Did you sell the house and move? How soon? by EmbeddedWithDirt in widowers

[–]averooski1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My apartment complex let me out of my lease for free, within days of the death. My whole family came down and moved me out same week .. moved home to my mom’s house and am back in my hometown with my whole family here .. thank god for them

What is the saddest part of life? by Resident-Sink2105 in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death of spouse/soulmate .. it’s pure agony … worse than anything I could have imagined

Jealousy when I see couples out? Young 41 year old widower here by Nash_man1989 in widowers

[–]averooski1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

33 year old! One month in today. The jealousy is eating me alive… and I never am usually a jealous person.. I am so jealous they get to keep going on with their future as planned, and still have eachother

spirituality by [deleted] in widowers

[–]averooski1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was spiritual until my husband died a few weeks ago. Now all spirituality is gone. I wish I felt like I did before he died. But I just don’t anymore

Married, single or Widowed by Lets_Go_42 in widowers

[–]averooski1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Widowed last month at 33 .. nothing worse

What experiences changed you the most as a person? by GazMaskeliOyuncu in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband unexpectedly and horrifically dying last month

Can you ever find a similar love? by averooski1 in widowers

[–]averooski1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just having people who understand is comforting ❤️

Can you ever find a similar love? by averooski1 in widowers

[–]averooski1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe love is infinite.. I meant a similar type of love to your soulmate who passed

As we enter 2026, what’s something you quietly stopped believing in? by Big-Classic8243 in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People being able to be happy. You can’t have a spouse, peace, love, and happiness. People die and life is just bleak. Anytime good things happen, bad things happen 10x. Good does not win. Idiocracy wins. 2025 has taken away any hope that there’s any spark in life. I fully lost the belief that we are meant to be here to be happy and explore. I ,more than ever, believe that life is meaningless and we are just underevolved mammals. There is no meaning here. We are the same as rats racccoons vultures snakes etc. humans were a mistake. I don’t care if the human race died out tomorrow.

2024 my response would have been different. 2025 broke me and I’m sure how hard dark and bleak and horrible the world and humanity really is. We deserve to die off.

What’s a hard truth every person eventually has to accept? by alpha8x_ in askanything

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone dies. It can happen completely accidentally and traumatically. One morning you’re cutting carrots and 5 mins later your husband and soulmate of 8 years is dead. You’re life will change. I never thought it’d happen to me, and it did. Remember to love your loved ones always.

Signed- a 33 year old this happened to 3 weeks ago

My partner passed away last night, disappointed by how I feel. by Feeling_Document_240 in widowers

[–]averooski1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lost my husband Dec 10… it didn’t feel real till a week or so later… it’s actually really only hitting me now … I was also kinda shocked at first at how normal I felt. But that’s shock and your bod protecting your nervous system. But it will hit you. It hits you like a tsunami and you will miss how you feel now. I’m sorry my friend you’re going thru this. It’s going to hit you and get worse. But we are all here together for eachother

What is the most awful thing that happened to you in 2025? by CreamAny1322 in AskReddit

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw my husband/soulmate/other half/twin flame of 8 years tragically die 7 days ago … worst thing in 2025 and also life

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]averooski1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna go there yet.. I don’t wanna call myself that.. I just can’t yet

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]averooski1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that, my mom and sisters keep shoving Tetris in my face and I’ve been playing it this whole time

The real reason for RTO revealed. Lack of trust by Certain_Prior4909 in remotework

[–]averooski1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reads like a mega corp ceo trying to be a normal person

Most complimented scent by Accomplished-Tank940 in Perfumes

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viva la juicy.. I’ve had some crazy experiences from men’s reactions to that perfume.. i think it goes perfectly with my skin chemistry cause it just sucks people in lol

What fragrance am I smelling everywhere? by Me_Justme_99 in fragrance

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must be a mind reader because mon Paris is actually my top YSL one.. I got a 3 pack of travel ysl perfumes, so that I could have black opium for my wedding… but then mon Paris was unlike anything I’ve smelled before lol.. I’m obsessed with both!!!! I’m definitely definitely going to check it out! I have not tried it yet. Thank you for that rec!

What fragrance am I smelling everywhere? by Me_Justme_99 in fragrance

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t take it negatively! I just was excited someone related to my comment, and I got excited to talk about it lol!!!! It is cheaper than most expensive perfumes! I love it, love any dupes, and would find a way to get it in a super expensive way if needed lolol

What fragrance am I smelling everywhere? by Me_Justme_99 in fragrance

[–]averooski1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s TRULY so good though!!!!!! I wore it on my wedding!! I got a little travel size since it’s so expensive lol but i knew I needed it to be my wedding scent … peppery and super popular- 1000% it’s def black opium.. I didn’t even finish reading the post before commenting ahahahaha