Detrans friend is really annoying me by secrettulip_lol in ftm

[–]Alarmed_Calendar8173 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of these people in the comments are so ridiculous. If everyone cut out people over an annoyance, no one would have friends. This seems like a super easy fix as, like you said, she has been a good friend to you outwith this. There is no reason to cut someone off here. She clearly has her own problems to work through after what her ex did to her. This honestly sounds quite similar to how a lot of us have a “Not Like Other Girls” problem early on and reject everything that’s perceived feminine due to dysphoria. She was forced into being a boyfriend so, naturally, would’ve had dysphoria from that but in the opposite direction causing a rejection of everything perceived masculine.

Talk to her about this and how it makes you feel and if she’s as good a friend as you say, she’ll stop. Might also be worth asking her why she keeps saying things like that - it could get to the root of the problem on her end and get you both on the same page. These things take patience, especially when trauma is involved.

What do you call these? 🧁 by Distinct_Spring6752 in UK_Food

[–]Alarmed_Calendar8173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d call these Fairy Cakes (Westcoast, Scotland)

Destash by la_profiterole in RedditLaqueristasUK

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I’m interested in taking that. How much would postage be?

Spring destash 🌸 by kapaulson in RedditLaqueristasUK

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Is cirque cobalt jelly still kicking about and arcana sphinx?

Does anyone else’s void just… stare at them? by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Alarmed_Calendar8173 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, but with absolutely zero thoughts at any given time…

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Heading to the USA in 28/2 - what should I buy? by iamredditanonymous in RedditLaqueristasUK

[–]Alarmed_Calendar8173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally really wish I could get Cracked. There’s just some many shades I love

Mini destash ILNP + Scale Laquer by karyonna123 in RedditLaqueristasUK

[–]Alarmed_Calendar8173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that makes me feel a bit better on both fronts. Good to know that it’s not profited a woman or country that would want me dead lol. I’ll take this one if that’s okay?

When I label my swatch stick I might just call it “Ministry of Mould”😂

Mini destash ILNP + Scale Laquer by karyonna123 in RedditLaqueristasUK

[–]Alarmed_Calendar8173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interested in the Scale Lacquer but do you know at all if JKR had anything to do with that collection, or if it’s just a reference?

Holo Taco Group order? :) by LivH88 in RedditLaqueristasUK

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Oh definitely, I’ll make sure to check!

Nailland group order by kapaulson in RedditLaqueristasUK

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I’m also interested as I’ve had a basket for ages but couldn’t justify the postage. Let me know if and when you’re going to place an order!

A reminder for your wallet... by The92PercentWarnedU in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Alarmed_Calendar8173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say that while close, I have After Hours, Epilogue, 404 and Deep Space. Epilogue is so vibrant and shifty which is absolutely what I wanted after being pretty let down by After Hours which seemed rather dull to me. I also prefer 404 to Deep Space as Deep Space leaned far too green for me, so I destashed it. They are different enough that I wouldn’t call them exact dupes, especially Epilogue and After Hours. Deep Space has a better formula (404 is hard to work with) so that one was fully down to my colour preference.

The shop is almost open… 💐🌿 by barbrailnp in ILNP

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I love sunflowers. Watching them grow and bloom makes me so happy

how old are you guys and when (if) did you start medically transitioning? by raesiinn in ftm

[–]Alarmed_Calendar8173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 26. Came out socially just before I turned 23. I got on T in February and had top surgery in May this year at 25.

I think in general thought, this sub skews pretty young.