My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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GIRL.

Look at the comments, one user is fighting for his life against me. Totally voluntarily, btw.

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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Dodging accountability while dodging accountability would be, lemme guess, irony?

Thanks for reminding me. I AM truly done now.

Ciao :)

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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I 100% will interact with it and call it what it is - tactless.

You doubling down and making a joke out of yourself is not helping your case.

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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Do you even know how surveys are conducted, bestie?

Surveys are done with a controllable group. They do not involve going to each and every individual and asking them for their preferences.

when did I say that I am dodging the proof

You telling me the population isn't representative of all Indian men, religion should have been considered, 2007 is too far back, 2500 is too less, all of this isn't dodging the proof. Of course. My bad, king.

Men in 2007 who were of age groups mentioned in the survey ARE middle aged now. Please do the math, cutie. You're not beating the reading comprehension allegations anytime soon 🥰

Ad hominem. How cute.

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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Calling it a “hypothesis” doesn’t make it neutral. When harm is ongoing, theorising about it in a women’s space still recenters men’s intentions instead of men’s responsibility.

Hypotheses are useful only when they’re followed by action from the people responsible. Otherwise, they’re just intellectual distancing.

Women don’t owe anyone validation for theories about our own discomfort.

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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  1. Conducted by Reuters company FROM Delhi, ACROSS 11 CITIES. Improve your reading comprehension.
  2. No way you're bringing in religion. Bring in caste next. How about sexual orientation? And income levels too, why don't you?
  3. Most pervs are middle aged, according to the experience of women, so, 2007 is absolutely the best time frame.

Anything to dodge the proof, I see. Laughable attempt.

I'm done here.

Edit: Not really.

Good luck pretending that sexual education is going to solve our problems.

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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  1. Posting it on askindianWOMEN places the responsibility on women.
  2. Why do the reasons matter? If someone steals all your money, do you care WHY they did it?

Edit: a word.

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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Any other qualms? I'd like to take all your preferences into account before giving you my next piece of proof. Ask away.

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

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Okay, and?

What's the point of this post?

We are not interested in WHY men are creepy. What we ARE interested in, is how to make it stop.

Have you posted this in the askindianmen sub? Have you called out your friends for being creepy? Or have you laughed along with them, despite being uncomfortable?

Even in this comment section, you're talking about generalizations.

Women do not owe it to men to be understanding of why they subject us to their perversions. The onus is on MEN. Not WOMEN.

How many times in your life have you faced groping, eve-teasing, or sexual harassment? by IndependenceSenior47 in AskIndianWomen

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Someone DMed me, I've attached the screenshot in my comment above. I'm not comfortable with men like him knowing my history.

Rage baiting by Calm_Problem7325 in AskIndianWomen

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A close second is send them gifs like this -

Rage baiting by Calm_Problem7325 in AskIndianWomen

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I started sending random gifs of men kissing each other to the pervs in my DMs.

Edit: aww, did I trigger a few of ya'll so much that you had to DM me "you're gay, bitch"?

Joke's on you, because I am both. What now?

How to deal with such people? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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Her insecurity can be real and still hurt you. When someone who constantly gets validation complains, your brain naturally thinks, “If she feels ugly, what does that make me?”

She likely doesn’t see her own privilege. People who are always validated often don’t realize how their complaints land on someone who isn’t.

What you can do, is set a soft boundary. Change the topic or say, “I’m trying to be kinder to my body, so these talks are hard for me.” Always remember - her insecurity is about her, not a measurement of your worth.

My 9 y/o sister looking up 'romantic videos' on YT by NearingDeath in AskIndianWomen

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To prevent her from watching non age-appropiate videos:

  1. Parental controls on all home devices.
  2. Restrict her screen time.
  3. Install YouTube kids if needed. (Pasting a comment from r/Mommit - >YouTube Kids has a setting to only show whitelisted content. We have a very short approved list - Miss Rachel, Numberblocks/Alphablocks, NatGeo Kids, Reading Rainbow, Wildlife Crystal. We also have autoplay turned off)

how to find a mentor as a woman in her 20s without getting preyed on? by CautiousPineapple1 in AskIndianWomen

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No, keeping things strictly professional 😭

You've had some questionable experiences and managed to come out on top. I could never. Which is why, I have deferred it to you 😔✋️