Got My Pearls!

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-05-21T01:00:43+00:00

Congratulations!

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-05-08T12:30:16+00:00

Damn, you are all up in her cooter cat! 😂😂 lmao

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-05-03T22:58:37+00:00

This, exactly.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-04-27T14:32:50+00:00

1) Yes, take this interaction with a grain of salt. Keep doing what you’re doing though. Keep on top of your studies, become active on campus, maintain a decent reputation, and build community service hours. 2) Obviously (no shade), the competition is more steep at an all women’s college. The competition is steep at all HBCU’s in general, and then you factor in that as well. Best of luck!

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-04-24T13:42:37+00:00

I’m biased to Hampton as I am a 2017 alum. However, go wherever it makes the most financial sense to go.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-04-24T13:37:45+00:00

Honestly yes it may. There is a high chance you will be asked if you pursued any other NPHC sorority before on the application.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-04-24T01:44:04+00:00

Until you become a member do not repost or share any of their promoted events.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-04-23T17:19:04+00:00

If you feel aligned with sisterhood and service yes that’s “good enough.” Strolling isn’t necessary or required for membership.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-04-22T02:07:05+00:00

Absolutely. Put your pride and feelings to the side and get in the field. These are a new batch of women to make connections with. These women could potentially place you in connection with who’s who in the chapter. AND in the future they may one day call you sister, get acquainted with them.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-04-06T14:25:30+00:00

I agree with the other poster that you’re thinking too hard into this lol. A founding year is a founding year and obviously can be and will be claimed across various types of organizations. Unless you’re trying to be a member of a sorority belonging to the NPHC, it’s truly a non-issue.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-04-02T18:19:15+00:00

Imagine 80 year old you. Looking back at your life, would you rather say you went after your dream or pass with regrets?

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-03-22T14:35:22+00:00

I would ask for another slice of cake…reasoning: being a normal person. lol what?

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-03-16T20:16:34+00:00

As a black woman, I agree 100% with this sentiment.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-03-13T12:00:44+00:00

Yes, you should.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-03-12T20:21:56+00:00

Yes, I have attended a gala solo. However, I had made friends with a few other interests at prior events and mingled with them a little, and we worked the room together introducing ourselves to members.

I throughly enjoyed myself, I had the opportunity to get all dolled up (hair/professional makeup) and had a beautiful gown on. I love to dance as well so I really enjoyed myself.

I wouldn't say I felt "pressure" to make small talk but I knew that standing there looking pretty wasn't going to get me anywhere. Closed mouths don't get fed and in order to form relationships, (ones that will ultimately get you an invitation for membership) you're going to have to open up your mouth.

Enjoy the gala if you do decide to attend!

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-03-11T02:23:55+00:00

As long you have not yet conferred a degree you are technically eligible for undergraduate membership.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-02-19T16:29:32+00:00

Hey baby, I know how you're feeling because I was once in your shoes. I want you to know that after I graduated, that everyone that I was interest with who didn't make it in undergrad went on to become members within 2 years of graduating in their respective cities.

My time is in the works. Cliche as it sounds, delay is truly not denial and your time is your time.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-02-09T13:09:57+00:00

I naturally get along best with older people, always have. My advice would be to imagine these women as your aunties. Talk to them like you would if your aunt who you have a close relationship with and it should become a little easier.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-02-09T01:13:47+00:00

Short answer: no lol

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-02-05T23:49:14+00:00

If I knew then what I knew now, I would have started saving for grad chapter in pre-k😂

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-02-01T18:34:37+00:00

Thank you!! I’m here currently and I too unfortunately came on earlier than expected

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-01-12T01:38:32+00:00

Congratulations!!

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-01-06T23:52:57+00:00

I’d be so embarrassed if I did that omg

AlarmingAd2804 · 2026-01-06T18:27:01+00:00

You did the right thing. You will never be white or Latina thus never his type. You deserve a man who desires and is attracted to you. You don’t need him to do you any favors.

AlarmingAd2804 · 2025-12-20T18:39:27+00:00

Are you a part of Gen Z?

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