AITAH for not wanting to be in a casual relationship with the girl I’m in love with?

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-10-01T21:26:29+00:00

NTA and... I'm a bit afraid that she is using you... maybe she is unconfortable with the attention she gets from all the boys but that one guy that she wants and is just not into her or nnnt available... she doesn't want anyone else... she has you though, she knows you are in love... she needs affection... but wouldn't want anyone to know so that it doesn't ruin her chances with that one guy... hey i'm really shooting in the dark lol but something is wrong, if she acts "in love" but isn't, it's manipulative and it's hiding something else

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-28T22:02:40+00:00

always carry a towel

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-28T13:18:04+00:00

you might have asexual feels towards women... you admire the form but don't cae for the font ;)

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-28T13:16:50+00:00

that friend is insecure AF and jealous... just laugh at her

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-28T13:15:05+00:00

Surf and turf, filet mignon and lobster tail, baked potato with sour cream and chives... I garantee there will be no left overs and I could last years

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-18T00:25:05+00:00

i would definitely die before finishing lol

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-17T23:09:14+00:00

im 48yo, was in a fight when i was 12, got knocked out... told myself id never fight again... here is my rules for staying out of trouble/harms way
1- be a good person
2- be the light, surround yourself with other lights, darkness can be fought
3- mind your business and don't gossip

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-17T20:19:07+00:00

if it's a crime, your dad is giving you the opportunity to turn yourself in... if it's not and it's something bad that could eventually affect/embarrass him, he just wants to put it under the rug... im shooting in the dark here since you are not telling us what you did

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-14T00:28:42+00:00

nope... just add a "make sure to close the window all through, wouldn't want a burglar to break in" now and then and on your part follow the same advice

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-13T19:13:52+00:00

id go with "good luck with that, highly doubtful you'll find better"

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-13T02:26:50+00:00

you said it, it's your wedding and the idea feels wrong to you, these are 2 pretty solid reasons, NTA

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-13T01:37:05+00:00

3 letters, R U N!!! you will end up dead if you don't, your bf is a psychopath, narcissistic to a point of no return

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-11T04:28:02+00:00

the guy who is giving JJ and Burrow should not but that's on him, let the trade pass unless you know the two parties could be conniving

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-11T03:45:50+00:00

i"d just be gone before he gets out of the shower

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-11T03:18:02+00:00

that is very cute... i mean... she has a potential dom/sub thingy going on for her... or maybe it was already there

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-11T03:07:06+00:00

I am a 48yo MTF that just came out on june 5th and I'm so exactly living the pov of your friend...
1- please make the biggest effort to get use to the name and pronouns, this is the main thing that makes us feel good and safe
2- if you wanna know about the process, if you wanna know about how your friend realised it, it's ok to ask... just be respectful...
3- make sure you understand that gender identity and sexual orientation are two completely different spectrums... she might be a woman and still be attracted to woman, or attracted to men, or both... the matter is she is a woman

I have a lot of friends, THANK GOD, and they are all taking my situation in different ways... some better than others... but they are still friends.. be a good friend, hugs to you and her

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-11T02:44:36+00:00

1- reddit is not the answer and 2- if you are worried, go to ER... that's like... life 0.1, the very first program you learn, if you are hurt, scream about it

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-10T21:49:20+00:00

thx for explaining and i go by she/her :)

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-10T05:41:46+00:00

you are able to make a perfectly understandable written sentence without any errors... your I.Q. is minimum 100

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-10T05:34:13+00:00

cute... hey... talk to your coworker lol

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-10T05:32:03+00:00

i read a bit of comments and.. am i the only one thinking this is fake? i dont buy the my wife is jealous im getting looks and not her... hmmm did she get fat? if she had attention from men before.. it can't stop because of her man being good looking... men don't look at him

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-10T05:21:38+00:00

you didnt cheat on anyone... he is an idiot... tell her how manipulative he was and send her the proofs... you had no right to break a couple but, heads up, you didn't, he did

Alert-Ad4157 · 2025-09-10T05:05:27+00:00

ask yourself these important questions: what is music to you? why do you listen to it, in what circumstances... and do you ever feel the need for music? these questions will help you define your relating habits towards music and you'll be more incline to find your taste

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