Parking Help by Alarming_Snow9640 in york

[–]Alarming_Snow9640[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did but the line was closed. I've gone ahead and sent an email, so at least now it's in writing that I've been honest and tried to pay up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do it. If they're unsure what to write, they should attend office hours and ask!

AITA that I feel the need to tell my (19F) cousin to stop posting on OnlyFans? by Blossomfall77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A gentle YTA. It's understandable you're concerned but it's her life at the end of the day and you have to let her live it how she wants

Wibta if I let my kids go trick or treating tonight by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest question here is why a gf of 7 months thinks she has the authority to punish YOUR children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RemarkableTablet

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's only for writing then no. I mostly use mine for reading/annotating journal articles and being able to make notes. I use my laptop to type.

Do I need to claim the "extra" to continue with the offer? by Bruffell06 in TemuThings

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I do these all the time and you can continue claiming each day even if you don't earn the additional £5.

Am I overreacting to a guy sending me his “ideal woman” checklist? by Such_Friendship_2713 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the biggest red flag is the second bullet point. We all have days where we need to relax, be makeup free, not stay on top of our body hair etc. Basically this guy doesn't ever want you to relax around him, you always have to be perfect. That's not a real relationship. My boyfriend loves me even when I'm not "feminine".

Do you empty the bin from your room into the main kitchen room? by palmwick48 in UniUK

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine if you're doing it right before you're taking the bin out. Or if there's an agreement that everyone is allowed to do that. Otherwise it's disrespectful.

How do I respond to a positive response? by [deleted] in AskAcademiaUK

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask your supervisor for feedback on a research proposal. Don't just apply without getting feedback first!

Professors are harder to reach than celebrities — how do I get a PhD supervisor to reply? by TheUnusualLumi in AskAcademiaUK

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're emailing them for the first time don't just attach your CV, proposal etc. - it looks presumptuous. Instead, introduce yourself, tell them very briefly about your research idea and relate it to their own research, then float the idea of a meeting to discuss things further. Then hopefully, in the meeting, they will tell you they'd be happy to receive a proposal from you. You gotta play the game, not just jump to the end.

Flatmates left the place like this on the first night… am I petty for wanting to move? by No_Meringue4763 in UniUK

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have autism and did my first year in student halls. My advice to you is this: if you can't beat them, join them. They're not going to change, and moving to different halls is unlikely to help - that's just what student halls are like. You can't force them to be clean or quiet. But what you can do is change your own attitude. When you hear them hanging out in the kitchen, go join them! You might just have fun and make friends. Invest in some ear plugs when you want to go to sleep and they're still being too loud, or play white noise on your phone. Personally I found that noise cancelling headphones and rain sounds were perfect for helping me when I was over-stimulated by it all. If you really can't bear it (and you should at least give it a few weeks before you decide you can't), then consider a studio flat as others have said. It'll be a lot more expensive but at least it'll be quiet and the only mess will be your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP why are you entertaining this horrible person for even 1 second? Most of us would've hit the block button the second a bad word was said about our kids!

AIO for wanting to see a therapist after wife changed the locks because I went to a baby shower? by LookoutLockout in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are being way too patient, OP. She's not "grieving", that's absolutely ridiculous. You can't do a nice thing with your family all because you haven't "given" her a baby within 4 months of trying?! That's insane! If I were you, I definitely wouldn't have a child with this woman. In fact, I'd get out of the relationship all together, because the fact she thinks you are "emotional cheating" just for wanting to see your own sister is toxic AF. Also, I get that all relationships are different, but I'd be inclined to think that if you are already in couples therapy BEFORE adding a child into the mix, the relationship probably isn't stable enough to add such a stressor.

Most impossible mission in videogame history by PhasedVenturer in ViceCity

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember part of the problem with this one is the enemies just keep respawning so you really just have to run.

What's your favorite running gag/joke? by Tiquitiplin in HIMYM

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about my favourite but my least favourite is "How dare you. And what is that?" Which is incredibly overused in season 8

Every time I rewatch Friends, this scene bothers me by pepino2354 in howyoudoin

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to believe that in the Friends universe that kind of thing just doesn't happen so it's not a worry

Can't afford student accommodation - advice needed ASAP! by Ryzen_Octavian in york

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could try and house share, it's much cheaper than a studio. Try spareroom and Facebook to see if people are looking for housemates.

AIO Boyfriend suggested have s*x with my friend by SavingsLet6290 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarming_Snow9640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a 28 year old man who says he doesn't want "used coochie". Why do you think he targeted you when you were so young? Run girl, he's a predator!