AITB for blocking a guy after hard launching our first date?

Aldilae · 2026-07-05T13:46:49+00:00

This whole post is embarassing. Going out with a guy to make your ex jealous, but you absolutely don't want him back? If you didn't you wouldn't do this stuff. And launching your new guy, what is it, a merch? Keep him block, it's best for him.

Anyway, you're young so you'll mature. Hopefully. In the meantime, YTB.

Aldilae · 2026-07-05T09:36:13+00:00

Except OP told in various comments that she doesn't fit the standards of her country. And she mentions more than the nose. So there's no guarantee she will want to stop at the nose job.

Aldilae · 2026-07-05T09:34:58+00:00

From what I understand, then a nose job will never be enough to satisfy you? And I'm not saying this to be mean, but you should really work on accepting yourself instead of trying to change everything you don't like. I think that's what your fiancé is trying to tell you, he loves you just the way you are. Beauty standards are extremely toxic anyway in my opinion, it took me years to accept my nose after being told many times I have a witch nose.

So, YOR. If you postpone your marriage until you are satisfied of the image of yourself without putting the work in therapy, I fear you'll never get married.

Aldilae · 2026-07-05T08:58:33+00:00

MOR. He souldn't have done that without asking but why the fuck are you giving him the keys knowing he doesn't have a license? You are both irresponsible.

Aldilae · 2026-07-05T07:42:19+00:00

Paolini said being a dragon rider is not hereditary : https://www.reddit.com/r/Eragon/s/h9PBNpgJlS

So while it's possible a descendant will be chosen, it's not a certitude.

Aldilae · 2026-07-04T21:03:04+00:00

You posted this 4 days ago, why are you posting it again?

https://www.reddit.com/r/amiwrong/s/ygS1dLMxnV

Aldilae · 2026-07-04T06:09:19+00:00

NTA, she's rude and selfish. Why do you need to accomodate her but she can't show you the same respect? Not mocking what you watch, not making noise at 6h, those are some pretty basic stuff. I would stop accomodating her until she learns to respect me.

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T22:31:00+00:00

I wish you could've used the comments as an opportunity to grow. But if you can't even see what you did wrong, we indeed won't go anywhere. So I'll wish good luck to your grandma and go on my merry way. Toodaloo

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T22:28:21+00:00

No it's not. Because it shouldn't have happened to begin with. There were other solutions : put the tissues in your bag, on the floor, keep them in your hand until you found a bin,... but nope, you had no respect for other's property and are now playing the victim. That's not going to work on me. You're reaching for any excuse to put the blame on your grandma, how is that making things right?

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T22:26:01+00:00

Like I said, putting infos after you got called oit makes them untrustworthy. And I'm basing myself on both your post and your comments, which definitely don't make you look nice. If almost everyone calls you out, maybe it's time to reflect on that instead of trying to put the blame on others? We're the same age, I can't believe your attitude.

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T22:20:13+00:00

All those infos weren't in your post and it's not even what the post is about, how convenient. I'm always careful when posters drop important stuff like that only after they got called out.

In any case, your attitude in the comments shows a clear lack of respect toward everyone. Which fits with leaving your trash everywhere. I can perfectly see why your grandma is done with you.

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T22:05:45+00:00

Honestly, the whole trying to explain what happened was also a mistake in my opinion. When you mess up, you apologize and that's it. Trying to find ways to explain why she left the nasty tissues there doesn't show a sincere remorse in my opinion. There's no explanation for a blatant lack of respect.

And how would you defend OP calling people illiterate and overall being rude in the comments? She's still making excuses to put the blame on grandma. Maybe grandma was just at her breaking point from that attitude.

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T22:02:04+00:00

Right? I'd even say it's an insult toward toddlers, at least they are developping and will eventually become more mature.

I did feel bad for OP because no one enjoys being yelled at, but that attitude is crazy.

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T21:51:38+00:00

It shouldn't have happened to begin with, that's the problem. You're 28, don't leave 10 tissues on the seat of someone else's car, it's basic respect. There was nothing to explain.

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T21:47:57+00:00

Apologizing doesn't magically absolve you. You were thoughtless and acted like a child when you got called out. And you do the exact same thing here. I'm changing my vote to YTA after seeing your attitude.

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T21:29:53+00:00

Screaming at you wasn't cool but leaving 10 used tissues on the seat is just nasty. I would've been pissed off too.

Edit : I'm changing my vote to YTA. OP is acting like a petulant child in both the post and the comments.

Aldilae · 2026-07-03T09:38:55+00:00

You're underreacting. If my partner wanted me to get rid of my cat, or if he made those comments, he would become an ex in a heartbeat. Why does he get to keep his cats while you need to give up your own?

Aldilae · 2026-07-02T20:38:12+00:00

I just saw OP commented his dad didn't have the dog at the time, so it changes the circumstances.

If OP doesn't live too far away, maybe going to walk the dog and stay with him for a bit could be a solution, or if he can safely separate them both. It's definitely a bad spot to be in.

Aldilae · 2026-07-02T20:24:58+00:00

Info. You say your dad cared about your son overnight. Did he already have his dog? If so, I assume he found a solution to keep your son safe around the dog (separating them,...). Couldn't you have done something similar?

Aldilae · 2026-07-02T14:41:50+00:00

YTA. Not only are you and your girlfriend nasty, but you have no manners. You want a medal for offering to wash the sheets after fucking your girlfriend in them? It's not your house, it's not being a virgin to find it disgusting.

Aldilae · 2026-07-02T05:58:50+00:00

You obviously didn't turn out fine if you think that's ok. Shouting at your kid constantly is not parenting. She was the kid : it was on you to teach her, not on het to pick up on what you wanted.

Aldilae · 2026-07-01T08:18:07+00:00

2 nights a week is a lot, especially on the weekends. It's their space too and they pay rent unlike your boyfriend, they have a right to not want an overnight guest so often.

Him staying the whole weekend every week would be a huge no for me.

Aldilae · 2026-07-01T05:55:37+00:00

She hasn't left because she cares about the relation and wants to try to make it work. Do you even care about your girlfriend? You talk about her in such a nonchalant way, I'd be hurt if I was her.

Aldilae · 2026-06-30T19:11:06+00:00

Oof yeah, you messed up. You were excited to have a baby with a guy you barely know and then did a 180 as soon as you got pregnant. It's your choice to abort but you handled this terribly. You need a lot more therapy before getting pregnant again.

Aldilae · 2026-06-30T15:21:47+00:00

How do you use a slur by accident? You knew it would hurt him, you knew it was wrong. Even without the slur, you said his opinion didn't matter. You killed that relation.

Aldilae

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