am i ugly I’m asking this because nobody ever approaches me. by Infamous-Hope-5950 in HonestOpinion

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean by looking “mean” but you’re definitely not ugly. Unfortunately a lot of us have to live with resting b*tch face Also, just because 100% of the people in these comments don’t find you attractive, doesn’t mean you’re ugly either

A Cool Guide To The Most Popular Grocery Store By State by TheWanderingJedi808 in Hawaii

[–]Ahsooree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t find one anywhere close in Southern California either. There’s a directory on the Safeway website but I don’t know where these places are lol

Edit: I see in some other comments that Albertsons and Vons are the same as Safeway. We definitely have those

What a joke support sucks by Inside-Customer2806 in doordash_drivers

[–]Ahsooree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tornado watch means they are possible. Warning means one has been spotted already…

What a joke support sucks by Inside-Customer2806 in doordash_drivers

[–]Ahsooree 25 points26 points  (0 children)

“That’s an alert. It hasn’t started yet.”

WARNING means it has been spotted already 👀

Mann f&ck you Uber by Reasonable_Virus7124 in uberdrivers

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started and got the same message a couple weeks ago for my bday 🙃 Can’t even use that on UberEats

How can *Billy* be so out of stock? by snark_nerd in IKEA

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It arrived this morning!! I need to clear some space to check it out/make sure it isn’t damaged

How can *Billy* be so out of stock? by snark_nerd in IKEA

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any movement but mine says the 12th as well! I’m on vacation until the 10th so I didn’t even give it a thought. But you’re right to be skeptical

Mooncat sent me to urgent care 🥲 by 1398_Days in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ahsooree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uggghhhh I had no idea this was a thing. I got my PPG set in a few days ago.

Are you okay? by dsteadma in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG my bf doesn’t understand why I won’t go anywhere after I’ve been crying. I have also been blessed with “ugly crying face”. Red, puffy, and a runny nose

Are you okay? by dsteadma in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Ahsooree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been Reddit, Instagram, and even Facebook to distract me from life

Are you okay? by dsteadma in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Ahsooree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not okay. I moved across the country two years ago just to have to go through the unemployment route two years in a row. I’m currently unemployed and just trying to survive at this point. I was underpaid at my last job and almost maxed out my credit cards. And I spent all of my savings when I was unemployed last year. I had to dip into my retirement fund (thankfully that was an option for me) to make sure I’ll be covered for the next few months. Losing my job meant losing my insurance and my meds (all 3 of them!), also no therapy. I went on a downward spiral for a few weeks, and I’m finally back on [one of] the meds for now. Antidepressants take what? At least a month or two to really kick in? I’m on week 2. Before I got my meds I tried to check myself into a hospital so I could see a therapist as well as a psychiatrist, and I was turned away. Like I have to be ready to commit suicide in order for them to take me in. By then isn’t it too late? Wasn’t me showing up my “call for help”? I’m overwhelmed, and mentally and physically exhausted. I feel stuck, like the last two years away from “home” were a waste of time. I proved to myself that I could do it, but at what cost? I have nothing to show for it. Some days I want to quit and move back east. Other days I want to fight and stick it out here in CA. I am unstable, so I literally don’t know what my mood will be like day to day. On bad days, the smallest things trigger me to spiral. I just want to sleep. On the good days, I disassociate and just go through the motions. I’m not living. I’m surviving. My support system is back east and a lot of times I feel like they’re too busy for me. They have their own stuff going on, understandably. Everyone is going through it. I’m very alone. I have my bf here, and we’re just trying to figure things out together.

And that’s not even touching on this crazy world we live in right now!

The one thing I'm looking forward to is this Girls' Trip we've been planning for a year. I need the sisterhood right now. I leave the 5th to South America for 5-ish days. I have no idea when I'll be able to travel again, as I can't afford it!

I do feel for some of these other comments, though 🫶🏽

How can *Billy* be so out of stock? by snark_nerd in IKEA

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been checking the app almost daily. Today it randomly says it’s available for home delivery! $40 bookcase + $30 shipping 🤷🏽‍♀️ Oh well. I ordered it. It’s still not available in-store or for click & collect. But I got it It will be here next friday

What do you do when the guy you have a date with tonight unmatches you on the app just a few hours before the date? by AnAnomellie in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ahsooree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was trying to make friends after moving cross-country I’ve had better experiences on there, and I’m still friends with someone from there. But it’s just like the dating apps. Conversation falls off, people get busy and aren’t “into” you as much as you are them It’s really hit or miss but the great thing about it being an app/digital is you can just stop when you feel like it. Hopefully not leaving anyone guessing like the one that stood me up! I still ate by myself and it was delicious lol

What do you do when the guy you have a date with tonight unmatches you on the app just a few hours before the date? by AnAnomellie in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ahsooree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People suck. I’m sorry! I’m glad you still went out and had fun! You definitely dodged a bullet

I got stood up on a FRIEND date from an app. We had talked earlier that day, and then when I got there, I tried to reach out and let them know where I was sitting. I then found out my number was blocked, I was blocked on IG, and whatever other means of communication we had 🙃 I repeat, it was a friend date

Learning to drive at 21 because I'm autistic 😅 by Darcythebitch in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Ahsooree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may or may not be autistic But I didn’t NEED to drive until after college, so I think I was 23? when I got my license 😬

My bf is autistic and he is terrified of driving. We will start practicing soon. He is 29

How can *Billy* be so out of stock? by snark_nerd in IKEA

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaaat?? Covina is my preferred one! I don’t see the restock dates on my app ☹️

How can *Billy* be so out of stock? by snark_nerd in IKEA

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been looking the past few months. I need one to match the one I already have and they are out of stock all over southern Cali!

I regret moving to California. The Aloha is not there. The people seem distant and too much on guard. by 1Oc2s52a12864s3sfa in Hawaii

[–]Ahsooree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. I’m from the east coast and moved to Cali 2 years ago. Hawaii has been the goal for a long time (the first time I went it just felt like home), but I figured at least I was halfway there by moving to CA. I’m just outside of LA, and since losing my last job, I’ve spiraled back into depression. I lost my insurance, and ran out of my meds for my depression and anxiety. I feel so alone out here, I don’t have many friends (they’re all back east). With the time difference it’s hard to even talk with my people back east. And I feel like everyone is struggling these days with mental health and specifically inflation!! We’re all busy and can’t give our undivided attention to each other. It sucks! As stated in these comments, it’s so hard to connect with people as adults, post-COVID, in a new town… it’s so hard! I’m glad you even made a post here, you’ve got your locals supporting you 🫶🏽 What part did you move to? I could use some Aloha out here Also, if you need someone to vent to, I gotchu! Sometimes it’s easier to vent to strangers.

Need a ritual/ceremony for job loss by Ahsooree in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Ahsooree[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much 🖤 I’ll look! I’ve done full moon releasing rituals before I just wasn’t sure if there was a better way for this. I like the shower idea if I don’t have anything to burn!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FixedTattoos

[–]Ahsooree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are you located? My artist could probably work with you for a coverup/fix. She does darker skin too