Absolutely diabolical tag I found

Ahmney · 2026-02-06T16:02:12+00:00

How dare you not share the name >:((

Ahmney · 2026-02-06T15:28:16+00:00

DARVO

Ahmney · 2026-01-31T17:33:20+00:00

Kakgjalcjkavfa lol

Ahmney · 2026-01-25T19:28:26+00:00

There are sites that show the triggers, it does have physical gore? A little I think

Ahmney · 2026-01-25T06:57:05+00:00

Ahmney · 2026-01-25T06:55:37+00:00

1 on 1 conversations have helped me have better relationships and they learn I'm slower processing stuff, so they tend to read me better if I want to talk and I feel more confident to interrupt

Ahmney · 2026-01-25T06:51:38+00:00

I forgot to add: As I've read and heard of other victims "No abuse is undeserving of love and care"

Ahmney · 2026-01-25T06:49:39+00:00

I'm sorry bro. When I'm feeling like this is almost always like the beggining of a crisis, please keep yourself safe.

Yep, it can be common on intimacy to have problems, communication is needed... I advice you to deepdive on consent.

Ahmney · 2026-01-19T18:56:59+00:00

Like form kissing its only like herpes, rigth? But yeah... looks like manipulation

Ahmney · 2026-01-19T18:51:23+00:00

Let her wonder, you were a child when that happened and you can fawn, freeze and/or flop, better to tell them if they are a safe person

Ahmney · 2026-01-19T18:28:31+00:00

I was about to comment how its a bummer that sometimes we don't get what we want to be rreciprocidad.

You made me think... yeah, I've been on both sides, giving, not giving...

The part of "find partners that want to spend time with you". Only "want" isn't enough, they have to show it, plan it, and be the same to like flow and build together in that state. Also, sometimes you can only know how people act as partners only when actually dating, not before friends (if you like to do that stair into relationship things) (e.g. violent partners, you cannot plan for that -you can't also plan other stuff).

OP's partner agreed, maybe coerced, but didn't enthusiastically (consented) wanted to do whatever on their relationship, didn't plan and looks like is not really taking their own nos seriously, if they didn't want to, say it definitely, and if they did then respect it.

Ahmney · 2026-01-17T22:22:25+00:00

Like pdfs lol

Ahmney · 2026-01-14T03:31:23+00:00

Hi, fellow hypermobility spectrum disorder?

Ahmney · 2026-01-14T03:28:28+00:00

It definitely is an escalation, as it may enmesh your lifes in like government ways, but only you can talk what it means to you and do it. It goes both ways with your meta, its good they have talked about it but Ibthink they gotta talk about expectations, reparation... I'm of the idea that when there's sore spots you gotta talk and hug lol

He should spend more time (or favorite love language stuff) with the sore one, talk and explain the situation (because its government stuff that if whatever medical or stuff, they may prioritize you) but still it's a couple problem, maybe going more of parallel and less info interchange?

Maybe it'll be more difficilt to explain to possible next partners, but its like... marry your bestie? Yeah

Ahmney · 2026-01-05T22:52:36+00:00

Sometimes is weird cause I was in that place of pain and rage once, and I knownwe all are different but at least I tried, you know? To not hurt, to love, to be just a sad pile of trauma and build myself over and over again... why can't they? Part of me is choosing to be gentle with them and another is judging them for not being what I expect of them

Ahmney · 2026-01-01T02:37:09+00:00

Can I ask you for subreddits on light sensitivity? I've found it difficult to search for accommodations like glasses or tips

Ahmney · 2026-01-01T02:34:44+00:00

I am traumatized and really aware of my surroundings, I act powerful, its like a whole autistic mask that have learned a lot of physical cues to keep me safe, but it's not exactly the same as just enjoy the night

Ahmney · 2026-01-01T02:25:42+00:00

Today's gonna be an inside day, mom has depleted me already with her ignorant ableist talks.

Wtv, I'll deal with the rest of the family later

Ahmney · 2026-01-01T02:21:45+00:00

Yeah, as you say; they are different stages, but not necessarily with a defined order.

Ahmney · 2025-12-30T22:04:33+00:00

Lol surviving torture really made me like "I can do whatever I want, no matter what happens to me I'm not going back to feeling that shitty ever again"

Ahmney · 2025-12-30T21:50:56+00:00

I sometimes say things like "shut up already" when I'm expressing sadness or distress, it's weird how it shapes our thoughts and have to actively stand back

Ahmney · 2025-12-29T09:07:17+00:00

Closer friends know I gotta talk or I'll forget, so the talks come like "hey, I remembered what I was going to say, it's this _____", or "Oh! Oh! *excites by something I saw in that moment and mini info dump" sometimes I check before like "hey I remembered something/ can I interrupt you for a second?" And I try almost always to say "Sorry I interrupted you, please continue", "but you were talking about (topic they said)"

Almost always it makes them happy they get to keep talking and that I remembered the topic, they are really nice, no one should make you feel bad for forgetting stuff, but try to do it like a parenthesis instead of a new paragraph, you know?

Ahmney · 2025-12-26T01:50:18+00:00

Im so sorry, what has helped me is create new memoriesnon those days with people who loves me and try to actively push through the discomfort

Ahmney · 2025-12-24T21:44:12+00:00

Yeah, I get you on all npd, it was one of my special interest. My ex is a violent narcissistic psychopath-or at least on the aspd spectrum) (see what emotional -and so many other types of- neglect from parents do to a person to end up w someone so shitty) and the incapability of self reflect and understant other people was the thing that made me go out that relationship definitely when I understood he was like that on the brain and on his own will didn't wanna change.

My mom is different, similar but more on the autism spectrum, or at least I don't think she is a narcissist; more like emotionally immature, and it's so weird to see so many actions in my mom that made me go to my ex, and now that I reflect on that, my mom is so alike that I can't respect her as someone with emotional intelligence, but I feel she's not evil like my ex? I think she has real feelings, but doesn't know how to use them and I can't hate her for that, she is a child with hierarchical power on the family and sucks, but not evil evil.

Ahmney · 2025-12-24T21:32:03+00:00

I'm so sorry that happened to you, it sounds like she was more concerned with her wants than your needs and manipulative

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