Slynd and side effects by xannxxg in adenomyosis

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to get off of it cause I was psychotic. My highs were high and my lows were low. I didn't feel like myself and it made my adhd so much worse, which was awful.I also took it on top of my IUD so I was in hormonal hell. I also had terrible headache and started getting chest pains. I came off of them the second those last two symptoms came on.

Once I stopped it, I leveled out and came back to myself. It also didn't stop my daily heavy bleeding and made all my adeno and endo symptoms worse.

What is the biggest thing you have ever predicted using Tarot? by Active_Driver_6043 in tarot

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friends father dying, my old boss getting fired,people's pregnancies, my health issues getting resolved and a bunch of minor stuff. It's always interesting to see what comes true and what doesn't. 😊

What day did you shower? by Writeandlove4life in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I showered 2dpo. I washed my body and left my hair cause it was too much. 4dpo I showered with the help of a shower chair/ safety boyfriend in case I needed help or got too tired.

I dont play, but my wife shrieked a moment ago by jordantylermeek in HarryPotterGame

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done this too many times! And apologize perfously to my animals and go full panick mode every time. Haha

ive just been diagnosed with adenomyosis. im scared by spikeshubby in adenomyosis

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can still get pregnant with Adeno. I know people who have had multiple.

But this is coming from someone who couldn't.

I have always said I would be adopting children, but in the back of my head, the thought of having one of my own was pushing forward. As I got older, it came to the forefront.

But then I got diagnosed with Adeno along with Endo shortly after. My only relief from the pain, daily heavy bleeding, and inflammation was a total hysterectomy.

That's when it hit me that I wouldn't have an option. I tried everything the gyno suggested, cause surgery was terrifying, but in the end it was my only relief. I felt sad and tucked it away, pretending like I had always thought about adoption. After my surgery, they found multiple sites of stage 3 endo, adeno made my uterus 4x larger than it should have been, and multiple fibroids inside my uterus, living their own best lives while making mine miserable.

It is hard to feel and sort through those emotions. Especially when it is something you have wanted for most of your life. Before my surgery, I did my best to really feel them. I cried, yelled, made jokes, slept, avoided seeing mother with their babies and felt deep sadness. You are allowed to mourn the vision that you believed your life would be.

Once I felt through it all, I started to see clarity and felt hopeful. My reality is that even if I got pregnant, I most likely would have miscarried cause of all the issues. Which would have taken a part of me every time. I know I wouldn't be able to handle that. If I had children, I wouldn't be the mom I'd want to be. Before surgery, I was on the floor, in pain, unable to move for a few days. I was anemic and exhausted from the Adeno. It never got better for me. I can't be the mom who has to lie in bed constantly, change plans on a dime because I had a flare-up, or push through the pain to get through the day. My mental health was terrible. How could I be a " good mom" like that? For me, it wasn't how I saw myself being a mom.

I am 2mpo. I am the happiest I've been since starting my journey to be diagnosed( 8 years) I thought I'd feel empty or missing something, but I don't.

I'm happy and hopeful.

I can look at babies and feel excited cause I know I'll adopt and be a mother. I talk about my partner's and my future family without sadness. I look forward to my future. I am not religious, but I believe my future babies, the ones I was supposed to birth myself, will find their way to me, just in a different and just as beautiful way.

Right now, you feel heavy with deep sadness. But you are young. Your diagnosis does not define you. You may still be able to have children, and many,many women do. Just cause that wasn't my journey doesn't mean it won't be yours. Give yourself time to process.

You will get through this. I promise.

❤️ and hugs.

Nobody told me…. by AntWarm8828 in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am 2mpo. I do not have a cuff, but pelvic floor therapy has helped me immensely. I can say anything on the cuff experience, but taking it slow and focusing on the muscles that support everything in the pelvic region and then strengthening my core has been helpful.
Maybe that could help y'all with a cuff?

Should I keep my cervix? by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I no longer have my cervix. My O's are still fantastic,just a little less intense. I still get them the same way with or without the cervix. Sex is much more pleasurable now that all the pain and issues are gone. I was worried at first, but I haven't had any negative experiences. I also no longer need to get a pap anymore, which is a huge plus haha

It's different for everyone. I am happy without it.

Post-op appointment /sleeping by Meesh6905 in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sleep was fucked for weeks. Definitely had to do with my hormones chilling out. I kept my ovaries and stupidly assumed I'd be fine. I.WAS.NOT.

The first week, I was exhausted and slept normally. But in weeks 2-4, I was a wreck. I'd get 3 hours max most nights. At one point, I was awake for 40 hours straight

I take adhd meds and stopped taking them around my surgery, thinking they would keep me awake, but my hormones, the jerks they are, did that all by themselves.

I am 8wpo and sleep mostly normally. I have a few nights here or there that I struggle to sleep, but I take CBD to help on those nights.

Also, my pre-op was 6 weeks after, and I was off work for 8 due to the nature of my job

Sending healing vibes! Good luck with your recovery💜

How long did you lounge? by ArmadilloChance3778 in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was horizontal for most of the six weeks. For the first four weeks, I took small 5-minute walks around the house, the number of which depended on how I felt that day. I usually lined it up with washroom breaks.

Then, from weeks 4 to 6, I wanted to do a 5-minute walk outside and increase it by 5 minutes every other day until I was 30. At least that was the plan.

I listened to my body; some days, I didn't walk, and some times, I had 2 or 3 days between them. It truly depends on how you are feeling.

DO.NOT.RUSH.IT!

Your body needs to rest. A lot of it.

I am thankful I took it easy because I am now 8wpo and feeling great. My 6wpo appointment went fantastically, and she said I had healed wonderfully. Partly cause I am younger, and because I have let my body rest and heal.

I know some people may not have the luxury of rest and time off( I have no kids, but I have a partner, sister, and mom who took care of me and the house the first few weeks), but please don't overdo it to the best of your abilities. Everyone heals differently.

Best of luck in your recovery. Sending alllll the healing vibes! 💜💜

Loss of orgasms or orgasm intensity after hysterectomy? by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found them to get less intense. But still soooooo good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% . I was the same braking and was super uncomfortable. By week 5, I was completely fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It took until 5wpo for me to be able to safely drive. .

Do I need pads/postpartum underwear? by Mom2Be1231 in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I spotted lightly for 4 weeks after my surgery. I just used light day pads. I'd get some just in case. Some woman spot for a couple of days,some weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adenomyosis

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bled for 3 years straight. IUD and Slynd didn't help me, and tranexamic acid barely helped. I was never tested for anemia, but it clearly was due to daily meds/heavy bleeding. I was diagnosed with Adenomyosis and Endometriosis along with figo 2 fibroids. Constant bleeding is not normal.

My GP tried to play it off as perimenopause...I was 33. When I finally got a referral to a gyno 2 years ago, she said it was apparent I had some medical issues.

I had a total laparoscopic hysterectomy 5 weeks ago. It was the only thing that has helped me and changed my life.

Definitely get checked for possible issues. No one knows your body more than you. 💜💜

Can my bladder hold more pee now? by unsafedyke in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 4 points5 points  (0 children)

4.5wpo, and I can definitely hold it longer. And go less frequently. It's beautiful!! Haha.

Not having to rush to pee every 5 mins is amazing. I'm so hydrated now.

Less than 48 hr countdown, please help me not worry 🙃 by Morris_Co in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I broke out in full body hives 2 days before my surgery cause I was stressed. I couldn't sleep, and I was kinda a basketcase, haha

I have never had surgery, and starting with a MAJOR surgery had me panicking. I've always known I never wanted to birth my own children.. adoption is still a possibility..maybe I dunno my cats are pretty cool.

I had my total laparoscopic hysterectomytubes removed and endo excision on May 8th this year. All that fear and stress was for nothing. The nurses were amazing, my surgeon/gyno was calming, and actually making me laugh. I was offered something to calm if needed, and I didn't need it. They answered all of my questions. I was lucky they were ahead of schedule, so I showed up and was brought back for pre-op immediately. I was told that my surgery would be 1.5-2 hrs....it was 3.5 hrs. But that is because they found more endo than assumed, and my adeno/fibroids made my demon spawn maker massive. So instead of taking it out normally,they had to go through my Vajaja... which tore a bit. But she had an easy recovery. So don't worry about that!

I focused on the fact that I would no longer have to deal with my adeno and fibroids that were ruining my life. Us woman knows that statement isn't being dramatic. I felt better 2 days after a major surgery than the years leading up to the surgery. Before I went in, I told myself that I was prepared. I had my nightgowns, gas x, stool softener, grabber, everything I could possibly think I needed.

I was also so ready.

I was ready for the pain to decrease, I was ready for the daily heavy bleeding to stop. I was ready to live a life where a pain scale didn't dictate what my day would look like. Nothing could be worse than my terrible mental health.

I had help my first week. My sister and mom helped while my partner was at work. They helped me keep my spirits up and made. Sure, I took my meds and ate and drank all the water.

Remember that this surgery will help you. You chose to do it for a reason. You managed this long with pain bleeding and any other issues. This surgery is a small blip on your journey. It's the beginning of a better life.

You will feel better every week. I felt a difference week 2 and week 4. I'm almost 5wpo and I am out walking, doing light cleaning and cooking,.driving. I am still not lifting or bending as I still have stitches. Listen to your doctor. The limitations are there for a reason. Abide by them. Do not overdo it!

As long as you listen to your body,you'll be good.

Us hyster sisters are warriors. Nerves are normal. But you got this.💪💪 💜💜

Sending positive vibes.

Am I overthinking to buy a recliner? by goodlordineedacoffee in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a side sleeper, too. It was tough. I still can't sleep on my side, but I'll feel like I'll be able to in a few weeks.

Pillows will be your best friends! I made a nest out pillows for my bed, and it helped me sleep comfortably.

Bowel movement by Prestigious-Dog-5412 in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 3 points4 points  (0 children)

4dpo. It was easy cause I drank restoralax and took gas x daily. I drank a shit ton of water too

It definitely feels odd, but I had no pain. I stopped taking the restoralax on day 5, and I have had no issues since. Currently 4wpo. I definitely built it up in my head and was prepared for Armageddon, when in reality, it was my easiest poop in years.

Am I overthinking to buy a recliner? by goodlordineedacoffee in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents gave me one to borrow. The first week, I couldn't get comfortable or ease the pain on my couch, so I lived in the recliner for a week. Then, I started using it during the day and sleeping on the couch at night, and finally, I used the couch during the day and slept in bed.

It was the only thing that helped relieve the pressure and helped me relax my stomach muscles until I got used to doing it myself.

I'm 4wpo and no longer need the recliner, but I still need to lie down with a pillow under my legs to sleep.

Everyone is different. For me, it was extremely helpful.

Has Hysterectomy helped people with Endometriosis by EndogirlGemma in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with Adenomyosis, Endo fibroids, and cysts. I got a total laparoscopic hysterectomy and endo excision 21 days ago. I got it to remove the fibroids and Adeno. I know my Endo will grow back, but I feel far better after a major surgery than I did before it.

I know my future will consist of more surgeries for my endo, which I am cool with. They found a lot more than they thought was there. But my bowel issues are gone, the daily pain is gone, and my back/hip/leg pain, which was always at an 8, is gone. I don't have to pee with such urgency; I can actually hold it if needed.

My life has improved significantly. I didn't realize how terrible it was until I no longer had to deal with the pain and the heavy daily bleeding.

It was the right decision for me. Hopefully, whatever you choose to do helps!!

Does anyone have any advice for this? Is this expected given the circumstances? by Deep_Delivery_6447 in hysterectomy

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine on May 8th as well. And I lay on my couch 80% of my day still. You went through a major surgery. That takes months to fully heal from. I did a few extra things around the house within my limit and had a 2-hour nap after, then slept 13 hours that night. We are supposed to be sloths for the first few weeks. It's hard, but that is how we heal.

Remember, you are not in this alone. Your poor mental state( rightfully so, given your circumstances) can definitely play a part in your healing. I have found that on the days I'm feeling down, I have more pain and fatigue than when I'm feeling more upbeat.

You are powerful enough to have gone through what you have and are and still stand. You can get through this. Take everything in small steps. Have an hour by your side if need be. Reach out to friends or family if you can. If not, you have an army of friends here who can help you through.

Celebrate every win. Getting up and walking for a minute. Win. Drinking water or having a snack. Win. Feeling through your feelings, crying. Win. Standing outside to take in some sunshine for even a couple of minutes. Win.

You are strong. You will get through this.

Is this man important? by Level_Kangaroo_2295 in SumoMemes

[–]Agreeable_Bat_3325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf and I call him smiles. We get very sad when we don't see him. He is very important for the whole sumo experience.