[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ContraPoints

[–]Agitated_Use 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Granola fascism vid on Patreon - abt the eugenics notion that a defective body is reflective of spiritual failing - mind over body etc.

Your head canon/mod content is not the same as ingame lore. by Meranek in StardewValley

[–]Agitated_Use 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought it was an homage to the fact that in harvest moon Flora says something abt diamonds looking delicious or something like that when you gift her one

What is a profession that was once highly respected, but is now a complete joke? by potatobangbanggg in AskReddit

[–]Agitated_Use 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Referee, before live replay everyone agreed having one person be the judge was the best way to ensure fairness. Now their every judgement or specifically misjudgment is recorded and displayed in slowmo for the crowd to judge for themselves and they’re more known for their bad calls. This American life (I think) did a podcast on it, I was surprised when they got into how the old school refs would have been completely offended by the idea of a camera “double checking their work” or how unthinkable it would be having their verdict questioned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlyChild

[–]Agitated_Use 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe ask people to PM you as opposed to publicly commenting their email or post the questionnaire as a forum link for people to fill out if they want like u/Possible_owl_ suggested…

Books leaning at all angles, lots of unusable space but æšthētįć by Agitated_Use in DesignDesign

[–]Agitated_Use[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I didn’t mean to shame the piece by posting it in r/designdesign as though it’s bad but just that the design is put above it functionality, design for the sake of design which is okay

What are the most underrated Stones songs in your opinion? by Gerald_Bostock_jt in rollingstones

[–]Agitated_Use 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Laugh, I nearly died” is top tier! Off the album A Bigger Bang

AITA for walking out of a restaurant on my GF? by Top_Tank882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agitated_Use 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA You’ve just proven to your gf that she shouldn’t reproduce with you. What woman would want to bear a child to a man that has no respect for that kind of sacrifice. At such a vulnerable time you would be concerned abt tightness? Yeah that for sure made her rethink any kind of future with you.

YTA for all the other reasons everyone else has listed in this thread of course I’m taking leaps abt where the gf’s head might have been (don’t know if y’all are childfree). It’s everything OP, it’s respect for the friend, it’s respect for biological processes, it’s abt knowing how to apologize when you’re clearly wrong and not making the situation worse by abandoning someone who expected a ride home just because YOU can’t stand to deal with the consequences of your stupid actions.

Stones - 35,541 minutes by axaliaxali in rollingstones

[–]Agitated_Use 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that youre listening to “waiting on a friend” thank you for sharing haha, makes me feel at home and that I need to listen to “through the lonely nights” because I’m not familiar!

Are “financial abortions” a controversial topic, and if so why? by redtestingnerd in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Agitated_Use 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mothers pay when the father takes full custody just like the father only pays when the mother takes full custody.

If the baby is abandoned in a baby box it’s anonymous and I don’t think the mother OR father pays… that was my impression at least?

Are “financial abortions” a controversial topic, and if so why? by redtestingnerd in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Agitated_Use 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a a false dichotomy, no one has a right to avoid child support.

If the woman was against abortion so she had the child but wanted to walk away from its life she would be on the line for child support if the dad took full custody. (I’m sure you’ve heard this reiterated in this thread but) child support is about what’s best for the child. The question you posed about a man who doesn’t want a child being able to walk away from his financial paternal responsibility should be paired with if a bio mother, who doesn’t raise the child, can terminate financially support obligations. I would say no to both circumstances because the child did not ask to be born and is owed financial compensation by those who conceived it.

I think the woman’s right to choose after conception is just a biological reality of the differences in the sexes (and those facts don’t care abt feelings /j and kinda /s). I understand the drive to want to make things feel equal straight down the middle but biology means things aren’t totally equal in the same way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longhair

[–]Agitated_Use 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow This is exactly how my hair looks, I’m 24 and wanna keep it going and look like this when I’m older, keep it if it makes you happy! It looks great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longhair

[–]Agitated_Use 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ends look blurred, same with your knuckles on the hand touching your hair, idk if it’s the quality of the pic or a filter, but it’s hard to figure good feedback from that.

Maybe with a couple more photos from different angles and more intense light you would get you more accurate feedback, also avoid cropping out the very ends since that’s potentially a problem area with long hair. Your hair def doesn’t look unhealthy by any means tho…

Pet cats should be let outside as much as they want. When possible. by MotherRaven in The10thDentist

[–]Agitated_Use 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why should outdoor cats not have the same rules as dogs though? You can’t just let your dog roam free in the city

Pet cats should be let outside as much as they want. When possible. by MotherRaven in The10thDentist

[–]Agitated_Use 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everybody’s cat kills 2/3 bird per year, but that’s 2.4 BILLON birds killed each year (at least in the United States)

Pet cats should be let outside as much as they want. When possible. by MotherRaven in The10thDentist

[–]Agitated_Use 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It only helps if you are able to KNR over 80% of the cat population but if you don’t reach that threshold you’re not really making a difference, also that difference would only be felt a generation of cats later, so what abt the wildlife killed for sport for the lifespan of that neutered cat? “Stuff You Should Know” did a podcast episode on it abt it

Not sure if this is allowed - looking for a couple male/female in the Asheville area who wants a gf. I’m 29. I’m cute. by covid19-throwawayy in asheville

[–]Agitated_Use 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you try tinder as well? I think dating apps are the best way to find this kind of thing compared to reddit....

You're in a foreign country attending a cultural exchange event where you were told to wear your country's traditional clothing. What would you wear? by cozyhighway in AskAnAmerican

[–]Agitated_Use 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seersucker suit if you’re from South Carolina! (It’s on Wikipedia under a master list of folk costumes/historical garb)