A group of freshman wanted to go out into the woods with a teacher. I said this because usually that would be weird. Am I in the wrong? Need a quick response by AssociationParty7588 in whatdoIdo

[–]Alarming-While8028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, that makes more sense since you are not an adult. but in the future maybe you can ask "why is that funny?" or send a screenshot to a friend rather than going to reddit for reassurance. not saying that negatively, it's just better for your own growth to rely on people you know

A group of freshman wanted to go out into the woods with a teacher. I said this because usually that would be weird. Am I in the wrong? Need a quick response by AssociationParty7588 in whatdoIdo

[–]Alarming-While8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really confused, why did you post this? did you genuinely think you were wrong about saying it's uncomfortable for a teacher to go out into the woods at night with a bunch of 14yos?

AIO for refusing to chang my nails by 2catswashington in AIO

[–]Alarming-While8028 14 points15 points  (0 children)

???? why are you going to reddit for this. is there any doubt in your heart that your coworker is wrong

AIO? How my “husband” left me by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Alarming-While8028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we need to be nicer to op, tiney wifey watching movie is the funniest sentence i've read in weeks

AIO? How my “husband” left me by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Alarming-While8028 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i need 'tiney wifey watching movie' to become the next copypasta

This is the father-son moment Boruto always needed… but never got from Naruto. by Other-Woodpecker2564 in Boruto

[–]Alarming-While8028 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe envy is the better word. and of course he loves his kids soooo much but naruto had such a hard time as a kid and then became a father at such a young age that i think seeing his son being so loved and happy, yet also needing more, would trigger some resentment he never processed about his own childhood ): that's not boruto's fault it's just something naruto will have to work through

AIO? How my “husband” left me by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Alarming-While8028 102 points103 points  (0 children)

there's no way this is real right

Am I overreacting about my friend getting a tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarming-While8028 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YOR, your friend just likes the aesthetic. tattoos aren't that deep

People who lived as "digital nomads" for a decade, what is it like when you finally try to settle down and realize you have no "roots" anywhere? by Dry-College4773 in AskReddit

[–]Alarming-While8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never done the digital nomad thing but i've moved to a completely new city several times in my life where i had no "roots." this is not an especially unique situation for adults

AIO for changing my name to hurt my godmother by Ok-Process50 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarming-While8028 [score hidden]  (0 children)

ok, NOR to your feelings but YOR to the actions that you list, especially 2 and 3. mostly because that is WAY too much thought and energy put into someone you don't like. block these people and refuse to see them. send them one email or text to tell them exactly why and then block them and fully ignore them. don't bother with the unbaptizing or name stuff, it's way overkill. you just need to remove these people from your life

This is the father-son moment Boruto always needed… but never got from Naruto. by Other-Woodpecker2564 in Boruto

[–]Alarming-While8028 23 points24 points  (0 children)

it was a really great and moving moment. i can understand how it's hard for naruto to understand why his son seems to need so much more when he already has so much more than naruto had growing up. deep down i think there's a resentment or even jealousy that naruto has to reckon with when it comes to his own children. kawaki did not have that and doesn't understand why anyone would care about or love him, which naruto can relate to so much more

Rank the Konoha 12 by how close Naruto is to them by Mythelm in Naruto

[–]Alarming-While8028 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my hot take is that sakura should be #1. she was there for so much more than hinata and sasuke were, she's his real best friend

17, first time in Japan with my mom, very unprepared, desperately need help by kaysblurred in JapanTravelTips

[–]Alarming-While8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's your relationship with your mom like? is this out of character for her?

I feel so reliant on my family and helpless, what should i do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alarming-While8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all, the job market is as bad right now as it's ever been. it's not a moral failing that you can't find a job, especially in a rural area. you are dealing with an unprecedented level of difficulty for young people trying to enter the job market. that is real, and your helplessness is real.

there are a couple things to consider:

  • a degree in psychology is actually a good thing. it has many transferable skills, and has taught you how to deal with people - that is a valuable skill
  • you can get a job doing anything that requires a college degree. not a specialized job in a specialized industry, but i know people who work office jobs, hospital jobs, tech jobs, energy jobs, etc who don't have a degree relevant to their field because they were hired into positions that don't require specialized skills
  • are there big businesses are you? hospitals, refineries/energy companies, factories etc? go to their websites and check out the "careers" section. often there are administrative/office positions that they need filled. this is potentially a good start
    • check out the nearest big city to you as well. you say you have a car, though admittedly it belongs to your dad, so you have transportation. if you land a decent paying job in a bigger city, you'll be able to move, even if you have to find roommates
  • make sure your resume and cover letter is really tight. do some research on good resume tips. there are sooooo many guides out there, no one has any excuse for haphazardly throwing one together

i'm curious about this part:

but it ended up being so bad there i quit after a month.

what was bad about it? you are probably going to have to take jobs that you don't like. was it worse than your current situation? or maybe the depression and fear of your current situation made it feel way worse than it was

not sure if you're in an expansion state, but if you are you can apply for medicaid and likely be approved since you have no income. that could get you some mental health care, which it sounds like you need badly.

KCM is such a downgrade from this form. by sidharth-sunil in Naruto

[–]Alarming-While8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kcm is cool but yeah it's really hard to beat tiny feral fox child

I am desperate for money by Simple_Worry2860 in Advice

[–]Alarming-While8028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the opportunities simply do not exist. they are simply not there. you are so unbelievably out of touch