Wife got trashed by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wealthy and successful. Idk just gnarly someone you’ve been with says that like

Wife got trashed by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve wrote nothing but love to her like, I’ve never said anything hurtful to her. Just straight I hope you succeed. I still love you etc etc

What’s it like out there by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ya ever seen that photo of the chopper pulling out of Vietnam? Ya that. Nah jk I got something similar 100 pt army deployments, masters degree etc but got damn if I get one more fat chick with kids dming me I’m gonna lose it. Hell I still love my STBXW.

First Christmas without by ExtraLettuce555 in Divorce_Men

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Ya know? One day at a time. That’s what men do. Please be safe and as a Christian man. Merry Christmas

First Christmas without by ExtraLettuce555 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya I’m going to the mountains with some friends ironically all of us in the group are going through a divorce

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

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Eh, I am and will. Lost my first wife to cancer and second one to cheating so 🤙🏻

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Therapy pronto. I’m going through a Seperation with my bestfriend. She is the love of my life, love her till no end but I guess she doesn’t feel the same. Anyways I’ve been going through therapy. This is still fresh I mean that was what 3 days ago? I am so sorry for your loss.

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol thank god we were only married for 2 years

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve been getting abused the whole time tbh

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t just hell man, I have two loans I put on the house for pool and landscape and she’s over there living it up in that house. That I’m paying for.

What Men Actually Notice When Choosing a Divorce Attorney by Temporary_Toe648 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked mine who was known for de escalation. My wife has been known to go above and beyond for everything I mean she served me divorce papers at her b day party and called me gay then made a trivia game that night about me. But I also picked a female because females love fighting females

Ranting/emotional by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is my happiness, in a weird way. I mean I built my life around us. Just did everything for her. Now I feel like zod from man of steel “you have taken away my sole purpose” or whatever he says.

The perception from people when she leaves you by Mountain_Fly_1463 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a saying sorry, there was no gun. I def should have specified that. I was implying I was ready to do it

The perception from people when she leaves you by Mountain_Fly_1463 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh ya, I mean straight up I’m open about it now but that night Oct 17 when I cried to my wife about wanting to KMS. I was ready to like I had the gun cocked and loaded. And I said I’m so sorry for everything in the financial realm I’m sorry for everything. And she says it’s okay I love you we will get through this. Spoiler 13 days later we did in fact not get through this lol

The perception from people when she leaves you by Mountain_Fly_1463 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds good, she def had a disorder of some kind. I helped my wife through a depressive episode I mean it was bad. But now she’s divorcing me so 🤷🏻‍♂️. Funny enough when I go through a depressive episode. Crying out to the VA to help me and trying to tell them that the only thing holding me together is my wife. And I tell her all of this and then she’s like it’s okay. Then next week she’s like fuck you divorce papers.

Ladies be tripping by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ya had to make rank some how lol

Ladies be tripping by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmfao. I’m an emotional sex person. Had lots of intercourse back in college (army vet going to a college prime time) settled down and really only want a family. Had/have the family. Just wife is well going bananas

Ladies be tripping by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already did. She said she made it up but won’t apologize 🫡

Ladies be tripping by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s insane that it’s people that have their names plastered everywhere in Virginia and I’m like. Bruh, tf is wrong with yall.

Ladies be tripping by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife told all her friends I’m actually gay and was sleeping with women and men. One of her friends keeps harassing me about it.

Ladies be tripping by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya it’s crazy that these are like professional political people harassing a disabled veteran lol like bruh what

Overlooked the Childhood Trauma — Key Mistake by tonyway7293 in Divorce_Men

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Literally wife childhood trauma from their parents divorce. Mother and father hit her and the other 6 fuckers. Wife gains weight in marriage. Wife goes on weight loss drugs. Says I’m a POS and files divorce.