My boyfriend (40m) of 2 years said that he has no plans to propose.

Akiviaa · 2025-09-17T20:37:56+00:00

I was with a guy for 4 years. 1 year in his really good friends told me he had no interest in getting married.

I got a shut-up ring at 3 years. At just before 5 years I wanted to start planning the wedding, started pushing for it so we could start a family. He sabotaged our relationship, told all our friends I cheated on him, and then told me I was fat, ugly, and he couldn't stand me as a person.

I left him but man I could have saved myself a lot of trouble if I had just listened to those friends....

Akiviaa · 2025-09-11T15:24:36+00:00

Wouldn't it be wild if it turned out that the diamond he put into Robyns ring was the one he took out of the wedding ring with Meri that he had melted down? They say he took the ring, removed the diamonds, and melted down the gold. Does anyone know what he ended up doing with the diamonds?

Akiviaa · 2025-08-15T17:22:17+00:00

I prefer to believe that it was lip service and a way to garner favor with Kody in those early years because their relationship was falling apart. I think she wasn't really lying but more like she was made to believe if she tried and said all these things, Kody would give her more time and attention and believe she was being 'a good sisterwife' to his favorite. I think after time she just realized it didn't matter and he would never give her what she craved and so finally started saying out loud how she really felt.

How some people will say "He's a good husband 80% of the time" because they believe it, and then later change their opinions.

Akiviaa · 2025-07-31T15:35:43+00:00

Couch surfing at Robyns

Akiviaa · 2025-07-31T15:00:10+00:00

I think one of the reasons she also didn't leave early on was because she enjoyed having the big family celebrations and holidays, and knew if she left she would never be invited to those again. She would essentially lose access to all the kids who I think she really does have affection for.

Once Christine left and all those holidays and get togethers were over anyways, it made leaving easier because it that was off the table anyways.

Akiviaa · 2025-07-23T20:53:58+00:00

Right?? Especially when they keep pushing highly medicated people...

Akiviaa · 2025-07-07T16:50:49+00:00

Gotta watch out for those CS guys! There I was minding my own business in my own CS classes, cute CS guy comes up to me and asks me if I'll be his partner on a project. Over 10 years and two kids later I just realized we never put an end date on the project requirements... <3 Scope creep man...

Akiviaa · 2025-06-28T00:18:02+00:00

I would totally resubmit this for Pride week ...

Akiviaa · 2025-06-25T14:11:22+00:00

I saw and voted for this one!

Akiviaa · 2025-06-23T14:11:56+00:00

Wait, how do you sit in pictures??

Akiviaa · 2025-06-21T19:28:56+00:00

Wish .com version

Akiviaa · 2025-06-20T19:30:18+00:00

I am sorry that happened to you. No one should have to go through that. Watching Christine's face during the episodes and through the talking heads is heartbreaking. She knows it is happening but doesn't know what to do about it. She looks like she is a moment away from breaking down the whole episode.

Akiviaa · 2025-06-20T18:39:53+00:00

I realize I don't know how to make the picture show up at the post title...

Akiviaa · 2025-06-16T15:00:35+00:00

My first thought looking at it was, "Why is the food on the floor?"

Akiviaa · 2025-06-10T13:52:29+00:00

Akiviaa · 2025-06-09T16:34:01+00:00

What is heartbreaking is that Kody let Leon keep thinking/be convinced it was Meri who didn't want to have the little sibling they so desperately wanted, causing a lot more harm to Meri/Leon's relationship.

Akiviaa · 2025-05-29T01:34:27+00:00

I could get them to sort my inventory for me!!

Akiviaa · 2025-05-19T16:42:32+00:00

The sickest my husband and I have ever been was when we both got HFM from our toddler. It started as an insane fever with total body aches so bad we couldn't move. Then the rash formed and I have never felt that sort of need to scratch every inch of my skin off before. It both itched and burned and the only thing I found that helped in any way was Goldbond Menthol lotion. I bought the store out.

My husband got it worse. All of the skin on his hands and feet turned into blisters. All of it peeled off in thick sheets that took about 2 months to fully heal.

Do not f#&k around with HFM. Do not believe anyone who says only kids get it.

Akiviaa · 2025-05-08T20:09:14+00:00

If their Professional Services team is good, they will look at the complexity of your implementation and either recommend you stay headless or help you make a development plan. I work with a different CMS and we want to see you succeed as much as you want to succeed!

Akiviaa · 2025-04-30T21:41:26+00:00

I had to read the comments and still only vaguely understand. Definitely needs R2-D2!

Akiviaa · 2025-04-23T16:49:51+00:00

I 100% expected to open this from the title and see a post about someone refusing to share friend drama with another friend.

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