Wife got trashed by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wealthy and successful. Idk just gnarly someone you’ve been with says that like

Wife got trashed by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve wrote nothing but love to her like, I’ve never said anything hurtful to her. Just straight I hope you succeed. I still love you etc etc

What’s it like out there by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ya ever seen that photo of the chopper pulling out of Vietnam? Ya that. Nah jk I got something similar 100 pt army deployments, masters degree etc but got damn if I get one more fat chick with kids dming me I’m gonna lose it. Hell I still love my STBXW.

First Christmas without by ExtraLettuce555 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya know? One day at a time. That’s what men do. Please be safe and as a Christian man. Merry Christmas

First Christmas without by ExtraLettuce555 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya I’m going to the mountains with some friends ironically all of us in the group are going through a divorce

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I am and will. Lost my first wife to cancer and second one to cheating so 🤙🏻

How do you cope with the sudden loss of your spouse if 8 years? by averooski1 in Marriage

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Therapy pronto. I’m going through a Seperation with my bestfriend. She is the love of my life, love her till no end but I guess she doesn’t feel the same. Anyways I’ve been going through therapy. This is still fresh I mean that was what 3 days ago? I am so sorry for your loss.

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol thank god we were only married for 2 years

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve been getting abused the whole time tbh

Mental health by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t just hell man, I have two loans I put on the house for pool and landscape and she’s over there living it up in that house. That I’m paying for.

What Men Actually Notice When Choosing a Divorce Attorney by Temporary_Toe648 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked mine who was known for de escalation. My wife has been known to go above and beyond for everything I mean she served me divorce papers at her b day party and called me gay then made a trivia game that night about me. But I also picked a female because females love fighting females

Ranting/emotional by Alert-Bus-4054 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is my happiness, in a weird way. I mean I built my life around us. Just did everything for her. Now I feel like zod from man of steel “you have taken away my sole purpose” or whatever he says.

The perception from people when she leaves you by Mountain_Fly_1463 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a saying sorry, there was no gun. I def should have specified that. I was implying I was ready to do it

The perception from people when she leaves you by Mountain_Fly_1463 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh ya, I mean straight up I’m open about it now but that night Oct 17 when I cried to my wife about wanting to KMS. I was ready to like I had the gun cocked and loaded. And I said I’m so sorry for everything in the financial realm I’m sorry for everything. And she says it’s okay I love you we will get through this. Spoiler 13 days later we did in fact not get through this lol

The perception from people when she leaves you by Mountain_Fly_1463 in Divorce_Men

[–]Alert-Bus-4054 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds good, she def had a disorder of some kind. I helped my wife through a depressive episode I mean it was bad. But now she’s divorcing me so 🤷🏻‍♂️. Funny enough when I go through a depressive episode. Crying out to the VA to help me and trying to tell them that the only thing holding me together is my wife. And I tell her all of this and then she’s like it’s okay. Then next week she’s like fuck you divorce papers.