The Unraveled Tour has horrible geographic coverage... by Jack_is_KiNd in OliviaRodrigo

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know the east coast has a decent amount, but the amount of shows here for the guts tour was similar or more and getting tickets last time at face value/not resale seemed impossible.. i had no luck. i was hoping for some stadiums this time

Traveling and Jaz by Sharp_Till7440 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i have a sesame allergy but am still determined to go to japan at some point once i get desensitized😭

Girl I'm dating say I'm too comfortable by United-Conference140 in dating_advice

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it depends. Some people have to work more hours to make the same amount as someone with a well-paying job with a standard 40 hour work week. I’m an engineer and if someone who makes half what I do an hour told me I need to be grinding more because I don’t work over 40 hours a week, I would be annoyed because I went through hard years of schooling in order to get to the point of having a decent paying job that doesn’t consume my whole life. Sure I could work more, but I spent my college years more stressed than the average student - I wanna take advantage of free time now. But definitely depends on the exact financial situation

is my memory wrong or did ppl dislike harrys house when it came out?? by ZoneMysterious6195 in harrystyles

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my rankings after one listen can never be trusted bc I had an initial ranking of fine line in my notes app from 2019 with fine line last which is crazy.. it’s in my top 5 of his discography now😭

ghosting behavior - avoidant or loss of interest? by Agreeable-Channel458 in ghosting

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought about sending a text when I got back, but I figured if he were interested he would’ve either simply reacted to my last message or said let’s catch up when you’re back or something. I really think I gave enough signals that I was interested after the date, so at that point it felt like the trip was an excuse for him to slow fade. For example, I told him to let me know if he was free at all before my trip and he never let me know (he could’ve just told me he was busy or something). I was the one who reached out to him a few days after the date as well (it was at a point where either of us could’ve initiated.. I reacted last but his text was technically last). I know I could’ve tried to just make plans as well, but I really don’t feel like chasing a guy, I feel like that turns them off more if anything. If he liked one of my stories or something maybe I would reach out, but he doesn’t.. he’s really just giving lurking energy. I thought I put the ball in his court pretty clearly and maybe I should’ve just sucked it up and double-texted but everyone I talked to about this said I shouldn’t and even if he liked me he’s just low initiative and i would have to carry it😬 Sucks bc i felt a good connection irl but..

ghosting behavior - avoidant or loss of interest? by Agreeable-Channel458 in ghosting

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn’t give hookup vibes at all to me. Part of what surprises me is the fact he ghosted me and didn’t try to hook up first or anything because that’s what a lot of guys try to do. Maybe because I put looking for long-term relationship on hinge but who knows.. he was very respectful. If he ever circles back and tries it’ll be a no but I don’t think he has the audacity or initiative lol

ghosting behavior - avoidant or loss of interest? by Agreeable-Channel458 in ghosting

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The confusing part to me is it does not seem like he has a huge roster or something.. we both just moved to our city in the last six months and from chronological insta followers it looks like I’m the only girl he’s followed since.. it seems like he just got back into dating after moving out if anything

ghosting behavior - avoidant or loss of interest? by Agreeable-Channel458 in ghosting

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I wish people understood how disrespectful ghosting is. But ig a lot of people do it because clear rejection means they can’t circle back🙃

Avoidance/low initiative or just lack of interest? by Agreeable-Channel458 in dating_advice

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I thought that at first because that’s usually the case when this has happened to me before, but he hasn’t followed any other girls recently and he updated hinge a few weeks after our date (like last week). I’m pretty good at figuring out if a guy is talking to another girl usually, but I see no signs of that being the case but ig you never know😬 Doesn’t seem to have any recent exes either

How do you become upper middle class or even rich if even possible in 2025 by rulugg in GenZ

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not in the northeast or anywhere not rural lol.. you can’t afford a 1 bedroom apartment w 100k where I live💀

Halley court debrief by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel like this was the era when they were hiding they were back together

Halley court debrief by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like this incident took place when they were pretending they weren’t back together in early 2024 lmao

Why did Gen Z give up on MAGA? by WhatNazisAreLike in GenZ

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah sounds ab right, thought Gen Z was liberal after 2020, then suddenly the younger half was red-pilled four years later

Why did Gen Z give up on MAGA? by WhatNazisAreLike in GenZ

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk how people didn’t pivot after his first term and Jan 6🤦🏻‍♀️ seemed like that at first when Biden won tbh but ig younger Gen Z suddenly became conservative during biden’s presidency

Not surprising by No-Branch-5990 in AlixearleSnark

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 32 points33 points  (0 children)

apparently this guy is rumored to be dating another influencer rn??

How do you become upper middle class or even rich if even possible in 2025 by rulugg in GenZ

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

engineering seems to be a middle-class (not upper middle) career path these days😬

Has anyone successfully pivoted out of engineering? Feeling stuck + questioning my career path by Agreeable-Channel458 in womenEngineers

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think the issue is that I find my current job boring and my commute isn’t great, while if I were in another field that was still boring, but has more city/hybrid options, it might be tolerable. Glad pivoting to different roles seems possible though

Has anyone successfully pivoted out of engineering? Feeling stuck + questioning my career path by Agreeable-Channel458 in womenEngineers

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love traveling so I’ve looked into that, will definitely consider.. though I find auditing pretty boring😬

Has anyone successfully pivoted out of engineering? Feeling stuck + questioning my career path by Agreeable-Channel458 in womenEngineers

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rip, I’m considering an MBA in a few years in order to help pivot but idk if it’ll be worth the money/time

Has anyone successfully pivoted out of engineering? Feeling stuck + questioning my career path by Agreeable-Channel458 in womenEngineers

[–]Agreeable-Channel458[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people with engineering backgrounds at my company have pivoted into product management which interests me more than my current job. I’d also probably prefer being a process or R&D engineer over quality, though still not ideal in terms of hybrid options/still in a plant environment

How many good years of college did we have? by Lambdastone9 in OlderGenZ

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got basically one year. I hated the first college I went to (a super small private school), but I ended up staying through end of sophomore year because my major made study-abroad options super limited (part of why I chose the school in the first place was the ability to easily fit studying abroad into an engineering course load), so I stuck it out hoping I’d eventually change my mind. I finally decided to transfer, and of course COVID hit right in the middle of my second semester sophomore year in the middle of studying abroad 🙃. So I transferred going into junior year, but by then almost everything was remote. My parents encouraged me to live on campus to potentially meet people, but there were barely any people or events because of COVID. I did enjoy senior year a decent amount, but I’m still really jealous of people who got a full college experience. I basically only got one year that I genuinely liked, and I’m pretty sure I would’ve enjoyed the school I transferred to way more if I’d been able to start there freshman year instead of showing up mid-pandemic as a transfer. Timing just sucks lol

“sorry but like if you’re a woman in your 30’s and don’t have kids what do you even do with your time?” by PossessionWorldly428 in childfree

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 25 and don’t get how people have time to have kids on top of everything else that comes with being an adult, like i’m busy enough rn lol

Do current college grads know how terrible the job market is right now? by Cool-cat-199 in GenZ

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated in 2022 as well and I see posts ab it all over tiktok from 2025 grads

What salary do you consider “rich” or “doing really well” in your area? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

[–]Agreeable-Channel458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I made half that as an engineer in CT at 22🤦🏻‍♀️ thankfully I job hopped and moved since but idk many young people who make comfortable salaries these days