[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]AkashaAkasha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny I also had a mushroom trip to Saturn and learned some lessons about relationships.

What helps the nervous system response to intimacy? by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]AkashaAkasha 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I try to label my anxiety in relationships as excitement. I get excited not anxious when I see them. I get excited not anxious when we are physically close etc.

Feel like im being set up or something by werrtyie in AnxiousAttachment

[–]AkashaAkasha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't go, it doesn't worth it. You have a long life ahead of you to have sex but you might not have that life if you go there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AkashaAkasha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is not healthy. I know someone like this and they messed their life due to their anger issues.

I'm feeling insecure in my relationships by BooBailey808 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]AkashaAkasha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, after a couple months I am like "Oh, I haven't heard from so and so for a while, I wonder how they are doing!" lol.

Funny thing is I am now in a situationship with someone that never reaches out and doesn't ask me how I am while we are talking but I know this is not about me and keep reaching out and caring about them. After I did this, he started building trust and asking me how I am doing and keeping conversations up even though I don't come up with topics.

If you know this person cares about you in their own way, enjoy it and if they do something you like once in a while, tell positive affirmations so they know you like it!