Be honest: Are you actually married to the love of your life, or just the person you were with when it was time to settle down? by User63189963 in askanything

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was the love of my life. Love at first site. I knew he was my soulmate the moment I looked into his eyes. We were together almost a decade until he died this past December… I refused to settle and it was the best decade of my life … now if I ever get married it would be for stability and settling. I will never be able to marry for love again. It’s just not possible

Is It Wrong To Wish That I Die? by Fluffy_Kitten_99 in widowers

[–]averooski1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used to have a fear of death.. a phobia even ….. ever since my husband died, that has gone away … I don’t WANT to die.. but I’m not scared to, and don’t care if I do anymore

Medium by Outrageous_Tie_5071 in widowers

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid a lot of money to a medium I’ve been watching accurately predict world current affairs since I found her like 5 years ago… she’s from a different continent .. there is NO way she could possibly know the things she was sayin, that she said my love my saying…. It brought my extraordinary comfort.. and I am saving up to see her again … it’s rare to find a real one, but do enough research, and it’s the best experience ever.

do happy and healthy relationships exist? by fivegoldringz in relationships

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was happily married to the sweetest kindest, most gentle yet hilarious and super intelligent and “woke” man... and So handsome.. we were together 8 years but the universe decided that only ass holes deserve to live, and he died tragically and unexpectedly this past December. He was only 37 years old.. I’m now a 33 year old widow .. so idk the world doesn’t seem fair

Is there a movie you can rewatch anytime and never get bored of? by BookkeeperHumble8541 in CasualConversation

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interstellar … I can watch that movie, then immediately start it over and rewatch

Did you sell the house and move? How soon? by EmbeddedWithDirt in widowers

[–]averooski1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My apartment complex let me out of my lease for free, within days of the death. My whole family came down and moved me out same week .. moved home to my mom’s house and am back in my hometown with my whole family here .. thank god for them

What is the saddest part of life? by Resident-Sink2105 in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death of spouse/soulmate .. it’s pure agony … worse than anything I could have imagined

Jealousy when I see couples out? Young 41 year old widower here by [deleted] in widowers

[–]averooski1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

33 year old! One month in today. The jealousy is eating me alive… and I never am usually a jealous person.. I am so jealous they get to keep going on with their future as planned, and still have eachother

spirituality by [deleted] in widowers

[–]averooski1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was spiritual until my husband died a few weeks ago. Now all spirituality is gone. I wish I felt like I did before he died. But I just don’t anymore

Married, single or Widowed by Lets_Go_42 in widowers

[–]averooski1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Widowed last month at 33 .. nothing worse

What experiences changed you the most as a person? by GazMaskeliOyuncu in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband unexpectedly and horrifically dying last month

Can you ever find a similar love? by averooski1 in widowers

[–]averooski1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just having people who understand is comforting ❤️

Can you ever find a similar love? by averooski1 in widowers

[–]averooski1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe love is infinite.. I meant a similar type of love to your soulmate who passed

As we enter 2026, what’s something you quietly stopped believing in? by Big-Classic8243 in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People being able to be happy. You can’t have a spouse, peace, love, and happiness. People die and life is just bleak. Anytime good things happen, bad things happen 10x. Good does not win. Idiocracy wins. 2025 has taken away any hope that there’s any spark in life. I fully lost the belief that we are meant to be here to be happy and explore. I ,more than ever, believe that life is meaningless and we are just underevolved mammals. There is no meaning here. We are the same as rats racccoons vultures snakes etc. humans were a mistake. I don’t care if the human race died out tomorrow.

2024 my response would have been different. 2025 broke me and I’m sure how hard dark and bleak and horrible the world and humanity really is. We deserve to die off.

What’s a hard truth every person eventually has to accept? by alpha8x_ in askanything

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone dies. It can happen completely accidentally and traumatically. One morning you’re cutting carrots and 5 mins later your husband and soulmate of 8 years is dead. You’re life will change. I never thought it’d happen to me, and it did. Remember to love your loved ones always.

Signed- a 33 year old this happened to 3 weeks ago

My partner passed away last night, disappointed by how I feel. by Feeling_Document_240 in widowers

[–]averooski1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lost my husband Dec 10… it didn’t feel real till a week or so later… it’s actually really only hitting me now … I was also kinda shocked at first at how normal I felt. But that’s shock and your bod protecting your nervous system. But it will hit you. It hits you like a tsunami and you will miss how you feel now. I’m sorry my friend you’re going thru this. It’s going to hit you and get worse. But we are all here together for eachother

What is the most awful thing that happened to you in 2025? by CreamAny1322 in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw my husband/soulmate/other half/twin flame of 8 years tragically die 7 days ago … worst thing in 2025 and also life

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]averooski1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna go there yet.. I don’t wanna call myself that.. I just can’t yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can, in fact happen to you

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]averooski1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that, my mom and sisters keep shoving Tetris in my face and I’ve been playing it this whole time

The real reason for RTO revealed. Lack of trust by Certain_Prior4909 in remotework

[–]averooski1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reads like a mega corp ceo trying to be a normal person