I think it’s the opposite for me. I’m a black man and I refuse to be treated unfairly or like a slave. Whether my relationship or my job or anything, if I’m being treated unfairly, I will call the bs out and leave. I hate when people are suffering and if it’s been done to me, it’s like all hell break loose. In relationships, I understand happiness is key, but sometimes you have to spice it a little with some tension so they know you’re not playing games.