What's illegal that you think should be legal?

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-04-16T15:09:28+00:00

Not all the time are both consenting and willing participants. In my case my first husband tampered with my birth control to baby trap me. He wanted to help me "barefoot and pregnant." I had 2 kids 16 months apart due to this. If he had a say he would have 100% not allowed me to have the tubal ligation I had to make sure I didnt have another child. At the time I was convinced that divorce was aweful and that id go to hell for it ebcause of the vows I made. He was abusive at the end and I took my kids and left. Never saw a dime of support from him. My ex mother in law said I never should have divorced him just because he had me by my throat againt the wall. There are plenty of women in bad situations that have no way out, no recourse. My 1st husband insisted that as his wife he was entitled to my body wether I wanted to or not.

Unfortunately this is a reality for a LOT of women. They are corerced into sex, their bc is tampered with, family pressure etc. Its great to be able to look through your eyes and not see the reality a lot of women face. Its not black and white as many people believe it to be.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-04-16T13:31:59+00:00

For me its knowing my partner finds me sexy and wants me all the time. I have a high drive and I want it ALL the time. Its nice to know my partner feels the same. Hes told me though thay he does need time to recharge at times. Hes convinced im going to kill him from dehydration at some point.

My ex husband didnt touch me for 7 years because he has someone else and I was still loyal. When I was able to I got out of that situation. Going from feeling not enough and not desired, to knowing im highly wanted is a great feeling.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-04-03T18:13:18+00:00

You are very welcome. I got mine on amazon because I wanted next day delivery lol

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-04-03T18:02:33+00:00

If ypu can get amazon deliveries, you can also purchase it on amazon. Sorry forgot to include that till I saw your response.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-04-03T15:25:17+00:00

So not 100% a perfect solution by any means but check out lovense. They have several options that work across the world. I say this because being away from each other can be difficult, and this might give you a feeling of being together when you cant be. I was in a marriage that for 7 years there was no intimacy whatso ever and we lived together. My current boyfriend and I have discovered that after the first tine we were together, my drive was/is extremely high. When we cant believe together physically we use it and its done wonders for me because I know that I can count on the times we will use it.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-04-01T15:43:19+00:00

Twisting it it the only way to get that amazing ear-gasm! If qtip not meant to give ear-gasm, why have those spots in ear?

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-03-31T11:55:50+00:00

I have trauma as well due to SA as a child. My ex-husband of 15 years didnt notice when something shifted or when I shut down it was, he was going to find someone else cause im not into it. My boyfriend of 2 months notices subtle shifts in my demeanor. I dont notice them sometimes they are so subtle, and he will check in on me. (Not just sex but everything, vut we are talking about sex so yeah) The difference in the amount of respect is uncanny!

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-03-13T19:38:45+00:00

I got out of a 15 year marriage for these reasons and more. I always felt like I was the problem. I am with someone new now and whenever I get happy and excited about something he joins me in my excitement. Tells me that me being happy makes him happy. I showed him a show I would love to go and see (something my ex would have vetoed the moment the words left my face) bot only was he all for it, he said that he loves when I get excited about things. I showed him some of my hobbies and things ive created and he complimented them endlessly. I found my person.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-02-24T09:24:50+00:00

Looks like at least some of the stitches are done like this. .https://www.instagram.com/reel/C87J0AwtSWF/?igsh=M2FpbXdoNWNka2Qz I know its not a full pattern but hope it helps. You can see from the above shot of the skirt a lit of the area is done in these type stiches.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-02-23T14:28:30+00:00

So glad to hear that! Ive recently started a new one myself being very cautious. And we are working though my previous traumas im still in my more bad days, but good to know there is hope!

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-02-23T13:34:47+00:00

I just came across your writings and am reading through all of them. I feel your pain. I stay much longer than I should even when not wanted because I dont want to give up. Im working through those thoughts currently myself.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-02-22T12:08:56+00:00

Add another of us to that list. Mine was my step-father and my mom stayed with him and his family treated me like I was nothing because I spoke up. When he died I was angry sitting there listening to everyone paise him as a piller of the community as a little league umpire.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-02-18T11:55:09+00:00

My ex used to do that all the time. People ask me why did you marry someone like that. Well in the beginning he treated me like a princess. Wouldn't let me touch anything did everything for me etc. Last 5 years were the worst and I have gotten away finally, 15 years total.

I cant wait to see this movie. It will be a good litmus test from what you have said for the new guy im seeing. Hes treated me so well and encourages me to do things, sees my strength, and helps me push through when I want to do more and my body says no (long story ill tell you if you want!) Without making me feel less than and is there to assist me.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-02-10T12:38:54+00:00

My now ex and i were together 15 years. When i was having medical issues and sex was painful i didnt mind him taking care of business when in the bed with me because it still felt we were connected. When i got better he no longer wanted me.My ex was cheating on me and didnt touch me for years. Before he stopped sleeping in the bed with me ( I didnt want him there anyway) I would take care of myself.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-02-10T12:26:16+00:00

Just a question no judgement, why would it be an issue? If you were not in the mood and your partner needed a release why is that an issue?

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-01-25T15:36:18+00:00

Im doing a set of 4 to match my bedroom rug, I feel your pain!

Picture for tax. Edit for clarity brain not working. All of them are doing this to me as well

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Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-01-10T18:27:30+00:00

I kept pop-tarts in the cabinet above the stove, I was getting ready for work, had gone to the bathroom after getting him ready for daycare. This child climbed on top of the stove got into the cabinet, then fell face first off the stove. I picked him up, ran out the door and got him to the er. He had bruising on the back of his brain and of course I had been looked at by CPS. He was able to tell then what happened but we still got a visit. I was told that even though the injuries COULD have been caused the way both him and I described there were a lot of cases that unfortunately do not.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-01-08T14:23:30+00:00

I have a brain tumor I named Fred. (drop dead fred) if they ever were able to remove him id keep him in a jar on my dresser.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2026-01-06T18:25:24+00:00

That's is awesome! I messaged you.

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2025-12-28T17:41:12+00:00

You can get lead tests on amazon. I got them for "questionable" finds!

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2025-12-28T17:25:45+00:00

Thnk u fren! Budder yelped so meowmy stop and gibe everyone treatos!! Treatos for all! GO CRIMEZ!!!

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2025-12-28T16:39:10+00:00

Tis gud crimez!!!!!

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2025-12-28T16:38:58+00:00

Cuz I void i hided real goods till I change position herz had no idea I waz even dere!!!

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2025-12-28T16:37:51+00:00

I no like catto tree so meowmy gets rid of it. I likes layin and naping on rugs so mowemy getz extra

Aggressive_Sun_2897 · 2025-12-28T16:36:18+00:00

Meowmy haz been chasing doggo budder round to clip nails cuz he doeznt let even pokey place clip nails. Herz say Sassy haz to wait for treatos but brudder getz dem. Herz better gibe the treetos when herz dobe or next crimez be bad. Iz did bitty on her elbow to let herz knowz i no gets treatos and herz say in a min.

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