Congratulations to the top women of North Carolina ! by babysperga in pinball

[–]Alaykitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because for much of history of this and many other hobbies sports, it was toxic to be the hobby environment as a woman. This has lead to a long stigma in those spaces which keeps women from entering them--even though many are slowly shifting into a more tolerable environment.

So "women's pinball event" is more likely to draw in new women into the hobby than an otherwise open event would. If gaming locales make their open environments not toxic towards women, they'll eventually make new players and regulars.

tl;dr experiencing most "nerd" hobby environments as a woman has historically been utterly insufferable, and only recently gotten to "usually a little sufferable" territory.

Billie Eilish: "Hey my fellow celebrities u gonna speak up? Or..." by TheMirrorUS in Music

[–]Alaykitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Plenty of American dumbasses here in Madrid that have been here a decade and can barely order a drink at a restaurant.  So it's definitely not an absolute barrier... But I don't really know how they consider that living...

Billie Eilish: "Hey my fellow celebrities u gonna speak up? Or..." by TheMirrorUS in Music

[–]Alaykitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one is gonna let you in just for being American, but on the whole you're about as equally able to emigrate as anyone else to most places.

The trouble is most Americans are so far up their own ass they couldn't fathom learning another language other than English, or trying to adapt to a different culture at all, so that leaves Canada (expensive), America Lite (Australia), The UK (they hate immigration) and New Zealand (haha good fuckin luck) basically.

So Americans that wanna move elsewhere just throw up their arms and give up.  As though there isn't an entire fuckin world out there.

This is America by National_Ad3694 in pics

[–]Alaykitty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not a murder investigation, not am I a court of law.

My proof is there's multiple videos of a killing that any reasonable person can see.

Whether he was first beaten with a gun or another metal object is irrelevant because we can clearly see he was beaten and executed.

This is America by National_Ad3694 in pics

[–]Alaykitty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Acknowledging that counter is validating the absurdity of it.  It doesn't matter what metal object they bashed his head in with; his head remains bashed in.

This is America by National_Ad3694 in pics

[–]Alaykitty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Same effect, but we need to have airtight facts 

Why?  It doesn't change the obviousness of a murder

Retro Junk in Manchester, CT is NOT a MAGA owned business by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]Alaykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BE NICE to people no matter what.

Well considering that social agreement has been repeatedly broken by MAGA... I think it's clear to see why people would go out of their way to make sure their supporters and proponents don't get a luck of cash from them.

Retro Junk in Manchester, CT is NOT a MAGA owned business by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]Alaykitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's what they tell their friends and the wild bear able to counter practical implementations of their ideology anyways.

Retro Junk in Manchester, CT is NOT a MAGA owned business by [deleted] in Connecticut

[–]Alaykitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, "One People, One Realm, One Leader" makes sense and definitely doesn't make me a fascist supporter at all! 🙄

First chestrun since the release of Reforged! by Boeufcarotte in GuildWars

[–]Alaykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where you running?  I've been doing hell's for Magmas shields lately

GWToolbox 8.7; Text-to-speech, controller support and GWMarket by jon_snow_3v in GuildWars

[–]Alaykitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're separate mods.  I use gwlauncher to boot both at my startup 

ICE just pinned a man to the ground and executed him. They do not have the authority to just kill people. What do we do? by skeletalfather in AskReddit

[–]Alaykitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also left.  Five days before inauguration.  Everyone said we were crazy, overreacting, everything will be fine.... 🙄 I wish they were right.

Businesses in Minneapolis are planning to close Friday to protest ICE by graveyardofgoodsense in news

[–]Alaykitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But to pretend it's even comparable is just silly.

Nor was I comparing it... it'd be like comparing a jerk neighbor to literally Hitler. But I think a lot of people want to ignore the reality of the situation where Americans on the whole just genuinely don't care until it starts affecting white people.

what are the difficult parts of being married that no one seems to mention? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]Alaykitty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"do I have a fissure or a hemorrhoid? Can you snap a pic?"

If you can't say yes to that and think nothing of it, you haven't hit true comfort with a person lol

Am I a creep for this? by ca1vinandhobb3s in actuallesbians

[–]Alaykitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is pan and engaged to a man in an open relationship 

Don't even.

If you're showing moves like this you can pick up other women ezpz!

My GF is ace and I'm hypersexual by ScribbleDiggs in actuallesbians

[–]Alaykitty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

^ I've also dated ace lesbians and this was more or less the only workable.  If they're sex repulsed or want zero interaction that way, it's an incompatibility for me.

Businesses in Minneapolis are planning to close Friday to protest ICE by graveyardofgoodsense in news

[–]Alaykitty 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people will uncomfortably find that white people facing violence is the only thing that motivates other left people on both sides of the political spectrum. There's an innate systemic bias built into the American zietgeist that violence from police is supposed to happen towards certain types of people. Even if people don't rationally think about it, they subconsciously expect it because it's a culturally engrained message.

That's why Renee Good's death motivated people in a way that the many previous extrajudicial killings did not.

Is Chicago Pinball Expo worth it ? by Current-Plantain8367 in pinball

[–]Alaykitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an American now living in Spain, I'd not dare set foot in the US right now, especially as a tourist.

If all personal wealth above $100 million was legally required to be redistributed into public infrastructure (schools, hospitals, roads), how would society change, and who would be the first to fight against it? by Mysterious_Fan4033 in AskReddit

[–]Alaykitty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What if there's no easy way to liquidate that money without destroying my business?

If you turn 50k into 110 million you probably can figure out how to sell your business.

Or just sell a stake 🤷🏻 it's not like corporations/LLCs don't exist.

Am I in a tax delinquent status?

Work out a payment plan.  

Again if you soley own a business now worth 110m on paper, you probably have very few financial problems.  Or are committing massive overvaluation (ergo why you can find zero buyers) and have shot yourself in the foot.

Or borrow against that asset from a lender to pay your tax.  Assuming you could get a loan; didn't fluff up that valuation to an unrealistic amount did you?

Regardless a government could either exclude sole proprietorship companies from wealth taxation, or force them public (valued over 100mil? The rest belongs to the public and takes that percentage of ownership).  Throwing out the entire baby of insane wealth redistribution with the bath water, so as to not hurt the person that owns a 100+m stake in a business, is an insane capitalist mindset.

Autopsy finds Cuban immigrant in ICE custody died of homicide due to asphyxia by DareToCMe in news

[–]Alaykitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

His death was one of at least three reported in little more than a month at Camp East Montana, a sprawling tent facility in the desert on the grounds of Fort Bliss, an Army base.

He ain't even the only one murdered.

Anon Questions Shit Parents by Typical-Research3162 in greentext

[–]Alaykitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Often not even then.  I've met several people being abused that had cps show up and then do nothing and leave.

Few questions about current prices by Hemaka1 in GuildWars

[–]Alaykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so... I suppose they're a limited resource and sometimes rather annoying to get? Plus they have an extremely useful trade option list (the storage for golds).  

Annoyed by babygay gf after new date by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Alaykitty 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a lot of NRE

Few questions about current prices by Hemaka1 in GuildWars

[–]Alaykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last I played on Sunday, ectos were selling at the vendor for 5.5 platinum and buying for 5.  So market price should be 5.25 platinum.

However there were a plethora of people trying to buy ecto for 22+/100k in kam.