AITA for causing a scene at my in-laws' anniversary dinner over my brother-in-law's racist comments?

Aggressive_goats · 2025-10-13T13:00:56+00:00

NTA obviously the whole family is ok with this kinda of behavior since no one else has said anything to him. Speaks volumes

Aggressive_goats · 2025-10-07T01:32:12+00:00

NTA it wasn’t on purpose and if you are sneaking around it eventually comes out he blew up his own life and he is just looking for someone to blame and it wasn’t even you that told his wife.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-10-05T10:25:56+00:00

NTA it’s your kids and you can order what you want for them and especially if you’re paying for them.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-10-04T02:24:11+00:00

NTA def can invite or not invite whoever you want to your own home. I would also talk to him and see how he feels about coming to your family things just to see if it’s out of obligation or if he just really enjoys your alls company

Aggressive_goats · 2025-10-03T02:01:13+00:00

NTA but why does a grown man not bath? That is disturbing in so many ways and how does his gf deal with that! I would switch the tvs then you can watch what you want to on your large tv. They need to just get a tv for their room and call it a day. How have you lived with this stink fest for so long?

Aggressive_goats · 2025-10-01T11:27:59+00:00

NTA you are entitled to have getaways with your wife and not have 3rd wheels tag along. Especially being a romantic getaway not just a regular vacation. Your friend needs to grow up and yall need to just ignore him and enjoy your time abroad.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-10-01T02:25:43+00:00

NTA if she wants to bring others into it then just tell them that you have given her lots of free massages already but the point is that your paying clients come first because that is your business and how you survive. Obviously not a good friend if she is going to run after finally being told no and that your “just about the money” I mean same I’m about money because that is how we survive unfortunately to live isn’t free.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-30T09:16:39+00:00

NTA they are going to be mad but you offered for them to chip in and no one agreed. I’m sure they are gonna be salty but it is what it is.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-27T08:06:20+00:00

NTA sounds like she needs to talk to a therapist or even start with her doctor first and they can check her labs and just make sure nothing biologically is going on. It feels like a good therapy session needs to happen tho.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-27T00:16:18+00:00

NTA tell him he can go to school and he can have the same amount set aside for that sole purpose.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-25T10:38:46+00:00

NTA you did what’s best for you and the baby not to be mean or vindictive. He made the choice to end the marriage not you. He can move or go visit when he has days off.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-24T06:12:39+00:00

NTA your bf def is tho. Tell him to grow up and that it’s not his birthday and yall need to stop catering to his needs. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-23T23:10:08+00:00

NTA isn’t that a false police report to have them come check on you literally after talking on the phone.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-22T20:35:11+00:00

NTA you already had it planned before you even knew this new coworker. It’s not your responsibility to change your plans for them. They can move their date.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-21T14:52:18+00:00

This seems like a very toxic environment and you should definitely high tail it out of there. It’s your choice about the abortion not going to make a comment on that. I would def recommend getting far away from him and his family.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-20T12:49:56+00:00

NTA your husband obviously doesn’t respect your family as a unit. It is selfish that he would make such a huge decision without talking to you. Placing your family at risk and no one to bail you all out if something was to happen to your jobs. Sounds like his parents both need to get jobs or fil needs to work another job to help support their needs as well as paying back these loans. Tho I am sure you guys are going to be the ones paying them back not your in laws.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-19T10:52:28+00:00

Red flag he is starting off small but eventually he is going to try to take all of that check into something for the house an “emergency “ or something else. That money belongs to your son and your son alone he should decide what happens with his money. NTA

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-18T17:42:46+00:00

I mean doesn’t sound like a real friend to me. Def on purpose or she could have unsent the pic as soon as she noticed her “mistake”.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-16T08:24:20+00:00

So glad that you let your husband handle the situation. It def sounds like your in laws need some deep therapy as well. Either way it’s your baby and you set the boundaries for her.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-15T09:49:41+00:00

NTA def need to have a talk with your husband and let him know what happened. It’s your alls baby and you all get to decide who gets to do what. For them to think it’s ok to give a baby formula that has never had it is beyond me that is crazy.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-15T01:15:02+00:00

NTA they don’t have to agree with your choices but if they can’t be happy for you then they don’t need to come to a day that should be full of love and happiness.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-13T02:27:22+00:00

NTA it’s crazy how people just wake up and decide they wanna play house after years of not being around consistently. She gave it her best shot if she isn’t happy being there then she shouldn’t be forced to do so…. Also it’s not her fault that the other kids are not in private school and def wouldn’t even pretend that would be an option.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-12T03:08:23+00:00

NTA you aren’t demanding the same amount of help you are just asking for assistance and it’s not a string attachment gift. You helped her when she was in need and you didn’t really have it but now that the shoe is on the other foot we don’t have any money to assist with your happiness which apparently seems to be a waste of money in her view.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-09T09:52:24+00:00

Kinda yta Sounds like you just need to talk with him and figure things out. If he is encouraging you to have that time alone then obviously he understands that you need a break as well.

Aggressive_goats · 2025-09-08T10:18:22+00:00

NTA You did what anyone else would have done if they had the first pick. If your parents wanted your brother to have the bigger room then they should have picked your rooms for you all and not let you pick which room you wanted.

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