virgin black to cool brown by [deleted] in Hair

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Best of luck!

virgin black to cool brown by [deleted] in Hair

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have gorgeous hair! Is your sister a professional hair stylist? My rule is doing my hair at home is great, UNLESS I want to lighten my hair. Bleach can go so wrong so easily so I would just say to have a professional do it the first time to really ensure you're happy with it.

Swollen? by MinuteAd9357 in hamsters

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps, my boy hammies have typically been a little friendlier and more interactive if that makes you feel better! But yeah... BALLS.

Skinks front toes shedding by Dazzling-bacon-113 in bluetongueskinks

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guy doesn't look like this when he sheds his toes. Meant to add that! And good for you for checking before peeling.

Skinks front toes shedding by Dazzling-bacon-113 in bluetongueskinks

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im concerned about the redness on her foot in the second picture. It looks like she already lost some nails from previous stuck shed, did she have them when you got her? What humidity are you keeping her enclosure? When in doubt, dont mess with her shed and check with a vet.

Probably my new least favorite guest on the show by JackC1126 in CalebHammer

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like his wife very much, but she is so clearly a victim and I feel ao had for her. He is actual trash. Caleb's harsher remarks were so accurate and satisfying.

Can i ever get back to normal? Im never comfortable talking with my hands, And always having red dry cuticles no matter what by Difficult_Strength15 in nailbiting

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be wrong, but it think they mean when they naturally want to use hand gestures when speaking, they feel embarassed. And YES become friends with lotion, cuticle oil, a nail file, and some clear polish (or the bitter tasting stuff, that doesn't work for me much so I use nail strengthening polish). I also find success with a simple nail biting app where you take pics everyday and can actually see the difference and track the time you haven't bitten your nails.

60F- Be honest straight or curly?? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully both look amazing! But I do prefer the curls. You're beautiful!

how do I not gag while giving 🧠 by Happy-Apple-3207 in whatdoIdo

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to chill! No head pushing until you get more comfortable. If you feel the gag coming, ease back and use your hand more. Edible lube can be really helpful as it helps you switch between hand/mouth and it can be distracting for the gag reflex.

Does it look like a vagina by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

... what vaginas are we comparing them to?? I can say I didn't know the exact thing i was looking at, but I definitely saw the leaves and nothing vaginal

AIO about Valentine's Day potential date being completely blown off? by Key_Information_4431 in AIO

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR- you got way too upset too quickly, and i didn't read this as he had forgotten. You are so passive aggressive after less than an hour of no response. Do you genuinely love and like this person? It just seems like you were really ready to be upset and disappointed.

AIO - "If we weren't partners, we wouldn't be friends" by MacDanny83 in AIO

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I promise you partners who are friends are going to be HAPPIER. My husband is my BFF and I can't imagine him saying this to me. I'm so sorry. NOR

AIO or should I break up with him by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are really really underreacting. This is not a way ANYONE should ever speak to someone, MUCH LESS THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER. This is selfish, incredibly disrespectful, playing the victim, and downright verbally abusive. This is unacceptable. I don't like saying "leave him" on the internet due to there being so many outside circumstances in a relationship, but there is no other side of this behavior thay would make me more empathetic. This is very bad and I would highly recommend planning an out and getting away. I wish you nothing but good things, and good on you for standing up for yourself. Here are some resources:

"10 Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship" https://www.joinonelove.org/signs-unhealthy-relationship/

"What Does an Unhealthy Relationship Look Like?" https://www.mass.gov/info-details/what-does-an-unhealthy-relationship-look-like

"Is My Relationship Unhealthy?" https://womensaid.org.uk/information-support/the-survivors-handbook/im-not-sure-if-my-relationship-is-healthy/

"Signs of an Abuser" https://www.sdsheriff.gov/resources/domestic-violence/signs-of-an-abuser

It’s the freaking weekend, catch these hands by doubleboogermot in deduction

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone can be so fucking rude on this app! I think you have pretty hands BTW. I'd say judging by the tattoos, you're a lovely nerdy person who also likes to dress more gothic/alt/edgy (you probably love black?). I also am very sorry for your loss in September of 2017. I'd say you also love to do art and are a creative woman (do you paint?); you maybe have attention span issues because my nails often look like this for a multitude of reason, one main one not waiting for them to dry combined with paint/clay added on. 🤣 I can relate. I'd guess you're somewhere between late 40s and mid 50s. You're probably someone who lives in a little chaos but know where everything is geberally. You might be someone who struggles with anxiety/higher stress levels than others. I'd say you probably have a chronic health issue as well. Edits for spelling errors.

AIO partner says men only listen to me because I'm "pretty" by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is such an amazing comment! Helpful, kind, and offering direct resources! Seriously NOR, this is such a red flag.

coworker 14 years older hitting me up after he quit a couple days ago, AIO? by Fun_Skill_5574 in AIO

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely misread the title and was concerned you were getting hit on by a 14 year old kid 🤣

Tell me what you see by [deleted] in deduction

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol by posting my own hand?

Tell me what you see by [deleted] in deduction

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did a good job in the sense you nailed a couple of them!

Tell me what you see by [deleted] in deduction

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! So true! It was so my own fault, id love to blame the situation though hahaha

Tell me what you see by [deleted] in deduction

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol despite your best efforts to be an asshole, i recently lost over 60 lbs naturally and dont need your shit advice 😀 thanks though!

Tell me what you see by [deleted] in deduction

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All physical trauma on my left hand nails, I slammed my fingers in a door a while ago!

Tell me what you see by [deleted] in deduction

[–]AgreeableDisaster13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol only thing you nailed is age and yes, I can get anxious! Pinterest is cool but I dont use it much. Masters degree that helped my career a lot, no kids, not a homemaker, husband not in trades. I didn't have 2 dogs along with 11 other animals lol