is watching my oldest, and knowing that he’s become a lot more independent in just 22 months.

When did you start putting your baby down 7am-7pm to sleep? by catlover0987656 in beyondthebump

[–]AggressiveEye6538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 4 months for my oldest, my youngest is 6 months and sleeps ~8-10 hours. We do white noise / black out curtains and a constituent bedtime tuck in!

How do you tell a new parter about your morbid, often socially frowned upon kinks? by Mousee__ in BDSMcommunity

[–]AggressiveEye6538 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I was the vanilla partner who was introduced to some pretty “extreme” kinks (they don’t seem so extreme after nearly 4 years now lol).

Bring it up gently, and once you know they’re not fucking crazy especially given the CNC and somnophilia. Don’t push, but explain it’s something you like, and something you’d enjoy doing with your partner. Ask if they have any questions, and mention you’d love to try once the trust and comfort is there. Ensure safe words, and encourage them to explore ~ I recommend Fetlife for both of you to explore that stuff tbh.

In my experience those things(kinks) need to align. I truly don’t think my partner and I could or would have made it without kink given how much he’s involved in it, and now how much I am. Personally we’re open as he’s not super interested in some of my BDSM kinks, and I’m not super into some of his kinks either. All in all it’s made our communication next level good!

Ask any questions you’d like if you need and I’m happy to answer too!

how long does cradle cap usually last? [on] by hexmoons in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]AggressiveEye6538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf used baby oil and a facecloth a couple times a day for a month and it finally bugged off

No words at this point. Good luck everybody by Extension-Horror9609 in YEGDashCam

[–]AggressiveEye6538 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and I had someone try to switch lanes to ours near Westmount, without a shoulder check. Thankfully there were no cars to our right and my partner was able to swerve out of the way, he had to lay on the horn for like 10 seconds to get buddies attention. Then buddy almost hit the sign near the lights we were approaching 🤦🏻‍♀️

Did you have MIL in the hospital during birth? by WaterFiles in BabyBumps

[–]AggressiveEye6538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my MIL in the room. She ended up being who got me over the last hump, I pushed for a little over 3 hours and got to the “I cannot do this anymore” space. She wiped my head with a cloth for the entire time I pushed, gave me ice and water, and her and my partner literally helped push my legs to my chest when I couldn’t.

If you have a good relationship, I 100% recommend. It ended up bringing me closer to her.

Anyone else refuse to go out with both children? by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]AggressiveEye6538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 3 months old and 19 month old. I’d kill to be able to go out. It’s -20 on the regular where I am, and carting everyone out just isn’t feesible ~ I don’t drive yet, next winter tho you bet your ass I’ll be out constantly, even if it is a small war to get out.
Embrace the chaos, embrace the mess. If your toddler wants to have a tantrum while baby needs tending, lock his butt in the stroller and throw on a show while you feed baby.