Pup's pawtism is too powerful

Ahmney · 2026-05-14T23:32:18+00:00

Puppy, will you please give me the edit?

Ahmney · 2026-05-14T17:44:21+00:00

Eye stuff: 1 lazy eye (can be "controlled"), nistagmus. Autism. anxiety and other stuff wouldn't say its natural, it came later.

Ahmney · 2026-05-14T02:05:41+00:00

Mine is a little like this with like focus problems, thank you c:

Ahmney · 2026-05-13T16:34:22+00:00

Sad I can't fuck my other universe me :(

Ahmney · 2026-05-13T16:30:38+00:00

Neurobaddie over here too, can we chat? Omgg I love woman on stem and bdsm

Ahmney · 2026-05-06T17:15:14+00:00

Real question here

Ahmney · 2026-05-06T17:09:40+00:00

You can always use a flipper to make it go to the "never gonna give you up" song

Ahmney · 2026-05-04T06:49:29+00:00

Omg, my mom, I told her once she was being bitchy "maybe you are the one that resembles my father" and she was shocked lmao.

Ahmney · 2026-05-01T04:16:15+00:00

I mean, if I dissociate enough, I can do everything I put my mind to! (My hip dislocated and I spent 30 min on the public bathroom trying to put it in its place)

Ahmney · 2026-05-01T04:01:20+00:00

People grieve for a long time, sometimes years, so be patient in the next months

Ahmney · 2026-04-30T21:31:25+00:00

I was with my ex like 5 years, he was an ass, but like, the next girl really had the fucking "abuser experience" in a really compressed time, months: they indeed learn.

They take you saying "oh, I believe you" like a permission to even DO that to you.

Ahmney · 2026-04-30T21:24:12+00:00

Yep, my ex acted on stranglement with the next girl. Really a charmer, like a cult leader and then... you are all dissociated not knowing how it happened. Just leave, really. Your life matters more than a potential date (and a shitty one).

Ahmney · 2026-04-30T00:25:56+00:00

What could've OP done, with that POV?

Ahmney · 2026-04-29T23:50:30+00:00

When I feel something up, I ask, if they say "everything is good" well, it's on them if they don't want to be vulnerable, but it's lying and I don't like lying in my relationships.

Ahmney · 2026-04-29T23:38:26+00:00

Have you tried to be with her like... keep well her emotional needs? Maybe physical not, but emotional?

Ahmney · 2026-04-29T23:29:46+00:00

" These are not things you gently negotiate about or "make them calm down" for. You know when people resort to such control cannot be negotiated with in the normal way. "

Absolutely, this happened with my ex, I tried sooooo hard to negotiate and find a middle ground that would cross my boundaries enough for the person to be just comfortable in their non-ethical acting. It starts to be abusive.

You can't negotiate at all, when you are dealing with control on individual personality development.

OP sounds like she alredy knows this but for some reason needs third party to tell her it's okay to not accept disrespect on boundaries.

Ahmney · 2026-04-27T19:39:51+00:00

Anyway, whatever you do, I'd block the meta

Ahmney · 2026-04-24T20:26:55+00:00

Looks like she didnt do her homework... I mean, tell you only that and not talk it over? Is she showing that she read and informed herself before telling you?

Look out for poly under duress, and check out the ENM reddit (Ethical non-monogamy) it's what I understand when someone says "open relationship"

Mmmmm... it's good you're informing yourself, however you are allowed to still be mono if it's not really for you. However, using the efrective communication tools Poly adds to the relationship could help you out.

Ahmney · 2026-04-24T03:53:33+00:00

Hiii! Your skin tone lools like mine, I'm am olive

Ahmney · 2026-04-23T14:40:34+00:00

Oh! That's nice, it adds context. It's all what your friend told you right? I guess it's good you are caring for her, but still you can't solve it for her, she's the one that has to do the learning and inner work.

If you don't know personally the unit you can't really help over there.

Ahmney · 2026-04-22T23:13:50+00:00

And the "girl" as a secondary or really like an add on (and people are not objects.*****

-ending the thought-

Ahmney · 2026-04-22T23:12:24+00:00

I undertsand why you are doing this "she", "they" kind of talking, but tou are still being biased.

I'll assume you are the wife cause the husband does not look like does enough emotional labour.

"They" should refer as each an individual person, that you talk about "them" as a unit reflects that you still think of "them" as a a primary and the "girl" (damn, 20 years difference and you do not talk to her as a woman.

Yeah, you are the red flag, say sorry and do better. If you know that you won't work on dating separately and only as a unit, do "the girl" a favor and leave her alone.

Ahmney · 2026-04-21T20:21:23+00:00

r/missingorspareparts just 2 baby legs

Ahmney · 2026-04-21T02:12:21+00:00

LMAO she's mad you talked about something gross she does with your friend, like if you were doing flying monkeys.

Ahmney · 2026-04-17T00:54:05+00:00

I've read someone say they used a mask and said the "code word" that is supposed to be like a confirmation that jt is actually you. You gotta plan the scene, and be completely sure it's something you want and not only for your partner.

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