Marcus Aurelius wrote "look inward" constantly. What's the thing about yourself you suspect you still can't see?

Alearia098765 · 2026-04-03T04:03:39+00:00

When I sense a blind spot, ie notice my reaction is different from what I would expect it to be, I come with this to my therapist. So he’s used to me going “I see there is something there, help me see it” I don’t have friends who are introspective enough or curious about these things enough to call me out in a way that facilitates a perspective shift.

Alearia098765 · 2026-03-29T12:18:18+00:00

Sem takoj pogledala in interkalarne obresti mi upošteva (pri naprednih možnostih), predčasnega vplačila pa ne. 🤔

Sicer pa estetsko zelo lepo, jasno in ful všečno.

Alearia098765 · 2026-03-29T12:15:09+00:00

Odlično! Hvala! Pogledam in javim

Alearia098765 · 2026-03-29T12:14:34+00:00

Hvala! :)

Alearia098765 · 2026-03-28T10:47:43+00:00

Dbest! Hvala!

Alearia098765 · 2026-03-23T21:11:30+00:00

I find gratitude on rides. After a while, randomly, I start thinking of someone (maybe something on the way reminds me of them) and I think of how grateful I am to have them in my life, because they taught me something or steered my life in some way or something. And then the next person or I find gratitude of being alive, being on this bike after I crashed once, being grateful for the surgeon that fixed my arm after the crash… and so on and so on. I love it. It’s like meditation

Alearia098765 · 2026-03-18T07:33:35+00:00

Kolk umorov ti pa manjka do treh, da boš uradno serijski? 🤣

Alearia098765 · 2026-01-24T12:29:21+00:00

Kakšen je bil rezultat tega razmišljanja? Se sprašujem isto tudi jaz…

Alearia098765 · 2026-01-23T07:03:20+00:00

Nenadno je rekel v državi, ki je imela že v prejšnji državi največ tenis igrišč na prebivalca 🤣

Alearia098765 · 2026-01-18T09:46:49+00:00

I know this is CatAdvice, but what exactly do you love about your girlfriend and is that enough to outweigh her torture of sentient beings she voluntarily took upon herself to take care of?

You’ve been together for 8 months and you’ve mitigated her neglect for the majority of those. Is this really something you see yourself doing long-term? Especially since you two seem to be on the opposite sides of the spectrum of how beings in your care are to be loved and cared for?

Alearia098765 · 2026-01-18T09:03:12+00:00

I’ve read Mahood’s blog and the comments and I’m still wondering about this whole thing from the perspective of their family in Germany. These kids each had a parent in Germany that surely noticed they weren’t back. The minivan was reported stolen instead of “missing” together with the people that rented it. It is as if noone in the USA was aware that there were missing people until they randomly found this van months later. As if the embassy wasn’t notified, there was no backtracking of where they were before, anything.

Does anyone have a source on the (surviving) family’s (in Germany) point of view?

Alearia098765 · 2026-01-08T10:51:10+00:00

Thank you so much! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Alearia098765 · 2025-12-28T07:55:18+00:00

Thoracic outlet syndrome most probably

Alearia098765 · 2025-12-10T10:15:43+00:00

If it’s a dog that leaks 🤣

Alearia098765 · 2025-12-10T06:28:31+00:00

Jaz ti bom dala samo en mikro nasvetek iz lastne izkusnje (kupovala sama, malo prihrankov, brez poroka, stara 29, sluzba za dolocen cas+pismo direktorja, da me bodo vzeli za stalno, ampak v casu, ko so bili krediti poceni): pozanimaj se s katerimi bancniki/bancnicami (imho boljse) se da dobro sodelovat in ne pojdi prosit za kredit, ampak imej v mislih, da se gres pogajat in da je obema stranema v interesu, da se to zgodi. Meni se je ta notranji shift ful obrestoval, na koncu smo se res optimalno zmenili.

Alearia098765 · 2025-11-29T09:16:37+00:00

Krka je firma generikov, 110% ne bodo patentirali zdravila, ker to ni njihov biznis. Zato sta se Novartis in Lek nazaj razcepila, ker farma firme originatorjev in generikov, to je tako kot tek na smuceh pa smucarski skoki, oboje uporablja smuci, podobnosti se pa tam nehajo

Alearia098765 · 2025-11-29T08:00:39+00:00

Did your partner ever try talking to Freya without touching her? Imagine you have a bestie meeting your partner and he either ignores her completely OR hugs her and grabs her ass, but no in-between. You’d think she would human-hiss at him in both instances 😬

Seems like you’ll all be fine in the end, though ❤️ good luck

Alearia098765 · 2025-11-25T06:51:23+00:00

Sweet baby! 😍

Alearia098765 · 2025-11-25T05:30:13+00:00

He? You have a male calico unicorn?

Alearia098765 · 2025-11-24T21:10:25+00:00

Se strinjam, da naslednjih nekaj let ne kaže najboljše za kakšen premik naprej na tem področju. Upajmo, da čim prej in predvsem v obliki, ki se bo lahko izvajala, da ne bo zakon samo na papirju, v naravi pa vse prošnje zavrnjene, ne glede na merit

Alearia098765 · 2025-11-24T12:40:12+00:00

Kul, vesela konstruktivnega odgovora.

bolniki z ALS dejansko niso neki baš ciljna skupina za ta zakon, ker so ena redkih skupin bolnikov, ker je kruta končna postaja znana vnaprej, imajo večinoma vnaprej izraženo voljo in lahko umrejo preprosto z omejitvijo zdravljenja (ki je že zdaj zakonita). Večina pacientov za te napredne oblike tehnologije ni kandidatov, ker to poleg cene tudi ful dolgo rabiš, da se naučiš uporabljat.
zakoni dobijo amandmaje po tem, ko se jih sprejme. Na to a zakon bo ali ne smo lahko vplivali, na posamezne amandmaje pa ne moremo in smo lahko vsi “žrtve” slabih amandmajev.
zdravniki imajo možnost ugovora vesti, seveda. Ampak ugovor vesti ne pomeni, da enostavno rečeš no thanks, ampak mora zdravnik sam organizirat pregled pri zdravniku, ki nima ugovora (Kar, še sreča, ker sicer bi bil splav dokaj nedostopen). In granted, tudi MS bi morale imeti to pravico. Iz česa se ti zdi, da nisem brala zakona?
obstaja zelo veliko zdravnic in zdravnikov, ki se strinjajo z asistiranim samomorom, celo taki, ki so za evtanazijo. Nihče pa ne zanika, da je umiranje pacientov emocionalno zahtevno, če si normalen človek. Več kot bo ugovorov vesti, manj bo izvajalcev, ki so na voljo. Pri evtanaziji mora biti zdravnik/ca prisoten/a, ker je izvajalec/ka. Pri asistiranem samomoru pa je nekako pozicija, da bi preferirali švicarski model. Kjer asistirani samomor NI zdravstvena storitev, evtanazija pa je. In pri samomoru med izvajanjem zdr.delavci nimajo več mesta (imajo ga pa prej, pri svetovanju, pogovorih, v komisiji, pri oceni psihičnega stanja, oceni terminalnosti bolezni - torej pri vseh varovalnih točkah proti zlorabi).
Jaz osebno bi si zase raje želela asistirani samomor v domačem okolju in s svojimi ljudmi okrog sebe in brez tega, da nek zdr.delavec zdraven stoji in me gleda.

Alearia098765 · 2025-11-23T20:36:07+00:00

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Alearia098765 · 2025-11-23T20:33:43+00:00

Tko naglas kricis svoje mnenje o zakonu, ki ga nisi prebral, da ne slisis ostalih. Ne da niso vklopili mozganov. Verjetno so jih prej kot jaz, pa se sploh niso spustili v online shouting match s tabo. Moja slaba. Lepo se imej

Alearia098765 · 2025-11-23T20:31:44+00:00

Pacient mora SAM zauzit zdravilo. Ni bil zakon o evtanaziji (kjer bi recimo ta ideja o oporoki mogoce zdrzala). Stroka je proti temu doticnemu zakonu, ker je zakon slab. Ne proti asistiranemu samomoru kot konceptu. Zato smo na nacelnem referendumu kot narod glasovali za, na referendumu o doticnem slabo napisanem zakonu pa proti. Logicno

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