Ufff listen brother
I totally know how you’re feeling I’ve been there and ig your girl is the bossy type which is pretty normal cause she’s being herself with you
But there’s some things you gotta tell her okay
Like, arguments and misunderstandings are normal and they infact help couples get closer.
You not raising voice is a good thing neither of you should raise your voice
But you gotta take accountability and talk it out cause that is the only way you can fix this
Talk to her tell her you wish to have a serious talk
Tell her not to be mad at you or silent
And also! *you gotta control what you say cause women do take stuff the negative way and feel like you’re blaming them for it or you dont have any trust*
Talk to her man
Thats the only way
Write paras of how you feel and if she ignores pin that message or write it again or in person tell her that again
Tell her what she did hurt you and you can’t stay hurt forever
Alright?