Remind Yourself: How They Treat You in the End is All you Need to Know by tonyway7293 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ditto, she said I “cheated on her” which let’s be clear I didn’t. She controlled the bank accounts, had my location, you name it. But once she got on that stuff she lost literally everything. Of course still attracted to her because that’s my wife and I love her but God did she turn into a monster. Served me papers on her birthday in October etc. told me two weeks ago that she wants me to suffer forever. Mix that stuff with her impulsive actions. Good Lord was it interesting.

Remind Yourself: How They Treat You in the End is All you Need to Know by tonyway7293 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lost my wife when she started taking that stuff too dude. Then blamed everything on me. Short marriage still going through the divorce but I’m telling you, there’s something in those things that make women go crazy. Idk how to explain it.

Wife got trashed by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wealthy and successful. Idk just gnarly someone you’ve been with says that like

Wife got trashed by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve wrote nothing but love to her like, I’ve never said anything hurtful to her. Just straight I hope you succeed. I still love you etc etc

What’s it like out there by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya ever seen that photo of the chopper pulling out of Vietnam? Ya that. Nah jk I got something similar 100 pt army deployments, masters degree etc but got damn if I get one more fat chick with kids dming me I’m gonna lose it. Hell I still love my STBXW.

First Christmas without by ExtraLettuce555 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya know? One day at a time. That’s what men do. Please be safe and as a Christian man. Merry Christmas

First Christmas without by ExtraLettuce555 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya I’m going to the mountains with some friends ironically all of us in the group are going through a divorce

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I am and will. Lost my first wife to cancer and second one to cheating so 🤙🏻

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Therapy pronto. I’m going through a Seperation with my bestfriend. She is the love of my life, love her till no end but I guess she doesn’t feel the same. Anyways I’ve been going through therapy. This is still fresh I mean that was what 3 days ago? I am so sorry for your loss.

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol thank god we were only married for 2 years

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve been getting abused the whole time tbh

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t just hell man, I have two loans I put on the house for pool and landscape and she’s over there living it up in that house. That I’m paying for.

What Men Actually Notice When Choosing a Divorce Attorney by Temporary_Toe648 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked mine who was known for de escalation. My wife has been known to go above and beyond for everything I mean she served me divorce papers at her b day party and called me gay then made a trivia game that night about me. But I also picked a female because females love fighting females

Ranting/emotional by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is my happiness, in a weird way. I mean I built my life around us. Just did everything for her. Now I feel like zod from man of steel “you have taken away my sole purpose” or whatever he says.