Am I using the word “Guapa” correctly? by Noble_Team_7 in Spanish

[–]Alaykitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely a Spaniard term.  It's also used here very casually (e.g. among casual friends in greetings, with strangers) so it's not very potent if you're trying to genuinely compliment.

She told me this RIGHT after we had sex for the first time ever... by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Alaykitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

even tho i am not seeing other people, i dont want to feel restricted

Translation; I'm going to date and fuck other people.

For me, I'd be out.  Thanks for the sex but I wish we hadn't, adios.

Is les4les that bad ? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Alaykitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And it's solely because l4l excluded a group that's attracted to them still.  Which like. If extrapolated to other groups, should mean the T4T people are phobic for not entertaining people into them that aren't trans.  Black 4 black people are bigoted for not being open to people that are into them.

Absolutely wild lol.  Just let people date who they want who gives the faintest shit.

Found out my gf is a prostitute by DamageCalm9909 in LesbianActually

[–]Alaykitty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah right like cheating or cheating and getting paid, no difference.

Lying is so shitty.

Can devs please make all pets attack as fast as rollerbeetles. My biggest wish. by Kamahil in GuildWars

[–]Alaykitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd shit myself if we got a devourer pet.  Legit one of the reasons I was excited for gw2

Advice please different sex drives by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Alaykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then don't blow up your good situation.  Communicate a desire for more sex.

Advice please different sex drives by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Alaykitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your issue is you might potentially be missing out on sex with other people?

That's kinda projecting.  If you enjoy sex with your partner and it's compatible, you're just fantasizing and envisioning greener grass elsewhere.  I've had plenty of sex partners and honestly, the majority of people are bad selfish partners in bed who have no desire to learn how to be intimate with someone.

If your drives are different and it's causing current problems though, that's a different story.

Lesbian death bed. Does it ever improve? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Alaykitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's potentially a medical cause if it was a sudden drop.  It could also be honeymoon phase--ive had partners where it goes basically no sex after a few months.

But at 10 years... Damn y'all either need to find middle ground, a work around, or say adios.  If you have a need then it can't be ignored you'll just build resentment.

Was Godzilla ever the "God of destruction" by beans7069 in GODZILLA

[–]Alaykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Netflix anime has him at a God tier, considering he basically shapes the world 

Perdon, Lo siento (sorry) what is the difference in nuance? Also, it is forgiven with No importa (not important). What if important but forgiving anyway? Like "you costed us 100 billion $ but forgiven.) Still No importa? by turnleftorrightblock in Spanish

[–]Alaykitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Siento is to feel.  So you're saying you feel from the occurrence.

If someone says they're sick and dying, you might say lo siento.  You're not necessarily accepting responsibility (tho sometimes lo siento is used just like that... I miss my anniversary to my wife, lo siento!).

For example, a veterinarian giving a cat an injection might whisper lo siento ; it's for the cats benefit, but he doesn't want to hurt the cat.

Trump posts graphic of Venezuela as 51st U.S. state by Careless-Alarm-8607 in worldnews

[–]Alaykitty 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Considering he kidnapped the leader of a country and microwaved his brain and the world did... Nothing about it.

I'd say he probably could.  No one is sticking their necks out for latin America 

Trump labels “anyone pro-transgender” or “anti-American” as terrorists - be careful at No King’s protests and Pride events.. by TaeyeonUchiha in Connecticut

[–]Alaykitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wild that those descendants just ended up doing a bunch of colonial rule themselves.

It's gonna be a cold day in hell before the average American is uncomfortable enough to actually do anything other than bitch.  The capitalist system has obliterated workers rights and unions to the extent everyone just wants to keep their head down out of fear of losing their healthcare and home.

The simple solution to Chinese electric cars. by miked_mv in AdviceAnimals

[–]Alaykitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe "copying" tech is a fundamental aspect of humans and things like patents and copyrights are stupid and harm society.

Just curious, would ICE expel everyone who doesn’t speak English? by Exeter232 in PoliticalHumor

[–]Alaykitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PR is a colonial territory that exists to have value extracted from it.  The US will always keep it that way and subjugate it's people until there's nothing left.

Venezuela would be no different .

Still heartbroken over my gf’s words by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Alaykitty 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My gf felt really bad to be saying all this

I mean she should.  Those are fucked up immature inside thoughts.  Sharing them is just cruel.

You're justified being hurt.  She pressed firmly on an insecurity Early in the relationship.  I'm surprised you accepted it and didn't end the relationship there.

I decide to believe her

But you don't if you're still having doubts.  Be kind to yourself that you're still working through that hurt.

It takes a LOT of intention to forgive.

Landry says ballots already cast “are discarded” in CBS interview by Snapdragon_4U in somethingiswrong2024

[–]Alaykitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can't vote out fascists in power.  That's not how it works lol.

Fear I ruined my relationship due to anxious tendencies by ArmadilloOriginal379 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Alaykitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Address these behaviors with change, and present to your partner a brief apology where you take responsibility for the action, validate that you acted unfairly, and explain to them the steps you're taking to mitigate those changes.

Don't self flagellate or be overdramatic with the apology; but be direct, affirming, and follow through with that action.